Aries & Marriage

I had no problem committing in a relationship but when it came to marriage, well, that is a whole other deal. As in forever. For life, we are committed and I do not take that lightly. I think some people do not take marriage as seriously as I have. When I was in my early 20's and my girlfriends were getting married, all they did was talk about how much money their fiance made, how they wanted their wedding to be like rather than focusing on the fact they were choosing a partner for life.

That's big for me. Who I wanted to spend my life with. I never dreamed of the wedding. Couldn't care less about ceremonies. Oh, how many weddings I've been in that I had to tell the chain-smoking bridezillas to remember that the wedding is about joining your lives together who the hell cares about the color of the placards? For them it was 'their day'. So narcissistic in my mind.

But this is my question is to you Aries. How do you feel about marriage? What would make you want to marry someone? Or do you even want to get married in the future? Does it scare you? (It does scare me to some extent) Have you been in weddings and what are your thoughts about them? Our ceremony will be simple but our party will be awesome! (open bar anyone?) 😉 For me, it's a big party that our family & friends should enjoy.

How do you feel about marriage?
I feel it is time I was married! It's all about finding that great person and teaming up and tackling everything together. To have someone's back and know he has mine. Whatever life throws at us. Much sex🙂

What would make you want to marry someone?
sexy, loyal, great friend & lover and expects the same from me

Or do you even want to get married in the future? YES

Does it scare you? No - but a bit worried that it won't happen for me. Very happy for you though, Mrs Taurus to be!!

Have you been in weddings and what are your thoughts about them?
Yes - felt all wrong/ended badly (the marriages, not the actual wedding ceremonies)

Our ceremony will be simple but our party will be awesome! (open bar anyone?) hell yeah
I would be happy to find a judge to make it legal, then party like it's 1999.

For me, it's a big party that our family & friends should enjoy. absalootley

I really dont like being married....its too much commitment that i was not ready for. If I ever divorce I will NEVER marry again. 😢

s/o and I being together for 9 years and a child together..he says he wants to get married on our 10th coming up this summer..so we'll see..

I never asked him to and don't really speak of it. He's been married twice before(a teen dad at 16 and in his mid 20's) and me once(for 14 years) so imo, that makes a difference for us and not jumping right in.

Kylee, you are a sweetheart. There is a very lucky man in your future.

It's good to know I'm not the only one with ambivalence regarding marriage. Like dward417 said, I don't think I'd get married again if this one didn't work out.

MysticRam: "IF I did marry I know I would just know who "the one" was for me and there would be no doubts."

Yes, this is how I always thought about it. And that is exactly how it turned out.

DetailsPlease: I felt the same way. I've had long-term relationships in the past and when things started to get rocky, I'd put my focus on it and want him to do the same. But they didn't seem to care at the time. So I tried to 'work at it' with them not caring until I left. And you know when we make that decision to leave, it is done for good. But they don't see it that way. Literally, years later they try to win you back. I don't go back. So, for me, I came to the conclusion that a man who wanted to marry me was making a vow to make our relationship work. I know it doesn't guarantee anything. A piece of paper means nothing but saying those vows in front of friends & family in my mind makes me feel more committed. Maybe I need that. Idk.

RNAP: "It's all about finding that great person and teaming up and tackling everything together. To have someone's back and know he has mine. Whatever life throws at us. Much sex

What would make you want to marry someone?
sexy, loyal, great friend & lover and expects the same from me"

^^^^Yep X 100!


jules69: You've both been there before so that's a whole other take on things. I can understand where you think it's not necessary. Would you be fine never getting married again?

Bluemoon: Would you want a life partner to help you raise your child? Personally, I believe gays should be allowed to marry. Is that important to you to have that option?

"jules69: You've both been there before so that's a whole other take on things. I can understand where you think it's not necessary. Would you be fine never getting married again?"

Yep. We live as married people. Have a child and house. Joint everything. We have an affadavit of marital partnership for legal stuff.

I was married to a Scorpio for a long, long time. I finally had to end it to preserve my sanity. I am not joking when I make this claim.

When it was good, it was real good. I find that I miss not being married. I look forward to once again having that one special person who I can trust and love without inhibition. It takes lots of hard work, but the rewards, in my opinion, far outweigh the trouble and grief associated with a fully committed relationship such as marriage.

i think marriage is very challenging cuz of all the compromise etc etc...
but i guess life would be too boring without any challenges...
so ye...bring it on =3

i'll only ever consider it though if i really love the person, and vice versa ofc..
otherwise i'd be too bored...
having a gemini rising doesnt help T_T