Confusing Aries Male

You're only confused because you're analyzing where it doesn't need to be analyzed.

Very much agree with what is above. I personally have a very interesting job... I am also an Aries sun... although I have a bit of water and air I still can be very much an Aries.

I can tell you that there are good transits right now for love... Even more on his side. Although not bad on yours. I can tell you that I have alot of work coming up... and will be busy for like the next week doing this... even then I will have a bit more after that. We like to focus on things if they are important like that.

I can say it is a good sign he does not talk about work. It means he is really not to worried about it. Even if he was having it a little hard at work... We all know normally that our drive will come out and save us even in the worst cases. I would personally not want to talk about my work on a date... I know girls want to know because security but the reality is that is unattractive to a guy. Just like it is not romantic for a guy just to want to bang you because you are an ok looking girl. As if you are not a person or are defined by these things.

I agree with what was said above because he told you what he was doing. Some times girls will say you are too passionate or charge into quick. I know I have scared of a girl or two like this. I now try to take a slower approach. Be sides it normally makes them think about you like you are to him... bring up passion... which is really what we want.

You are a fire sign so it is like rubbing two sticks together to get fire... when any other sign would not nearly be as effective to start a fire.

I am sure that if you give it a little time or a day or two and you don't hear form him... send him a sweet text. Like I have not forgotten about you and just wanted to say I am looking forward to seeing you again.

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Wait, is this the same guy?

That said, wtf. You aren't listening to anything anybody has told you in your prior post. Stupid Sags, can't listen for a hill of shit. :/ You're just making things difficult for yourself, tbh.

Thanks for the feedback, our date was about 2 weeks ago. I know that he had car trouble and he just fixed it this week, but I also think that if the guy was actually interested in me he would contact me. But at the same token although I feel like I am the one making most the contact, I am also trying to remember that when I get super busy or have issues in my life, I tend to my priorities vs. some guy I just met. Normally I would just be like whatever, but this guy really got to me. I can honestly say there has only been one other person, who affected me like this and I'm very taken back that this guy who I've only met once. He was able to grab and keep my attention and made me want to be vulnerable. It's very weird and has me racking my brain trying to figure out why the hell I'm so intrigued or if this is just what Aries people do... And yes I am very analytical so I have no idea what rockyroadicecream means by You're only confused because you're analyzing where it doesn't need to be analyzed, my brain doesn't really work in any other way.

You're putting yourself up on a pedestal for a guy who clearly isn't that into you.

You were told this in your other thread.

You've already had some red flags, yet you still wonder. The guy isn't into you as much as you'd like and this drives that attention whore Sag side of you crazy.

By the way, if it wasn't spelled out enough- Aries guys will chase. If he's not chasing, what does that tell you?

Posted by WWRunner88
Well thank you rockyroadicecream, you are very correct in I am not accustom to this, normally the roles are reversed. I get that the Aries guy is suppose to chase, but when I talked to him he didn't seem like the chasing type, I mean the guy pretty much told either you're going to act like all those other girls and laugh and giggle and stare from afar or your going to get up and take charge and act like you want to get to know me, which took me way back because yes, I'm aggressive but only in my career I feel like he feels. Which is why I'm confused I've never been in this type of situation and he tends to be sensitive. He doesn't play into the whole coy thing, he's a "feeler" so when I say something nice or sweet i get a positive response. It's just weird really really weird. the last time I had this sensitive crap was with a LEO, but he chased and hunted me down till no end.

*sigh*

Try working on reading comprehension, will you?

Actions speak louder than words.

His actions have told you everything you need to know, but you're pulling a silly bitch move and assuming his words trump that. You will continue to be "confused" (aka reading too much into small shit and confusing yourself).

Must I also remind you that he has accounts on multiple hook up/dating sites/apps? Do you not understand what that says about him?

I mean I'm blunt and completely lack tact, but I never intentionally say something that's offensive. I just say what I'm thinking, then realize that I totally put my foot in my mouth and feel genuinely bad that I could of hurt someone's feelings but wow you really have no filter

I have no filter for those who refuse to see logic.

I saw your post history too and you were the exact same way with a Capricorn awhile back as well. Ponder away, but quit asking questions about the same situation (that has had zero change) and expecting a different outcome. That's almost the definition of insanity.

My gosh, could you be any more of a jerk? I was with that capricorn for three years before I found out he was cheating on me, so maybe you shouldn't be so much of an ass. And yes, I was taken back because I don't fall easy, it took me a year to walk away because I was in love and planning my life and about to change my career for him. Gosh, you seriously are mean, not everyone is like you and perhaps people who obviously feel like they aren't the best at judgment when crap like this happens need advice, they don't need to be ridiculed or belittled

You whined about people not "belittling" you in that thread too, which translates to "tell me what I want to hear."

If you want advice, better be semi receptive to it at least. You've shown that you're not able to do that. You want enabling, just like a lot of women here who come for "advice."

"He's a jerk and acting weird. Why is this? It has to be some fairy tale reason right? He really DOES like me, doesn't he??" See? I decoded this little comment from him. It means he's into me, doesn't it??

Look, I understand trying to wrap your head around it all. We've all been there. People are douchebags and you can't help but wonder wtf their issue is. What I don't understand is your inability to see any sort of common sense or logic beyond a typical Sag response of "HOW COULD THIS BE? I'M ME AND HOW COULD HE JUST NOT GIVE ME THE ATTENTION I'M ENTITLED TO?"

I have a Sag brother. You guys aren't a foreign species to me at all. This is what I pick up from your posts. The first one was understandable. This one just reeked of "how can he just not chase someone like me?"

Because he's not into you. Move along to someone else. You claim you're too busy to properly date, but here you are wasting a lot time on a guy who's hooking up with chicks on a fuck buddy app.

I know it'll take time to get to the "fuck it" point, but all you're doing is driving yourself crazy because YOU'RE confusing YOURSELF by trying to decipher things that don't need deciphering. Do I need to make this statement more derpy or do you actually understand this time around?

Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by rockyroadicecream
You whined about people not "belittling" you in that thread too, which translates to "tell me what I want to hear."

If you want advice, better be semi receptive to it at least. You've shown that you're not able to do that. You want enabling, just like a lot of women here who come for "advice."

"He's a jerk and acting weird. Why is this? It has to be some fairy tale reason right? He really DOES like me, doesn't he??" See? I decoded this little comment from him. It means he's into me, doesn't it??

Look, I understand trying to wrap your head around it all. We've all been there. People are douchebags and you can't help but wonder wtf their issue is. What I don't understand is your inability to see any sort of common sense or logic beyond a typical Sag response of "HOW COULD THIS BE? I'M ME AND HOW COULD HE JUST NOT GIVE ME THE ATTENTION I'M ENTITLED TO?"

I have a Sag brother. You guys aren't a foreign species to me at all. This is what I pick up from your posts. The first one was understandable. This one just reeked of "how can he just not chase someone like me?"

Because he's not into you. Move along to someone else. You claim you're too busy to properly date, but here you are wasting a lot time on a guy who's hooking up with chicks on a fuck buddy app.

I know it'll take time to get to the "fuck it" point, but all you're doing is driving yourself crazy because YOU'RE confusing YOURSELF by trying to decipher things that don't need deciphering. Do I need to make this statement more derpy or do you actually understand this time around?

Op, to summarise RRI's post - set yourself free and stop wasting time on assholes who can't straight up show you that they're interested.

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