Synastry- Scorpio m and Aries f

What are important components to a good relationship with a Scorpio? Be it a friendship or love relationship?

i constantly read on here that Scorps put their lovers through a multitude of tests and my Scorp does not. My Gem sister has a Scorp bf and He is constantly territorial, pLaying mind games and self destructive. So i got to researching synastry tonight and I did a synastry report on my Scorp and myself. Seems like we have a lot more connections than my ex Sag and I had. Anything look bad?

Him Aspect Her. Orb/Value
Sun Trine Moon. 1.30 260
Sun Opposition Venus 2.10 93
Moon Trine Moon 2.47 156
Moon Opposition Venus 2.08 78
Moon Trine Jupiter 2.59 75
Moon Square Ascendant 2.56 -102
Mercury Square Jupiter 0.12 -172
Mercury Conjunction Saturn 3.19 107
Mercury Trine Ascendant 0.15 103
Venus Conjunction Pluto 2.53 81
Venus Opposition Midheaven 0.58 -32
Mars Square Mars 0.30 -147
Mars Sextile Saturn 0.46 65
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.36 63
Jupiter Opposition Ascendant 2.58 -50
Saturn Trine Mercury 0.21 92
Uranus Trine Ascendant 3.55 35
Neptune Square Mercury 2.44 -72
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 3.58 54
Neptune Trine Midheaven 0.33 29
Pluto Sextile Neptune 0.30 44
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 0.57 72
Pluto Opposition Midheaven 2.55 -19
1407 -594 813

Where do all of these Aries/Scorp couples pop up from? Isn't that like the most incompatible pairing ever?

Posted by enfant_terrible
Where do all of these Aries/Scorp couples pop up from? Isn't that like the most incompatible pairing ever?

Seriously ... lol. I don't get it.
My brother(Scorpio) is married to an Aries.
She is a sweetheart.. and well, he is.. himself. lols.
They seem to be able to calm each other, tho

Posted by enfant_terrible
Where do all of these Aries/Scorp couples pop up from? Isn't that like the most incompatible pairing ever?

Danny De Vito and Rhea Perlman just announced they were separating a couple of weeks ago.

Posted by Ariess
What are important components to a good relationship with a Scorpio? Be it a friendship or love relationship?

i constantly read on here that Scorps put their lovers through a multitude of tests and my Scorp does not. My Gem sister has a Scorp bf and He is constantly territorial, pLaying mind games and self destructive. So i got to researching synastry tonight and I did a synastry report on my Scorp and myself. Seems like we have a lot more connections than my ex Sag and I had. Anything look bad?

People who 'test' their 'loved one' are insecure.

It's not a sign thing, it's a 'fcuked in the head' thing.

You either trust someone or you don't. If they aren't trustworthy GTF Outta there. Of course some folks thrive on the whole drama/stress thing. Refer above.

LOL that's bullshit and I'll tell you why.

This planet is populated by people who do things differently. Some choose to sit on spikes and act all cool while trying to read their partner's mind, others choose to test their partners, sometimes instinctively.... and then there are those who take their partners for granted while the partner in question wishes they were tested at least a little bit.

I don't think I could say about anyone that they most definitely wouldn't cheat on me or leave me or whatever. Does that mean I'm insecure? No it just means I don't take people for granted. Everyone's is capable of these things. But sure, some jealous peeps take it to the extreme.....

idk about the men because i only know whom happens to be my dad, and i dont even know him very well. I cant say i dont like him but I dont like the way he has treated me through out my life. But the scorp gals in know are thee best I like them alot.

I think female Aries and male Scorps go well together. My cancer moon softens me and he admires my drive, honesty and independence. I appreciate his emotional side, humor and most definitely his loyalty. The funny thing is when I met him years ago- I absolutely hated him!!! He was so cocky and full of himself. Ha... Had to give him time to mature (said an Aries !!)

But what would be meaningful synastry components to a relationship w a Scorp? Trying to stick solely w astrology. I know relationships in general need trust, commitment, communication etc. if Aries and Scorp are the "worst" pairing- why?