Aries Help 2 guys, 1 girl NO CLUE WHO TO PICK!!!!!

TL😄R go to the last line for a summary 😛

Hi fellow Arians I'm back after going through a roller coaster in the last 7 months this started out rough in the end of last year start of 2013 but things are looking up for me now I feel back to my old self which I thought I lost a couple years ago but it seems like things are finally going my way this year hope it lasts.

Any way I'll stop rambling my main issue is that I'm in this big dilemma and I don't know what to do.
I'm stuck between 2 guys Taurus (this guys are like drugs to me why do I like them) and the second is Virgo. (Never dealt with a Virgo guy before).

Ok to keep the story short Taurus guy (this is a new one the last one was a fucking dickhead if you've read my last posts) Born 4th May 1990 Sun Taurus, Mars Pisces, Venus Aries (I think that's right) Not sure about Moon or Rising. (He acts very much like a fire sign so I was surprised he was a Taurus)

Virgo guy born 20th September 1984 Sun Virgo, Mars Sagittarius, Venus Libra (I think that's right) Do not know about Moon or Rising. (He is a bit shy)


I'm April 6th 1990 Aries Sun, Mars Aquarius, Venus Pisces, Moon and Rising in Virgo, Mercury in Taurus, Pluto in Scorpio (If anyone knows how to read charts that would help)

They both have pros and cons but I'm still undecided it's like I am stuck between my head and my heart.

Virgo on paper is every thing I could ever want in a guy I know my parents would like him he has a good job, great education, is so cute very sweet but can be a bit clingy sometimes, he is 100% husband material. But he always talks about superficial things like the gym all the time which I would worry that he just cares about looks and not me as a person, he sometimes talks to his friends like I'm not even there.

Taurus on the other hand is a bit more of a challenge (I love a challenge) the guy I can't stop dreaming about he's always on my mind, my heart beats every time I see him (Which he always jokes that I shouldn't be scared of him) and I always want to talk to him he is just like a male version of me funny sarcastic also cute and very sweet he always helps me at work when I need it. When I'm mad he always knows how to break my walls down (and being a stubborn Aries I crack so easy with him).
He asks me loads of questions about me instead of himself but he does reply if I ask him. He seems to care about the things I have to say and always stands by me and sits with me at lunch and there's jus

just this crazy chemistry and connection which I have never felt with anyone before.

My issue is that I would choose my heart which would be Taurus guy but Virgo seems too perfect that he's too good to be true that he would eventually run away from me because I'm not perfect.

My question is do I choose my head or my heart I want a long term relationship not something that would last a while and not end before it even begins.

HELP!!!!!!

Sorry for making it so long

What the Hell is Wrong With You—??


HEART, all the way!!!!!

Posted by dofacc
What the Hell is Wrong With You—??


HEART, all the way!!!!!

Lol thanks for replying

My intuition says heart and I just don't want to regret anything later down the line

CHOOSE YOUR HEART!
you have the opportunity to love. it doesnt come too often.

make sure you both take the time to learn each other ugly side and wonderful personality. I just got dumped when my ex saw my overprotective side (im an aries).

Awww Rammalot that happened to me once...I liked two guys equally.

But think about this, I read this somewhere and it gives some perspective on making a decision.

When trying to make a decision between two men you like equally, ask yourself, "Which one can I

picture myself sitting on the front porch with someday?"


It works like magic because there is an answer.

This is a good question to ask youself when considering marrying someone too..if you can't picture

yourself sitting on the front porch with him someday, or when you are old, he is not the one for you.




(Not literally of course, but use that as a way to narrow it down to one. Although if it works out you could be doing that!!)


By the way I am Apr 7th! One day after you!

Posted by bravalover

CHOOSE YOUR HEART!
you have the opportunity to love. it doesnt come too often.

make sure you both take the time to learn each other ugly side and wonderful personality. I just got dumped when my ex saw my overprotective side (im an aries).

Thanks for replying

I'm very overprotective person but people think it's being controlling or being possessive but it's just that I don't want to see them hurt and make sure they are safe. What's wrong with that.

Posted by sunshine222
Awww Rammalot that happened to me once...I liked two guys equally.

