Since my study Tourism, there is this girl in my class wich always have ignored me. It feels like we are public enemies. Althou, we have the same goal: To become a Travel Guider !. I don't get it !. why does it feel like we are public enemies and why would she ignore me ....
The one thing that doesn't help her is her eye's. In normal situations, it's hard to figure out if she is really angry or something since she has those eyes wich always look like she is angry ...
Any tips ?
*PS:While we were in Istanbul ( Turkey ) @ Excursion, she was kind to me. Her best girlfriend was in my Group and my group had to lead the whole school to a "special square"" that day. By the evaluation of that day, the teachers said that half my group was bad and would get a bad degree. On the other hand those teachers were positive about me and how i guided the group mostly.
After the teachers said they would give they're degree for tyhe group, Her best girlfriend and that virgo girl were talking to me about that day. They said that Ania and i have to say to the group that we could have done better & understand the tips they gave.
On that field, the Virgo girl was fully talking to me .... but by now ... she is in her "Fock you" attitude and not talking to me ..
explain more about that "attitude" she displays and i'll give you my 2 cents...because 'not talking to you' could mean many many things for virgos...not necessarily that they don't like you.
explain more about that "attitude" she displays and i'll give you my 2 cents...because 'not talking to you' could mean many many things for virgos...not necessarily that they don't like you.
Recently we are saying "hi " to eachother whenever she or i enter the classroom. But whe don't say a thing when we walk passed eachother in the corridors of the School.
She has this distant attitude. Like my father had :can only talk to people about work work work. and only the close friends are allowed to know what's going on in her real life...
most likely she probably has no idea that you care about her life like this. i doubt she would ignore you on purpose, unless there was some history behind...
what would an ideal situation with this girl be like for you?
there is no ideal situation between her and me. i'm not attracted to her. It's just like my class is full of girls ( and two guys) and that Virgo Girl is the one who is the most distant to me.
And she is the only Virgo who is distant. can come along with many Virgo's in general..
i get distant too after awhile. i don't like too many people knowing about me because when you start hanging out with people, they get to know you and your history. some of us have things to hide and some of us don't. personally, i like to only let a few know about me. i don't like to hang my laundry out for all to see. this distance that she is putting in between doesn't necesarily mean that she doesn't like you. it's probably just her way of guarding herself. we virgos like space and we value our privacy, at least i know i do.
agent, I second that motion; I stay to myself becuase I am aware of BOTH sides of human nature; it really all depends if I feel as if you're 'special' enough to take that risk on.
yeah virgo's are very private people, especially if they don't know you very well
i'm a leo so i like to talk to everyone, i once knew a virgo girl and i said "hi" to her, she didnt say nothing, i was like "hello—?" and she finally said "hi" really quietly but she wasn't even lookin at me, it was like she didn't wanna talk to me
i got to know her eventually and she was a very nice girl, but it was like i always had to make the first move if i wanted to talk to her, and i always had to start off the conversation, cos if i didn't she sure wouldn't!
Tight, i have the same thing with my Scorpio friend. He never knows what to say, so he keeps quiet. I tol him to just do what i do : Talk about whatever comes up in mind . He haven't tried yet. I keep on talking to him but the convo's are not long because he replies with " Close Answers ".
Yeah us scorpios only tend to speak if we have anything valuable to add..we don't spew utter rubbish...No offence..but we don't mind people that do..up to a point..
okay...i have to say though, that there are two types of virgos though...the ones that are very very shy and the ones that are only internally shy...but very outgoing outwardly, such as mua...i just thought i would clarify!
but hey this girl may be in the shy category...but i really don't think she dislikes you...
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Since my study Tourism, there is this girl in my class wich always have ignored me. It feels like we are public enemies. Althou, we have the same goal: To become a Travel Guider !. I don't get it !. why does it feel like we are public enemies and why would she ignore me ....
The one thing that doesn't help her is her eye's. In normal situations, it's hard to figure out if she is really angry or something since she has those eyes wich always look like she is angry ...
Any tips ?
*PS:While we were in Istanbul ( Turkey ) @ Excursion, she was kind to me. Her best girlfriend was in my Group and my group had to lead the whole school to a "special square"" that day. By the evaluation of that day, the teachers said that half my group was bad and would get a bad degree. On the other hand those teachers were positive about me and how i guided the group mostly.
After the teachers said they would give they're degree for tyhe group, Her best girlfriend and that virgo girl were talking to me about that day. They said that Ania and i have to say to the group that we could have done better & understand the tips they gave.
On that field, the Virgo girl was fully talking to me .... but by now ... she is in her "Fock you" attitude and not talking to me ..