Aries guys and passive aggressive tension

so there is this aries guy at my job. he is married. nothing romantic at all. i guess I am just curious.
we developed a little friendship. he is shy like me, takes time to warm up to. anyway, he is fairly new and at first i thought he had a stick up his ass because the first few months he seemed mean and would never smile. later on he started to warm up to me and he told me he likes to observe people first. So i figure he probably observed me then decided he wanted to become my friend. I was kind of hesitant about forming a friendship with this guy. i mean at first he came off one way so it took me a while to warm up. over time i realized he is a nice guy, but he has that typical aries cockiness and would say things now and then that would annoy me but i never said anything. i would just leave him talking to himself basically lol.
i never got too close to the guy and kept my distance. A few months ago there was some awkward tension between us. not exactly sure how it started, but it was there. He started to initiate some conversation after i felt that tension (and it was like negative, passive aggressive tension) but i think i was done forming any friendship with him because i realized i didn't like him as a friend THAT much, and i didn't like that feeling of whatever happened a few months back. Today he messaged me trying to make a joke, after about a month of us not talking. I think he wants to be my friend again, but for me its just too strange so id rather just keep it cordial.

i am a female scorp. I have dealt with female aries but not really with males. Has any other scorps or aries dealt with some weird tension between the two? he and i have a lot in common personality wise, which may come from our 'mars' ruled sun signs- that whole aries-scorp thing. These were kind of the base of our quick little bond. He either has moon in aries or pisces. i am betting more on pisces. He seems like he can be a little sensitive, but who knows i am no astro expert. i just think if he was double aries it would be obvious

dont really know what exactly i am trying to get at, it guess im just curious. especially when i meet someone of a sign that i have not really been familiar with previously. very interesting.

Posted by tiziani
They also find new things to get emotional over everyday, so you might be misreading. While you're building up a consistent picture of things they could be bringing into the room unspoken with you, they're actually just acting off whatever's happened on that day.

I've had Aries come to me and often tell me they will be chilling with someone and actually forget they were meant to be pissed off with them over something. Only to remember later on.

That's what I was thinking. As I said I've known women with either Aries sun or Aries placements and they tend to get over things quick and are back to their normal selves. He is different and it seems like he has held on to a certain feeling for days. Like I said this is how it felt like months ago before I really stopped talking to him which a. Makes me think he does have a pisces moon and b. it is just strange behavior for an Aries. Then again, it made me curious bc I haven't dealt with any male Aries to a large extent. Must be something else going on here.

@ feby. True, but I don't think that would have to do with his petsonality towards others. Who knows.

@tiziani. Right? That threw me off. When I learned he was an Aries it was a surprise to me.

I have heard and read here that an Aries man is like this that and the other. Astrology has made me realize you just really can't generalize. Sometimes pieces don't add up.