From your own mouths - Damnatas too lol

What about a person (in any context but especially physically) would make you enamored with them?

Yay, someone recognizes my Ariesness.

For me, considering I'm all Aries Moon in the beginning:

When I first meet someone I am drawn in by their spark. I have no other way to explain it. It cannot be charisma because that's surface level. It isn't character since I don't know them yet. It's like I look into their eyes and they need to sparkle..on a very low key intensity.

I have to gaze at them and imagine possibilities with them or nothing will ever translate into an attraction for me. I also gauge for depth but do this by lightly joking around.

Can they take my banter? Do they give a shit about where I come from? Can I suggest us running together in heavy rain and them not looking at me like I have 5 heads? I look for an easiness in the way they approach life. Intensity can wait for later at this point.

I am all about communicating and seeing if we??re on the same wavelength. I will talk to them about many hypothetical scenarios to see how their mind works. I do this in such a warm way, it's impossible to get defensive and question my honesty. Which makes them respond to me genuinely and I can gauge their character and their views on life.

I have no idea physically since I am not attracted to bodies. They just have "IT" or they don't. Going back to the sparkle in their eyes..

@damnata I really like that but being that Aries appear to be so... "Flighty" how do you know their pursuit is genuine or if they're truly interested OR just playing the field?

An aries coworker of mine - super sweet - says she likes nice positive people - BUT will get bored so quick it'll make their heads spin.

So how can you be confident in someone's intention?

You'll never know regardless. That's the thing with life and people. You just have to hope for the best...


...and keep an eye open for red flags.