Fellow Aries do you hold on to past relationships?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by aries415 on Sunday, April 27, 2014 and has 8 replies.

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@aries89dc
12 Years

Still holding on to the cap ex and really can't help it he lives less than five feet away from my room. I can't wait to move out because it's an interference with potential relationships. He says I'm the only one for him but still has female friends that he conversates with. This situation that I am in is complicated because I have to refer to him as a next door neighbor even though he has access to the front part of the house. Treetrunking ridiculous it seems but we are friends I have to maintain peace within myself because in the past I let everything bother me. When I let go of the anger I had for him I realized I need to focus on myself and he ways manages to keep himself within my prescence. It seems kind of like a stalker life he lives for me but maybe he really does consider me to be the one. I just refuse to go backwards.

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@araeis2014
12 Years

ohhh boyy.. thats a tough one, because in certian cases, i can move on fast, like dropping a hot potatoe. Others, a different story. It is hard for me when thre was not closure. My last bf, no closure, omly that he scared, blah blah!! 4 months, I still think of him daily, I even cry sometimes still.. But, I am trying, talking to a ex Libra. Thats another story

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

If they loved you, they will hold on for dear life but hide it all behind ego/pride. They'll love the memory of you, the story/fantasy you both shared. It's like they have an altar in their hearts and they light a candle there each night. You won't find out about it though.

If they only wanted to fuck..you can meet them on the streets and say hi and they'd be like "Who are you?". Not faking it, they won't even recall your face/body/anything.

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@purplerain
13 Years

Posted by LilyTree
Posted by VirgoFlirt
^^^^^^

lets add to that when you put an aries women in her shoes + she has respect for you, she will come back when ever shes called. even if she is married

the key aspect here is respect period

I agree that respect is a huge deal, but I don't agree with the married bit. I'd never betray my husband, even of he wasn't my first love. In fact, I'd view any attempts by my ex to contact/rekindle a friendship/relationship with me as a threat to my marriage, husband, and my loyalty that I'd be brutally harsh in my directness about not wanting to ever hear from him again.

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@purplerain
13 Years

No, I move on with a quickness, which is sometimes hard for the other one involved in the relationship. Its just what I have to do to let go of the situation. However, if they were ever truly in my heart, they will forever remain there.