Virgo/Aries experiences...........

I've just started dating an Aries.

Now, I am a typical Virgo male. Typical in the sense that, as means of advertising myself, I painted her a very very unappealing image of myself. Yet, she is still here, and interested in me. What gives?

Any of you wonderfull Aries girl ever been through a similar situation?

i have a good friend who is a virgo, i've known him for years and we both have the same cultural interest (non-mainstream music, films, literature). we can talk for hours on the phone and go to concerts and stuff, but i never had any romantic feelings for him at all and i always thought, he didn't have any either. until he sent me some birthday presents (yes, he sends them via mail, which i love to death, because there's nothing better than opening your letter box in the morning expecting bills and find presents :-)).
amongst them was a copy of a short story entitled 'one day in april, when i found the perfect girl' (well, roughly translated) and that made me think lol

Of course, being as sexy as we are, has nothing to do with it.....

"Oh you have the same bday as my ex virgo. Very sweet guy, for the most part lol"

Who cares about being "sweet"? How many orgasms did you have?

I like challenges.. I'm there are other aries women like myself. Nothing better than cracking open a tough nut.

I'm sure*

sorry for the typo..

And guess what OFA, Excess has the exact same birth date as my Mr. Virgo and also Freebird's Mr. Virgo, if I am not mistaken - coincidence or "conspiracy theory!:-)""........Excess, so delighted to hear you are on the "love trail" with a lovely aries lady

"painted her a very very unappealing image of myself" - come on now Mister E!, less humility and more displaying of your lovely assets.....hey, with your wise, sensitive, passionate personality......who wouldn't be hooked big time:-) Ms. Aries is a lucky lady.......:-)

Just make sure you don't go "sucking" too much blood, you vamp:-)

Alana x

I'm not an Aries, Excess, but, I'm married to a Virgo and I can see this from a perspective that the Aries women can't because they are emotionally involved. And, let's face it, we all have huge blind spots when it comes to our partners.

There are several Aries in our lives, friends, and my Virgo man is attracted to most of them, for an Aries female can be quite charming and seductive, they normally take care of thier figures and they present theirselves as being in charge and capable of handling everything they touch. These things are attractive to the Virgo male, who is also strong (The Virgo actually is, the Aries only gives that impression).

Anyway, I've actually talked to my V-man about these women and how he would feel about living in a relationship with them and the prognosis is not good. Though, he would definitely not kick them out of bed (what man wouldn't), it's their impulsiveness, their living for the moment, their self-serving attitudes, their disregarding of consequences - huge turn off to my V-man. Virgo's are the most grounded people imaginable, nothing is done on a whimp, everything has it's place, nothing can be left to chance. Sexually, rock on. In the rest of life, Virgo's eventually walk away and never look back.

A Virgo can't be cracked. An Aries may think they can, but, they can't. Virgo's may appear to the Aries, at first, that they are the perfect partners for them because a Virgo is quite serving to their partners. They will give all their attention, focus and concern - which the Aries loves. Me, me, me, me - give all the attention to me. The Virgo may be accommodating, because that is in their nature - to serve. But, they are also huge worriers, and the constant fretting over the Aries impulsiveness would drive the Virgo mad and he will eventually walk away. Ususally sooner, than later.

So, to conclude, my Virgo man says he'd never enter into a relationship with an Aries, except for sexual purposes only. And let's face it, Excess - you're a male Virgo, so sex is the only you want from her anyway. But, when it comes down to living in a daily relationship with a woman, the female Aries would be too egotistical for you and make your life chaotic.

Just my thoughts, not meaning to insult the wonderful Aries in here. Just speaking from my V-man's perspective.

Well said Aprilbaby...you took the words right out of my Arien heart! 😉

Excess, all you need to do is listen to YOUR heart - simple, and if you do not understand something with your Ms. Aries all you need to do is ask her. We soooo enjoy communicating along with being in a very trusting, respectful and recipricating relationship. Not all Aries are the same as Aprilbaby stated...I too, like Aprilbaby am a very grounded and strong woman (could it be that Cappy moon thang?) My Virgo man is the most incredible man and I am soooooo grateful for his presence in my life. I too am surrounded by Virgos and love 'em to pieces!

