So there's this Aries Man, and I'm a Leo. We dated for a while, long distanced. We'd been long distancing for a while. Simply put, he lost interest, and he called off the relationship saying he doesn't "see us working out" through a text. I was devastated, cried, lost my self-respect, told him how much I love him, but I'll accept his decision. We decided to remain friends and keep the communication door open since we aren't kids. I don't know if there was anyone else, there possibly was. But then that's that. I don't know, and can't do anything about it.
Now we still talk, joke about things, random topics. I'm still very much in love with him, but I don't show it. I've met other men in the time we broke up, but I'm still finding it very very hard to move on. I know his feelings are gone, so it's easy for him to act like nothing happened.
I'm in town currently for a few days, and I really wanna meet him. It's all so different when we're together. We were talking last night, and I suggested it, and he kept dilly dallying around the topic. So, finally I changed it.
I don't know what I'm doing. Everyone tells me it's over, and I should move on. My heart doesn't agree. I'm still being hopeful thinking things will turn out. They won't would they? I do want to meet him once, should I bluntly say it leaving my pride aside?
He just called a while back...and we chatted like best buddies.. we still do..and he was telling me all these funny work stories!! I don't get it. If it's over, it's over. Why does he still hang around?
How dramatic .... sounds like you like it .. I think you should continue to be in love with him, you could milk more dramatic feelings out of it for your pleasure.
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Now we still talk, joke about things, random topics. I'm still very much in love with him, but I don't show it. I've met other men in the time we broke up, but I'm still finding it very very hard to move on. I know his feelings are gone, so it's easy for him to act like nothing happened.
I'm in town currently for a few days, and I really wanna meet him. It's all so different when we're together. We were talking last night, and I suggested it, and he kept dilly dallying around the topic. So, finally I changed it.
I don't know what I'm doing. Everyone tells me it's over, and I should move on. My heart doesn't agree. I'm still being hopeful thinking things will turn out. They won't would they? I do want to meet him once, should I bluntly say it leaving my pride aside?