Aries girl and i am so confused...

My ex who i was with for 4 years who is a pisces is the most sensitive little baby i have ever met! I literally have to tip toe around his feelings in order to keep him from getting all defensive and freaking out! Id say the entire relationship has been like this besides the 1st 2 weeks when he was completely himself and not such a big baby
i feel like i intimidate him soooo much even though i make the biggest effort to make sure i am 100% nice! Not to mention the entire time we are togethr he talks about himself endlessly and doesnt even let me get 1 word in! He tries really hard to be funny so i told him hes such a character and i love how hilarious he is.. he went into a rant saying im always talking crap about him and making him feel stupid? I just dont underatand why it is like this... no matter how much effort i put forth, every encounter ends the same.. me completely confused, and him with a bruised ego. Unfortunately, i am stuck with this guy. Hes the father of my child. :/ HELP!!!

Why are you stuck with him?

I have heard of isolated cases where the father does not live with the child and mother.

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Why are you stuck with him?

I have heard of isolated cases where the father does not live with the child and mother.

Lol. I definitely dont live with him ... we live seperately. But we have to see eachother a lot because of our child.

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Posted by AliAriesAhhh
My ex who i was with for 4 years who is a pisces is the most sensitive little baby i have ever met! I literally have to tip toe around his feelings in order to keep him from getting all defensive and freaking out! Id say the entire relationship has been like this besides the 1st 2 weeks when he was completely himself and not such a big baby
i feel like i intimidate him soooo much even though i make the biggest effort to make sure i am 100% nice! Not to mention the entire time we are togethr he talks about himself endlessly and doesnt even let me get 1 word in! He tries really hard to be funny so i told him hes such a character and i love how hilarious he is.. he went into a rant saying im always talking crap about him and making him feel stupid? I just dont underatand why it is like this... no matter how much effort i put forth, every encounter ends the same.. me completely confused, and him with a bruised ego. Unfortunately, i am stuck with this guy. Hes the father of my child. :/ HELP!!!

Hehe! Reassure him but be honest because he will know if you??re lying to protect his feelings. Ask him how you can make him feel better? Ask him what is it that you are doing that makes him feel like you??re talking crap and making him feel stupid. Tell him how his tantrums drive you bananas. Dive deep. 😄

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Ive done this a few times. Like i finally just got so annoyed that i just asked him why he acted like that. He still insists my fault... i told him that he takes everything way too personal and then gets really defensive. Is it a trait of the fish to be paranoid?

Maybe hes just crazy?

My mom's a Pisces... She's always thinking everyone's out to get her and throwing pity parties for herself.
I've also noticed she doesn't take responsibility for her role in shitty situations. Like I try and look within myself to see how something could be my fault, but she just doesn't do that. It's everyone else on the planet's fault and not her's. Her and another Pisces friend I have both love playing the victim!

The guys.... Every pisces guy I know is a whiney little bitch who runs and tells tales to boss, mom, or in general: someone with a spine and some strength.

That said... I have a hell of a lot of Pisces in my chart! Im just lucky it's not anywhere near as strong as the Leo moon and scorp rising influences I've got going on!

Posted by lotuslily
My mom's a Pisces... She's always thinking everyone's out to get her and throwing pity parties for herself.
I've also noticed she doesn't take responsibility for her role in shitty situations. Like I try and look within myself to see how something could be my fault, but she just doesn't do that. It's everyone else on the planet's fault and not her's. Her and another Pisces friend I have both love playing the victim!

The guys.... Every pisces guy I know is a whiney little bitch who runs and tells tales to boss, mom, or in general: someone with a spine and some strength.

That said... I have a hell of a lot of Pisces in my chart! Im just lucky it's not anywhere near as strong as the Leo moon and scorp rising influences I've got going on!

Wow! Crazy because i do the same thing, like when we get in our arguments where im left not having a clue whats going on, i start to think really hard if its something ive done. Oh, and he also thinks everyones like talking about him or they dont like him etc.. curious when is your moms birthday?

My ex is also a pisces - everything is someone else's fault - in particular mine, always plays the victim and martyr. .

Mama's b-day is march 17 1960.

I find there are delusions rife within camp Pisces. They have a really warped train of thought. Kinda leaves you thinking 'how the hell did they come to that conclusion?'.

I know we Aries can also be very sensitive about things but in general, we'd rather not let on that anything's wrong so that the tough nut shield doesn't come crashing down letting someone else see what soft mush we are inside.