Ooooooh, Excess...true that your b-date is 8-24?

Aprilbaby, you're the exception to the rule. Have said that before. But, not many female Aries are as solid as you. I don't really know you very well, Freebird. I wasn't meaning to insult, that's just how he sees things, including the strength part. To me, who is very weak, I think Aries are strong people. And, you're right, the males and females are different. Actually, from my own persepective, I think the females are stronger and more in tune with themselves than the males. But, that's just from my own experiences.

And no, I don't have a jealous bone in my body. I know that a lot of people do, and that's something I don't quite comphrehend - the jealousy thing. Virgo's are not decietful in any way and he would tell the truth then purposely tell a falsehool for the sake of my feelings. That would be out of character to his integrity.

I know that you've been in a relationship with your V-man for a while and can speak more from a personal level. Mine is second hand, and then processed from my own reasoning of how he feels. The only part I'm sure of because he's said it a zillion times, is the impulsiveness, spur of the moment things. That drives him nuts, even with just our friends. Everything has to be planned and scheduled. I know, I'm very spontaneous too, and sometimes I know he just wants to throttle me because I'll just right out there and worry about the consequences later.

And, I hear you, Excess - about painting the picture of yourself. Mine did the same thing. And then you said, she's still here, what gives. I can't say for your Aries girl, but for me, it was because I could see his confidence, his strong willed nature, and the mystery of why he would doubt himself, when he obviously shouldn't, was the attraction to make me want to look closer. Twenty-four years later and I'm still here.

Thinking about this mix Aries/Virgo's - I think that maybe it's better the other way around. Male Aries and female Virgo. Can't say I know anyone who is in this relationship, but, it seems to me that it would be better. Mainly, sexually. Actually, I'm thinking solely sexually. Aries are passionate lovers and the passion of Virgo's don't even come close. Virgo's are more about action, then they are romance. Not that they can't be romantic, but, they aren't spontaneous enough to envision something sexually fun, or romantic. They just want the stuff, as much stuff as they can get. Though, Aries females are normally pretty horny, they also want teasing, foreplay and all that goes with. Virgo's aren't so good at that. They go right for their target and will forego the seduction and arousal and playing part of it. So, if it were the other way around - the male being Aries, who is sexually driven, fast and furious and the Virgo girl is typical Virgo and only wants the stuff, then she is more likely to let him move right in to the spot, without having to stimulate and stroke. And furthermore, since Virgo's are so kinky (in very odd ways), an Aries male would jump right on board with that because he just wants the big O for himself and the kinkier she is, the faster he can nut, which is his main goal anyway, since he's male.

Does any of this make sense?

No, that's not what I meant. I'm sorry. Maybe I didn't say it the way I was thinking it. You know, sometimes, you have a thought in your head and it sounds logical, but then when it comes out, it's different.

What I mean is, men just want to nut as much as they possibly can. Some can be loyal and faithful, but, you know, most of the time, they just want the sex, right? So, since Virgo's are about action sexually and men are about action sexually, the female Virgo is better for men. I don't necessarily mean just the female rams. I only said it in here because this is where I reading when I thought of it. Any man would get on sexually with the female Virgo. I didn't mean just Aries.

Now, I feel bad, Aprilbaby. I didn't mean to cause you to frown.

Poor OFA.......................I don't know what "marker" means....is it slang for womanizer—? That particular word hasn't hit the streets of Dublin yet!!!!!

Yes, that eye thing....gets me hooked all the time!!!!! I think it was Looney who coined the phrase about virgo eyes..."champagne eyes":-)

Bye for now OFA:-)

A x

Hmmgh...that's sweet..if It was me...I'd still be there too. I think in terms of... "NOTHING IS PERFECT"...it's the THOUGHT that counts... 😉

Thank you girls, you are the best!

