Aries ex boyfriend sent insulting text messages

I'm a Cancer. We dated for 10 months. Broke up less than 2 weeks ago. We broke up over a fight but no one really did the dumping he just assumed it was over.

Anyway, I've been trying to be friends with him. But today we got in a fight and he sent this:

"You need to realize who you are talking to because I'm not going to let some little annoying b**** talk to me that way. I don't even want to talk to you so stop f***ing texting me. Oh, and also I did have sex with Hailey that one night. Alright. Bye."

Hailey is his friend. And he's talking about a party he went to a few days after we broke up. But I didn't even say anything bad before that. I texted him back after that, no reply. At that point I was just done so I texted him again and I said:

"This is my last text to you. I just realized how much of a jerk you really are. And I think I'm a great person. I'm pretty, I'm nice and I'm caring and I deserve better. I'm glad we broke up cause now I can be with a good guy. Your # is deleted now. Have fun being a jerk. It won't get you anywhere in life."

He sent this:
"Thanks b**** (: have fun being a whore. It'll get you places. I'll be successful, whether you like it or not. I'm glad I broke up with you too."

and then I ignored that. I don't plan on texting him at all anymore. I deleted his number, his AIM, his pictures on my computer, his email.

Why the heck would he treat me like that? That's terrible. It caught me off guard. Lol.. He texted me that after I said I was finally starting to move on. He's never acted that way before. And he used to be my best friend.

So anyway... why did he act like that? Most likely because he wants me out of his life, right?

Where it says "have fun being a just like me", he actually said "have fun being a wh**re" but it blocked that out.. Lol xD

I know that now. It's hard because throughout the relationship, he went through a lot and I was there for him 100% . 2 of his friends and his grandma died, and I tried to be his best friend as well as his girlfriend. I was like a shoulder to cry on. He went as far as to say I was the "nicest person he ever met". I know aries are impulsive but those texts were just way out of line. He probably just wanted to get me to hate him so I'd stay away. Well, it worked. But me being a Cancer it's very hard for me to let go. I always tried to be kind to him and I can't see why he would verbally abuse me like that. Cause I'm not a wh*re or anything like that.

Anytime one person comes to me with a one-sided story of how something played out as far as a breakup, it is on a basis of if this person is a friend etc, or just general faith that I take their story at face value.

I don't know both of you, all I know is that its over.

Why would anyone say angry words? I would say they were angry at something you did.

I got angry messages from my last relationship ending but I pieced together why they were angry and why they thought a certain way, and I had the answer. Aries aren't gonna stalk anyone but they for sure aren't going to go back in time and be friends again if something ended very sour.

Plus could be an age related thing regarding drama among fellow co-eds or what not that caused added stress to aftermath.

I didn't do anything too wrong. There was just a lot of arguing in our relationship. Me being a Cancer I'm more sensitive, and I get jealous easily (but not too easily), and I also like to talk about my feelings. Most of the time, we just didn't get along. I still cared for him though. I lost my dad a few years ago, and he was the first one to make me truly happy ever since he passed.

I know the relationship is over. That doesn't bother me anymore. It doesn't even bother me that he had sex with someone else, what bothers me is the name calling. I thought he respected me enough not to do that. It was way too much for me. Especially since he used to be a great friend, and we used to be close.

I guess I'm just wondering if there's any chance at all down the road he'll realize the mean things he said weren't right, and we could be friends again? Even if it's after awhile. Or is that just not in an aries guy's nature?

So sorry sweetie. Think he said those things to hurt you like he was hurt. Fighting happens but when it crosses the line into saying these kinds of things, they can't be taken back making friendship very difficult or impossible.

You said there was a lot of arguing in your relationship. It shouldn't be like that. You need a man who will appreciate your sensitivity & all that you have to offer. Not all relationships work, they prove to be lessens in our life to learn about ourselves & what we need. Take what you've learned and move on. Wish you the best. 🙂

"Why the heck would he treat me like that?"

What did you do? What was the message you sent him before he told you to stop messaging him? What was the fight about?

Quit leaving stuff out.

as an aries, I can tell you right off the bat that you did something wrong for him to reject and disregard you in that manner. I do this very often. I'm too loyal, I care too much about the people I love, and I'm concerned about their well-being. But to envoke a response where I cut myself off from you and don't want anything to do with you anymore..... you've done shitty on me and I just ate the last straw.

Most people think aries are push overs at first, because we are so open hearted, open minded, and excited about other people. We want to know this person, and the more we know, the more we feel compelled about their well-being. WE will be supportive, will always make time for you, will listen, will drop what we're doing in order to be by your side, but if for the slightest thing you don't reciprocate that back at the time that we need it (and believe me, when we need it, and we ask for it, it means that we are at our weakest) then you have failed us. IT's a form of betrayal. I've experienced this too often in my 27 years of living. I could kill the person who betrays me in that form.

So, my question is, where do you think you went wrong—?

My best friend is a Cancer and a former good friend of mine is a Cancer.

You are lying/manipulating the situation and only showing us the worst parts of his character via the texts. You possibly deserved far worst than what was sent to you. You either eluded that you cheated, cheated, or lied in a way that compromised your character irreparable. If none of that is true than he does not deserve this much thought.