Do I have a chance as a Capricorn with an Aries gi

Hi everyone,

Im a new user so not sure if anyone will respond to this, but ive been looking over the message boards and been really impressed by the genuine answers, so here goes...

I'm a Capricorn guy, and there is this girl I have known for about 4 years and recently have not been able to stop thinking about her. But she is an Aries and apparently this is not exactly a gd combination.
I think that there is a real connection between us, and she is the only girl i know who seems to really care about what ive been doing, etc. But is she just being polite, and do Aries generally flirt with anyone, as i get the feeling she often flirts with me.
But being a Crapricorn (no offense!) im a worrier, and will never make the first move..i keep imagining what it would be like if we were together but then it didnt work out - prob because i bored her. Apparently Aries always want something exciting to do, but I am happy spending lots of time on my own, just listening to music, etc.
Should i take a risk and try asking her how she feels? Probably the most likely thing id do is wait till we are both drunk! ...well we are students!

Thanks for any advice, hope you are all well...

NO

More info. Like "why" the recent change in your attitude?

And.. from what I've heard, Aries are quite independent as well. Definitely want their own "alone" time.

espernaut - thanks for the reply. Well i suppose the recent change is simply that now we see a lot more of each other!

JT, why did you say NO?

James why all the shouting?? This is the second post I've
read from you that was sooooo loud. 🙂
I'm curious too why did you say no?

dont worry so much, if she contacts you a lot, then that shows that she genuinely sees something interesting in you, and you might not even know it since you worry so much! =p so keep chit chatting, and grow from that! mwahahaha!

Hey Mark uk,

If you don't mind, I will pass along my experience with a Cappy man. I too am an Aries btw....

I found him to be so very funny. I loved being with him. His hugs were so comforting to me. I felt grounded when I was in his presence. We definately had a very, very strong connection and sometimes, it was very scary. I had a dream one time and he was in it. I asked him the next day questions from my dream and it turned out that it was not a dream at all but I was with him in the past. I know to some, this may sound weird but the dream was real because many years ago when he was young, he lived my dream. Now, how did I know that he had done these things? Got me. Anyway, back to Aries and Caps..... us Aries girls have no problem approaching anyone, Caps are more reserved. He sure did worry way tooooooo much and for nothing. It would have been nice if once in a while he would have let loose and had some fun instead of "working" all the time. He lives with regrets, I don't. Mark, loosen up, relax, enjoy the ride. Aries are very non~judgemental and we don't hold grudges so just be yourself (find that loosened up self) and express that. Have fun isn't that what we all came to this planet for anyway? to have fun and play? I did. Us Aries also like for the man to initiate things...makes us feel that he cares for us. I'm not saying that we don't initiate things...there are some things that just light our natural fire and once that happens...you will become a Volcano. Careful, fire is hot.

Don't worry, be happy 🙂

Thanks freebird, you wrote about this cap guy in the past tense so i get the impression it didnt work out (correct me if i'm wrong/nosy!), but still it's good to know that you found a real connection. I can't agree with you more about the whole 'having fun' attitude. If Capricorns are 'workaholics' then i think i may be an exception to that one! I plan to travel and write with everything on my terms - no 9 to 5 job like you'd expect from a workaholic.

Anyway, If you're interested I'll let you know what happens with this Aries girl...if you believe in astrology then you must like the idea of 'fate'...if it's meant to happen then maybe it will..?

Free bird if I have no answer I just say no. I have no idea if they could make it or not. Hell I live with a nut case bird who is a sag what do I know. also I drink when I write that is why the caps were on and I was not paying attention.

Yes Mark, it is past tense but we are still good friends. I say follow your heart and I think that is what you are doing...good for you 🙂

I have another male Cappy friend and one never knows what will happen there. I know for now we are great friends and I enjoy being with him.

I'm glad that you are not the typical 9 to 5-er... I have been noticing of late that more and more people are realizing that they don't like the "programmed" way of life.

Yes, I also do believe in fate...what will be will be. No matter how hard we try, we cannot run from Love, it will catch us in one way or another. I am interested and I would love if you kept me informed with your girl of FIRE....keep a water bottle handy at all times. 🙂

Thanks Mark for sharing.

Yep JT....we don't know if it will work or not....that is what is exciting about life...the NOT knowing.

So, what are you drinking while you are writing? whiskey? water? spot of tea? rum? Gosh I'm nosey....inquiring minds want to know! 😉

I drink whisky, I once got blood in my whisky stream from drinking water almost killed me.

James, You have B.A.R.S! 🙂 There is no help. 😢

Hi Aprilbaby 🙂

I am so glad to have met another species of my type...yeah and I love you too! Yes, we sure are crazy at least that is what I hear all the time but this is what makes life so exciting and fun.

My Cappy friend asked me to paint his walls for him....I don't mind just as long as he has some food and water for me and good laughs which he is always good for. 🙂