As far as me and miss Aries, after a very very rocky start, we seem to be making more love then war lately. But let me tell you, it wasn't easy. I was tempted to break it off, but, she can be so disarmingly charming and sweet, when she wants to. After one particular episode, she actually told me that she knows that she is tactless sometimes, and while her family/close friends have no choice so to speak, I do - and she apologized. She definitely knows how to play me. Most of the "fights" start because I am a bit dramatic and way to proud.

What is strange tough is the fact that I enjoy our little arguments.....

The reason I made this posting, is the fact that I am a bit confused regarding the Aries woman. By reading Astrology I got the impression that they are atracted to the really strong, almost mucho man, who is a winner in every aspect.

Yet this particular woman is attracted to me - who is a far cry from the above! My business is almost ruined, I let her see first hand my neurotic and insecure side, and intead of being all manly - I am nice and sweet. On top of everything she looks so much better then me, she has two mortgages, etc.

Also for those of you with Virgo's lovers: What is the typical Virgo trait which drives you insane, and which, you love the most?

Let's share some info here.......

Ohhh ohhhh...*raising hand* my turn, my turn!!! 😉

Well, so far - nothing my Virgo man does drives me insane. I just love him the way he is and to me, he is a fresh of breath air. He is real, he is practical, goofy, he lets me see ALL of what he is, he is most definately very, very romantic, he does change his mind quite often but then I say, "hey mister...you are confusing me again - which is it?" He makes mental note...confusing woman - must make a decision. I snicker. By him being serious at times puts him in situations which absolutely touch my funny bone and I cannot stop laughing. He is funny to me and cannot understand why. Yes, very dependable, they keep their word, when they love - they love deeply from their heart and you just "know" it. Oh yeah, they sure are grounded and for the Aries woman this is security, safeness to us.

Okay...the macho guys... I suppose at one time in our lives this theory may have been true however, when we "grow up" and understand more about ourselves and what we desire it is NOT the macho men that will light our fire. They seem to lack sensitivity, thoughtfulness, affection - they seem to be more about themselves and their needs - at least this is what I have experienced.

If the Aries woman is with you - she is with you because she feels good about her relationship with you - she feels safe with you. You must be "sparking" her up in your own natural earthy way Mr. No worries, just be the fine Virgo man that you are and all will be well 😉

....and that "she looks better than me" thing? you can just dump that in the trash because it is not about looks with an Aries woman - it is about how we FEEL when we are with you. We adore realness!

Enjoy your Aries Princess Mr. Virgo Prince 🙂

What drives me nuts is the exact same thing that I love the most. Love/hate, very similar. He's Mr. Perfectionist! What a great quality to have, everything is done right the first time, and, grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr - everything doesn't have to be right!

ohhhhh....I am dating a Virgo with a Scorp rising and a Leo moon. So far sooooo good! Ya know what I so adore about this man? He has shown me his emotional explosion and it brought us so much closer together. Me thinks that you guys are "scared" or afraid of a woman seeing that side of you when in truth - it is so honest, so to the soul - I was touched that he felt he could reveal that deep part of him. Anywho...isn't that what relationships are for? I say, be who you are at all times, hold nothing back and the right person will love every bit of who you are. 😉

It is so good to finally see some activity on this incredible Aries board and dealing with Virgo's—— how lucky are we? 🙂

In gratitude,
Freebird

virgo loves aries. We bring exitement to them and they help to ground us. I have been with mine for 10 years and he has never left me for another woman.

Freebird: "Ooooooh, Excess...true that your b-date is 8-24?"

Yes, any juicy details? Come on now, don't be shy.......

VirgoLovesAries: Welcome to the boards darling. Sorry that your reason for coming here, is not that great. But that's why I came here too originally.
Trust is a very big issue, I would not trivialize it. Is this the first time that you broke his trust?
I really can't comment on your situation. 3 years is a serious complex relationship. What I can do is wish you luck though! However, if you do decide to go out with somebody else, and he finds out about it, you are DONE! I'll advice patience here.

arieslady1: 10 years with a Virgo, and all you write is 2 lines— Come on sister, you can do better!

i find virgo men irresistible they are so dawn sexy