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Aries Men...Are they possesive/Jealous?
Are Aries Men Possessive and Jealous
Aries men can be possessive and jealous due to their confident and competitive nature. They may react strongly to perceived threats or attention towards others. However, individual behavior varies and not all Aries men exhibit these traits. Understanding their fiery personality helps explain their reactions but does not define every Aries man's behavior.
Oh goodness...I couldnt even imagine he was serious. I thought it had to be a joke.
some are jealous. it sounds like he was joking around and just poking fun though
LOL...he asked me to take them down...and said he thought "I didnt show my body...at least that what u said". I was like jeez they are just bathing suit pics. He was like u never sent me anything like that. So I sent him one...he said NOPE..DONT WANT IT...I asked him why...he said that If I had to ask why then I wouldnt understand anyway.
The only reason I didnt know whether to take him serious is because he isnt my boyfriend and hasnt asked to be.
Ugh I totally get Lady Aries's opinion and to a certain extent being a fire sign myself, I think it's hot when my mate is a little bit possessive of me, but HE'S NOT EVEN YOUR BOYFRIEND YET. Do you really want to date a jealous guy? I think it will only get worse once you're dating and/or eventually married. (Yeah I know, big IF there, but just saying)
PS: Are you interested in him or did I just read into it too much?
Im interested in him..But i feel like you cant expect someone to act as though your in a relationship if that hasnt been clarified. Im not rushing a relationship, but before jealously is expressed, I feel other things should be expressed first.
I like a little possesiveness.......but after its understood where we stand.
Yeah,,,Thats whay I was thinking he couldnt be serious....and started to question if it was an act. But my cousin told me i always think someone is joking....and thats why I end up with crazies because I overlook things.
Well...I know I have some crazy in me...But when get possesive before we are in a relationship, I kinda lean more to the side that they are running some type of game...Because in my mind I cant fathom DISPLAYING that type of jealously without commitment, even if u feel it. Like I got a text late one night from him like Double date huh? (saw on fb)...I just laughed...next day he sent a text talking about guess he needed to go on a date...I told him to have fun...But like I said didnt take it serious.
I mean I look on his Fb. page and YES I get kind of jealous at some things but I keep it to myself because he is not MINE.
he doesnt piss me off..Just bewilders me....and YES it does seem like female tendencies...
Okay this is it...I share one GREAT kiss with him I cant forget. Best kiss I ever had. It was intense, and something indescribable to me......but then there is the red flags.
^^^ um. no, it's not. xoj
gotcha
Cancer
Listen...I dont care if u guys think im air heady,.,,,But I'm really not convinced that he is serious. Im on the fence,
But maybe thats why a leo is riding by my house on a regular...lol...bad judgement
LOL..Aries and Leos are always the ones that SINCERELY like me from the beginning...Never could stand Leos....I always got along good with aries though. My best friend is an Aries. I see what your saying about the patience thing....I cant expect everyone to operate the WAY I WOULD.
Well...it is hard and trying.....I need all cards layed out on the table for me before I jump in. I think its more fear then patience. Plus as far as the jealously thing, I dont feel I have right to confont a man over my jealous emotions (they do exist) unless we are together.
YES!!!!!! One word "Mine" whats his is his and nobody elses, and once he falls for you he is almost obsessed! I dated 2,last aries i was with 9 months! It was like that from beginning to end, than he quit his job to keep better eye on me. I never cheated on him or gave him a notion to. He just did it. DONT let him say "Well you wont care if your not hiding crap" he WILL turn it around on you. If you get with an Aries, you will have to get on your knees,hand over your freedom and have your mouth gagged,hands tied behind your back! NOT Just sexually either! LOL Good Luck!
On a plus they are good in bed... I wouldnt mind having one as a FWB but thats it LOL
Posted by CancerianGoddess
On a plus they are good in bed... I wouldnt mind having one as a FWB but thats it LOL
hahaha yup man I was with this pisces girl and she was falling for me, but I wasn't feeling the same, so I broke it off before it got too deep, but she still wanted friends with benefits, but I told her naw because she wasn't satisfying in bed... so if you ask an aries male for friends with benefits you better be good in bed too 😄
Well, now he isnt talking to me. So w/e
He aint talking to you? Well, you have two choices, show up wearing nothing but heals,stalkings and chocolate sauce OR act like you dont care and let him see you with someone hotter! okay thats mean, but hey crap happens lol
Naaa...I think because when we had the conversation,,,I laughed him off. Not sure since Im not the kind that gonna call and stroke..Called him once and text. So maybe he is calling it a wrap. Because if he doesnt come back im not going to go after him.
@cancerian Goddess......He text last night...I just ignored him. Didnt like how he made me feel when he wasnt speaking to me.
keep ignoring him till he send flowers! or dissapears lol
Yeah, I wouldve gave him the benefit of the doubt, like maybe had neen busy or something....But seeing he never ignored me before and always called me back before this incident, makes me feel like he did it purposefully. which is another form of abuse to me. I hate it when people ignore me....makes me feel shitty.
Posted by LovelyMissAries
Do you think your tendency to overlook things is because you're tired of waiting for someone sensible? Or maybe you're hoping they'll overlook your craziness? (We all have it, don't worry.)
This is profound!
Yeah..well he popped up on chat.....said something about me showing the WORLD my body.
I just want to move on from that incident. why the hell is he hanging on to that?
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Are Aries men jealous/possesive? He isnt even my BF and acts irritated by certain photos on my FB page..makes comments about things he has read on my page...its like he goes on there just to see what he can see. I was in the car with him and he pulled my page up on his phone...Are they known to be that way?