He had me at hello..

I'm a 44 to Gemini that has fallen head over for a 53 yo aries. He literally had me at hello.

I met him online and after a few days of chatting we met for coffee. Wow, talk about captivating. I wanted to tell him then "I'm yours" lol. On Thursday we had our first real date, dinner at a nice restaurant and then off to a great bar for drinks and hours of conversation. Then he asked me to his place for wine and a fire, of course I said yes, things got pretty hot and as he came in for the kill kiss he said "if I'm taking you home tonight, here's your chance to leave" It literally took everything I had to scoot away and put my coat in.

I've heard from every day, he's asked to see me this week and mentioned going to a happening city for the weekend. I do NOT want to screw this up. I've never been so completely smitten. Sad to say, I am everything ever written about a gemini female, good, bad and the ugly. Normally i would have slept with him and not batted an eye, my gut was screaming no...be different.

please help me not screw this up.,.i get this odd feeling I need this man in my life.

Old habits are hard to break so with that being said, be yourself. You're both old enough to do what you want. I'm bias though, I don't believe in love at first sight and I don't believe in meeting men online so my advise will probably suck.

Try not to FALL in love with the man in front of you, let the MASK SLIP to see if his dark side is manageable, it's easy to fall for the good side of a person so being smitten with that makes no real sense given the fact that the men online change at a drop of a dime.

Just make sure he's not a Sociopath or a Narcissist FIRST (lots of them online, internet is a breeding ground for Narcs) before giving the man your heart, the panties you can give up if that's something you typically do but not the heart until you know who he really is as a person.

Ok, maybe smitten wasn't the right word. I bore easily and just couldn't get enough of him.

Be careful with men who hit the ground running, they typically run out of puff fairly quickly