Aries GIrl + Scorpio Guy

Can this relationship work?

Ask JT..... 😉

It will work as well as freebirds and mine. HA

Let me tell you my story:

I am an Aries female, and I know a Scorpio guy. We used to be ARCHENEMIES. I emphasize that because I used to yell at him for being such a moron, while he had to defend himself from my verbal attacks. I can get quite emotional and energetic too, given the Aries in me.

As months passed, everything calmed down. I took the initiative (the first step) to talk to him like a friend. It's pretty amazing since we had so many negative things to say about each other.

Well, a friendship was created between us. We have SO MUCH IN COMMON! Interests, ?you name it! It was creepy at first. As the days progressed, we talked to each other longer and longer to the point I talked to him from 9PM to the eve of the morning!

While I don't want a love relationship, I can sense that he has feelings for me ? as a friend and possibly as someone to love. He called me one day just to see if I was home.

This is my question: is this really love (a potential relationship) or a journey to failure?

Did you want something you could not have? why were you hostal to him at first? Is it sexual? are you kidding yourself?

I personally think that it is a journey....just a journey. When we decide what the end result "should" be...we loose. Let is unfold naturally and be excited for that alone. When we choose the result of any situation, we change how we are going to act towards that person.

It is in the stars...let it be magical. Have fun, just have fun 🙂

Like my relationship with JT...🙂

My little freebird,would I could, see the world through your eyes.

I LiKe the use of ArchEnemy.. Like.. Arch Nemisis.. Just don't hear that in everyday conversation very much.

I met a female Leo along the same lines. Worked at the same job with much friction. Fought like cats & dogs, till one day it changed (I think it was the humor in the situation).
Now we're fast friends, both at different jobs, etc.

Also like the journey comparison. I think you nailed it.

You can, JT...just put on another pair of glasses. (it's all a matter of perception). C'mon over here and I will help you. 🙂

Your "little" freebird 😉

TO JAMES TATE and ESPERNAUT:

I was hostile to him because we had different political beliefs. Now, he has realized how na?ve and selfish he was. I have known him for almost a year now. We can talk for hours if we want on the phone, given our almost similar interests.

As I stated earlier, I do not want a sexual relationship.
However, I do wonder if this friendship could possibly turn into something more.
That is all I'm asking.

Hope you don't mind me landing here and chirping my thoughts....sure, your friendship can be whatever you want it to be. Go create it......😉

When you add sex to the mix it will change. with sex 90% chance everything will change. when you add the sex it gets as personal as it can get. don't know why there are no clouds up in the sky stomery weather. good luck.

I just want to update people......

My Scorpio friend and I are legally just friends.
He happens to have a GF who is a Pisces.
Love is definitelely in bloom here between the two.
I wish him the best.

Pisces + Scorpio go well together.

Itorivia, how do you feel about that?

I would feel infuriated, incensed, jealous beyond all reason. But no one would ever know this; I would most likely go into hiding and brood about it for a month or so, then try to get revenge on both of them.

But I am glad not everyone is like me, and there are emotionally evolved people like you my dear. 🙂

I'm not sure she wanted a relationship though. She was curious. (Or am I missing the clues here?) They had a long term friendly relationship, after a rocky start.

woops, actually I think you're right. I think I slipped into one of my own past friendship/relationship experiences for a moment there. Sorry. lol. I don't know what came over me. 😛

Uhm.. I think it's called Regressional Rage Syndrome. You buying that?

Despite our different and not-so-compatible signs (he's a Scorpio, I'm an Aries), he is a really good person for conversation. I've never met a person where regardless of time and day, we can just sit together and talk about ANYTHING for hours and hours at a time. We've been doing this every day so far, and I don't think we are bored wotj each other yet lol.

It's so natural. I can't recall a friend whom I could just sit there and not have to worry about "OK...we gotta keep this chat going...." He and I have SIMILAR interests and we just never get bored of each other. In fact, I don't even have to call him...he will call me if he wants to go out, etc. lol

From experience and knowing alot of personalities of my friends, scorpio's are too emotional for the aries. Scorpios are intense, compulsive, calculating, the aries has a veneer of impulsivity and innocence. The scorpio would try to control the aries, and the aries would have tantrums because they don't like to be held down. The aries is freedom loving. They can have good sex together and maybe be friends. They are naturally magnets to each other. And no I do not have an any other (posts) for the other signs. I was sharpening up my copy and paste skills. I am obsessed with the aries. You can walk in a room and pick em out. They always the one in their smiling.

TO TRUTH

So you're saying that Aries and Scorpio are NOT compatible but they can be good friends, right?

Welcome, TRUTH 🙂

Have you recently been hurt by an Aries? Why are you obsessed with them? I am just curious and would like to hear/see what you feel/think.

Hope all is well 🙂

Itrovia:
ARIES AND SCORPIO
Love can be a bonfire between these two. They're both physical, energetic, and passionate. Sexually, everything should be finite's the emotional side of the relationship they can't handle. Each has a forceful personality and wants to control the other. In the end, Scorpio's jealousy may prove the undoing. Aires's many outside interests make Scorpio feel insecure and that brings out Scorpio's tyrannical streak. Aries won't take orders and Scorpio will never take a back seat. This is an unstable partnership with a low ignition point.

This is quoted by Aarons horoscopes site. I'm not saying each scorpion and ram will fit this mold, but in the overall it is in their best interest to explore their sexual chemistry and CAN be compatible with friends.

Freebird: I am a boring little earth sign, I am incredibly attracted to the aries energy. ok. I have two aries sisters. Maybe secretly I'm envious of their crazy boldness. I don't know, I'd have to think more about it, but I really enjoy the aries woman. Jordie

I'm like you Aprilbaby, I love earth signs too. Actually, the ones that I have been the closest to have been Cappies.

Please tell us Truth, what are you? 😉 Inquiring minds need to know.

This is a late response since I just joined this chat a couple of days ago...but, ltorivia, sounds like what I am going through with my scorp..... It's tough because I am attracted to him.....in fact...he just came into my office and I lost it again. This is a cosmic attraction and when we talk or try to get together...people come around like magnets. I really want off of this merry go round.