Aries men, please help me to understand..

I'd say he wants to be the only man in your life and at the moment that's not possible with your husband and all. He might feel insecure about the whole thing so he has ended it to avoid himself feeling shit.

It deffo sounds like he's still interested... You might have a chance when you are single. Just make sure you let him know how you really feel about him, this will make him feel a lot better.

tldr

I'm going to start a list of easy guidelines for DXP that immediately translate most issues women come here for-

It is not likely a promising scenario that you should get your panties in a twist if you-

Are "confused"
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Tell us he's "not sure" what he wants or is "hot/cold." (this also falls under the "confused" category)

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