Aries guy starting the disappearing act

Annnnnnnnd he just texted me.
Ugh life

Thanks greengemini! I hope so too.. I really like him.
After he texted me, texted him back.. aaand back to nothingness. Deep sigh

Getting close, getting scared.

Or being busy take things off mind...

or he could be a bad texter...i know I am

Mmhmm priorities do come first before any guy, any man...

Posted by Geminivixen
And your 18.. your not even 21 yet.. you have less worries then to worry about a guy.. haha when I was 18 I was the same way and it WASTED my time because now that I am 23 I didn't know half the things I new now. Put your priorities first.

I hear you, but I'm a Capricorn.. i'm technically 80! Trust me, this isn't a case of a dumb 18 year old girl being blinded by the truth. Don't let the number of my age fool you. I live on my own, work a great job, and go to college full time. These things are all important to me, and nobody, boyfriend material or not, stopped me from getting here, nor will take it away 🙂

We met and he interested me, the conversation was effortless, and he is the one who pursued me. Like most females, I get p l e n t y of male attention, and it's never ever mattered to me. I'm definitely capable of being in a relationship, while maintaing my other responsibilities in life 🙂

I'm sorry that happened to you!! but I am a different person! 🙂

Posted by Whisper
Getting close, getting scared.

Or being busy take things off mind...

If you ask me, I think it's a combination of both. I know he's busy, and he definitely opened up to me on a VERYYYYYYY intimate, personal level.
I guess I'll just have to wait (only a little but longer geez) and see what he has to say.

Posted by Geminivixen

Posted by caliCapricorn
Thanks greengemini! I hope so too.. I really like him.
After he texted me, texted him back.. aaand back to nothingness. Deep sigh

You probably texted him back to soon.. give it 45 minutes gap before texting back. then you will have HIM in the palm of your hands heeeheeeeeeeeeeeee

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Nope 😢 Wasn't that either, actually didn't see it until almost an hour later, and even then gave it a few minutes to respond.

Posted by rachelsnow12
Hey CaliCapricorn! What is the age difference here? If it is huge, some times us old folk may have a bit more to tend to. At least I know I do now, as opposed to when I was 18. So, perhaps he is just busy or he is testing you?

Hey there!! It is quite huge haha. He did admit to being busy, but there's still a part of me that feels if he really likes me as much as he says he does, he'd talk to me no matter what. And that's how it was in the beginning. He'd call or send me a massive email even though he had such a long day and had to get up early in the morning, for work, to catch a flight etc etc. We'd always talk, even if it was 4 in the morning.
😢 guess I should be on my way then..

CaliC how old is this dude?

Where did you meet? How much do you know about him? Does he have a girlfriend?

Or should I say married?