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Aries Help...
If he really liked you he would've asked you out when you became available. Tell him that if you talk to him again & he gets jealous. Don't contact him anymore. He'll probably come around.
yeah aries love to pursue something.If he like you he sure will come and chase you.....
Two online distant relationships this summer. I am an Aries. The first I was head over heals, couldn't stop thinking about them, wanted to visit when I found the money and means, and called until I had no more minutes on my phone, couldn't wait to talk online or otherwise.
Second relationship was shortly after I called it quits with the first one. The second was just as far from me as the first, just a different state (1300 miles). I actually got a chance to meet this person before going into the online phase, and I was already set on thinking about moving west when the relationship idea came to mind, so maybe thats why I was more ready to move to be with them.
So as it stands I am currently happily in a relationship and I have moved 1300+ miles (was an exhausting move) to find a place to settle down with this person. Been living together for a month and things are great.
As far as summer relationship one, even after ending it, I am still concerned about their mood and health, so at times when I saw them post sad faces online etc, I made sure to check on them as I was truly concerned.
During the first relationship I knew I had to probably quit the online flirtation and maybe call it quits so as not to drum up something I couldn't fulfill with that person. I can see why your aries said it was too hard to keep up communications, but would still be concerned about your well being.
I guess all I have to say is yes be careful with a long distance Aries, even though they truly care about you, until its actually in the flesh and blood, its a lot of great flirting and talking all night, but unless you meet up its torture on both parts.
As far as what can be learned about the relationship I am in now, if one or both parties is ready to do a move or something, know that if the Aries is ready to say yes lets do it (if you are okay non-Aries to do something so drastic), then expect the Aries to be there for you (or move to you).
Until you decide, go with the flow and enjoy the days as they come, online flirting can go on forever with anyone and doesn't mean you have to go to a next level, if that level isn't possible yet, you can stay at long-conversation-phase and gain a confident.
Second relationship was shortly after I called it quits with the first one. The second was just as far from me as the first, just a different state (1300 miles). I actually got a chance to meet this person before going into the online phase, and I was already set on thinking about moving west when the relationship idea came to mind, so maybe thats why I was more ready to move to be with them.
So as it stands I am currently happily in a relationship and I have moved 1300+ miles (was an exhausting move) to find a place to settle down with this person. Been living together for a month and things are great.
As far as summer relationship one, even after ending it, I am still concerned about their mood and health, so at times when I saw them post sad faces online etc, I made sure to check on them as I was truly concerned.
During the first relationship I knew I had to probably quit the online flirtation and maybe call it quits so as not to drum up something I couldn't fulfill with that person. I can see why your aries said it was too hard to keep up communications, but would still be concerned about your well being.
I guess all I have to say is yes be careful with a long distance Aries, even though they truly care about you, until its actually in the flesh and blood, its a lot of great flirting and talking all night, but unless you meet up its torture on both parts.
As far as what can be learned about the relationship I am in now, if one or both parties is ready to do a move or something, know that if the Aries is ready to say yes lets do it (if you are okay non-Aries to do something so drastic), then expect the Aries to be there for you (or move to you).
Until you decide, go with the flow and enjoy the days as they come, online flirting can go on forever with anyone and doesn't mean you have to go to a next level, if that level isn't possible yet, you can stay at long-conversation-phase and gain a confident.
He lives close by,
"never met him in person but he lives not too far from me.....the other day I randomly asked him to meet me for a drink..I said weve known eachother 8 yrs, I probably know him better then alot of my friends I see daily, he said "am I going to get a blow***"
Very strange that you haven't met in person even as friends. Perhaps he has a physical/mental condition, i.e., being married that will prevent him from seeing you. Don't sweat it. Can't imagine a normal functioning Aries male who is interested in you that wouldn't want to meet.
"never met him in person but he lives not too far from me.....the other day I randomly asked him to meet me for a drink..I said weve known eachother 8 yrs, I probably know him better then alot of my friends I see daily, he said "am I going to get a blow***"
Very strange that you haven't met in person even as friends. Perhaps he has a physical/mental condition, i.e., being married that will prevent him from seeing you. Don't sweat it. Can't imagine a normal functioning Aries male who is interested in you that wouldn't want to meet.
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