ARIES MEN ON THE NET

hello everyone... i have been driving myself insane for 4 months now. i met this guy online, and when we first talked we were unseperable for a week.. he would always be smiling, and laughin at everything i said or did, tears were shared aswell... and whenever i would get sad, he would do w.e. he could to make me happy again. and then it all kinda just stopped. first he said he couldnt go on cam with me anymore, then it slowly changed to him saying that he couldnt talk to me anymore because its too hard for him, he has these desires for me that he says are impossible. and the more he talks to me, the more he will want to see me, the more he sees me, the more he will want me. so he says its easier for him to stop contaact. however, if i have a broken heart in my name, or sad face, he will come out of hiding to tell me not to be sad.
now obviously im very skeptical. i can't figure out if all this is becuase he really does like me, or if he's just looking for a girl on cam to make him "finish" on his lonely nights. becuase i told him i cant do that for him on cam. and he knows this. or maybe he just got bored and is putting me down easy , with sweet talk, so he doesnt come off as the bad guy..
this whole back and forth stuff has been going on for almost 4 months now..

oh and he lives across seas.
help.

My brother met someone online overseas and they have been married for 10 years. They were just friends until she came to visit him. That's how you have to keep it until you actually meet. Their situation was probably the exception to the rule. You just don't know this guy & have no means to know him other than what he tells you. He obviously isn't willing to visit or move so he isn't willing to pursue things further. Stick to dating men in person.

LLT _this guy sounds like a Dweeb, not an Aries

As Slade said: "Run Run Away"

Girl I feel you pain same thing happen, I moved on I guess, We still talk but he just sweet talks me you know.
How is the guy now.