Aries Woman Surrendering to Virgo Man

I've been dating an Aries-Taurus girl for six months (April 19th). We've had a good stable relationship, the points of contention is that she is very bossy and often whiny. Its driven me nuts. Our sexual and emotional chemistry are off the charts.
Lately, we've been taking out the frustration I have to her bossiness in foreplay in the sack, ie, when she starts bossing me around, I'll start manhandling her and then we end up making passionate love.

As of late in these love sessions, she has told me she doesn't want to be so bossy but can't help it. That she wants me to make her surrender and be a 'nice' or 'good' girl. She's grown more placid and less demanding, and as loving as she ever was.

I didn't think so, but is it really possible for the Aries girl to surrender to the Virgo man?
I feel like this will last 5 minutes and the only lasting thing will be me constantly putting her back down when she tries to step on me.

Thoughts?

BTW Her Moon is Aries and mine is Libra.
Her Venus is Aries and mine is Libra.
Her Mars is Cancer and mine is Capricorn.