But think about this, I read this somewhere and it gives some perspective on making a decision.

When trying to make a decision between two men you like equally, ask yourself, "Which one can I

picture myself sitting on the front porch with someday?"


It works like magic because there is an answer.

This is a good question to ask youself when considering marrying someone too..if you can't picture

yourself sitting on the front porch with him someday, or when you are old, he is not the one for you.




(Not literally of course, but use that as a way to narrow it down to one. Although if it works out you could be doing that!!)


By the way I am Apr 7th! One day after you!

I see it with Taurus even imagining what our wedding would be like :'), but I'm scared that I'm too emotionally into him that he'll turn around and say he doesn't like me which the last Taurus did (found out he was just a player which I thought he was but gave him a chance anyway)

I'm scared to open my heart again and let my walls down since the last Taurus guy ripped my heart out and stabbed it then placed it back in me with the knife still in my heart. (Sorry for being over dramatic)

The song by Demi Lovato - Heartattack sums up how I feel right now.

Posted by starlover
**I'm scared to open my heart again and let my walls down since the last Taurus guy ripped my heart out and stabbed it then placed it back in me with the knife still in my heart. (Sorry for being over dramatic)**

^^this probably needs to change, no i mean deffo needs to change before you can have a functional r/ship with anyone. i took a year out after my marriage broke up ~~ best thing i ever did!

It's already been 7 months I'm over the last guy plus I'm not getting any younger

I just want to make sure I'm making the right decision between Taurus and Virgo because I don't want to break one of their heart intentionally then change my mind.

Lol 23 is the new 40 or 16 in my case 😛

Posted by starlover
I think Ram is saying that half of her is old (as in worrying bout getting spliced etc) and the other half not so young (as in Aries always the kid)

😉

Yeah that sums it up 🙂 What zodiac sign are you starlover?

Lol her's me thinking I got more advice but instead it's been hijacked.


I know where I'm not wanted

*grabs coat*
*walks out the door*
*Cries into a pillow*

Lol

Yes thanks 🙂

How are you?

Yes Taurus, but Virgo guy brought his friend into work to see me O_O don't know what to make of that really.

Posted by starlover
THREESOME—

Saving that for when I'm married.....


Joke



😛


Ok today Taurus and I were working and people were busking outside and Taurus asked if I sang a song what would you sing. Me being an idiot came up with the worst song ever because I was nervous and instead of saying a song about how I felt I said "Get Lucky by Daft Punk" so now he thinks all I want is just sex. I really wanted to say something like Demi Lovato - heartattack or Carly Rae Jepsen - Call me maybe but our other coworkers were interrupting our special moment.

He said he would sing "My heart will go on" and me being a dumb ass I said something sarcastic like "that's a 1990's song" -.-

I always do this I make a fool out myself or become sarcastic/shy which I think drives guys away from me and I want to show him how I feel but the last time I expressed my feelings for a guy who was a Taurus he broke my heart so I'm scared to do it again but I know I will regret it if I don't try.

I'm so conflicted !!!!!! AHHHHHH

you are an aries. we choose with our hearts.

Posted by Aine
you are an aries. we choose with our hearts.

Thanks Aine

*breaks into Aries theme song*


You better watch what you say
You better watch what you do to me
Don't get carried away
if you think you can do better than me,
go
Yeah go,
but remember

Good love is hard to find
Good love is hard to find
You got lucky babe
Yeah, you got lucky, babe
When I found you --

You put a hand on my cheek
And then you turn your eyes away
If you don't feel complete
If I don't take you all of the way
then go
Yeah go,
but remember,
good love is hard to find
You got lucky babe
Yeah you got lucky

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
*breaks into Aries theme song*


You better watch what you say
You better watch what you do to me
Don't get carried away
if you think you can do better than me,
go
Yeah go,
but remember

Good love is hard to find
Good love is hard to find
You got lucky babe
Yeah, you got lucky, babe
When I found you --

You put a hand on my cheek
And then you turn your eyes away
If you don't feel complete
If I don't take you all of the way
then go
Yeah go,
but remember,
good love is hard to find
You got lucky babe
Yeah you got lucky

Is this a real song LOL