AiryBri
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Help me with this Aries with Aries relationship...
So I was a little crushed and stop talking to him again. School got out for the summer and I didn't talk to him for a month. But I didn't have any friends because of all the rumors about me being a stalker. And then one day he texted me. He apologized for all he did. And said he didn't break it off with his gf or anything because he was afraid of getting rejected by me. It was ridiculous; but I bought it. I had lived a month doing NOTHING. Sitting in my house all day with no friends. I was bored out of my mind and it was a mistake. Well we texted on and off over the summer; a lot. He told me he just didn't want to break it off with his gf but he wanted to be with me more. And we sort of left it at that.
Then school started and a new girl had moved here from another state. I actually befriended her first. I met her at the orientation a week before school and gave her my number so we could hang out before school started. We did hang out and become sort of friends, we didn't click a lot but our school is so small you care a bit less about how well you get along with your friends. We didn't really hang out much but we were still friends—at least I thought. One of my other friends heard her talking shit about me with some other girl she was trying to —trade up?? to as friends. So from that I figured out she had a bad character and pretty much stopped being friends with her. She is a Taurus, moon in Capricorn so yuk anyways lol.
Anyways, school has been in for three weeks now and last week I texted the aries guy, who was still flirting with me up til now (I know STILL! Lol) and told him I just wanted to be friends, and wanted to move on emotionally. And then all of a sudden he started talking to the Taurus. Basically doing the same thing to her he did to me. I was still friendly texting him at this point. But he started acting like he didn't care about me at all. And he tried to make it really obvious that he was —interested?? in her when I was around, (inside jokes, talking about how they texted all night, etc, etc) I didn't think much of it until the other night when I texted him and asked if he was going to this event thing this weekend (I wanted a ride) and he doesn't text me back until 4 hours later, at midnight (a school night), and he says —Oh sorry, can't text right now, I'm hanging out with (insert the Taurus new girl??s name here), I??ll talk to you later?? and he never texted me again (this was two days ago). I
Then school started and a new girl had moved here from another state. I actually befriended her first. I met her at the orientation a week before school and gave her my number so we could hang out before school started. We did hang out and become sort of friends, we didn't click a lot but our school is so small you care a bit less about how well you get along with your friends. We didn't really hang out much but we were still friends—at least I thought. One of my other friends heard her talking shit about me with some other girl she was trying to —trade up?? to as friends. So from that I figured out she had a bad character and pretty much stopped being friends with her. She is a Taurus, moon in Capricorn so yuk anyways lol.
Anyways, school has been in for three weeks now and last week I texted the aries guy, who was still flirting with me up til now (I know STILL! Lol) and told him I just wanted to be friends, and wanted to move on emotionally. And then all of a sudden he started talking to the Taurus. Basically doing the same thing to her he did to me. I was still friendly texting him at this point. But he started acting like he didn't care about me at all. And he tried to make it really obvious that he was —interested?? in her when I was around, (inside jokes, talking about how they texted all night, etc, etc) I didn't think much of it until the other night when I texted him and asked if he was going to this event thing this weekend (I wanted a ride) and he doesn't text me back until 4 hours later, at midnight (a school night), and he says —Oh sorry, can't text right now, I'm hanging out with (insert the Taurus new girl??s name here), I??ll talk to you later?? and he never texted me again (this was two days ago). I
holy jeez there was still more lol
...I think this spelled it out to me that he was trying to make me jelous like —oh sorry, I can't even be bothered to text YOU I'm hanging out with her??_??
Can anyone tell me what they think he is doing? Just playing with another new girl? Trying to get me to chase him again? Trying to tell me to move on? Anyone know what I should do? Confront him, tell the new girl about what happened to me, let his gf know he is an ass hole? I have a whole year with him and the twenty other seniors at our school, so I care a bit more then usual lol. Sorry for the long story??_ but it's a complex situation. And I feel like I HAVE to do something! But at this point I pretty much hate him for all the games and NEVER want to be in a relationship with him. I just don't know what to do.
...I think this spelled it out to me that he was trying to make me jelous like —oh sorry, I can't even be bothered to text YOU I'm hanging out with her??_??
Can anyone tell me what they think he is doing? Just playing with another new girl? Trying to get me to chase him again? Trying to tell me to move on? Anyone know what I should do? Confront him, tell the new girl about what happened to me, let his gf know he is an ass hole? I have a whole year with him and the twenty other seniors at our school, so I care a bit more then usual lol. Sorry for the long story??_ but it's a complex situation. And I feel like I HAVE to do something! But at this point I pretty much hate him for all the games and NEVER want to be in a relationship with him. I just don't know what to do.
If I were you I would just move on.
Posted by ariesvita
If I were you I would just move on.
See I want to. But the problem is I have my senior year in a tiny school with just him and twenty other kids and it's going to be really hard to. And I wish I could just be a normal friend to him and move on, but he is making that hard. I just don't know how to handle the situation now.
He blew you off. Is he the best looking guy in the school? Obviously he thinks so & looks like the other girls agree. Let them deal with his BS. His ego is outta control considering it's such a small school. Plus, he's young & will get as many females as he can, don't be another notch. Get good grades, make friends. Socialize and you'll meet other guys. There is college & beyond in your future. Plenty of time for other men.
You have to learn to let go and go with the flow as life has many situations where you are in a small group and people whisper or talk, or there is a person like this guy and you may or may not want to be with him, and you have to sleep at night. So to sleep at night, you have just accept that people act all sort of ways and its not you its all on them, and you can do your own thing. If you chose to hang out with this guy, don't worry about gossip and all that jazz. If you decide to not hang out with the guy find something else to do, and you will worry less.
Seems like you are using your brain more than most, and you should rely on your feelings of what you want out of this all, and if you concentrate on that, you should release your mind from the pressures of the who's what's when's or how many (20 people).
Seems like you are using your brain more than most, and you should rely on your feelings of what you want out of this all, and if you concentrate on that, you should release your mind from the pressures of the who's what's when's or how many (20 people).
Walk away, seriously, walk away
You guys were right.
Today I had class with him and I was sort of being cold and distant to everyone accept one close friend (my other close friend is out of town). I just got this book on Muslims and Islam and I have been reading it because it's really fascinating to me. Well the kids at this school take any opportunity they can to bully me and this was no exception. We had finished the lesson and had twenty minutes left before school got out, there were only like 10 kids in the class so it was a relaxed atmosphere. I had been quietly reading in the corner and had completely ignored him and all of the rest of the kids in class. I left to use the restroom. When I came back one of the kids said "pop" and all of the kids, except my one close friend, started laughing really hard. I knew it was probably a joke about me but i didn't say anything and went back to reading my book.
When class got out my friend told me the were really mean after I left. POP was a stupid acronym of sorts, saying I was a crazy extemist (now I'm a muslim to them I guess, you know, cuz I was reading a book on islam) and I was going to suicide bomb him for not going out with me (none of them knowing the full story). She told me he activiely took part in making the joke and took no attempt to defend me. When just a few weeks ago I asked him if I could trust him and if he would defend me when I wasn't there--and he promised me he would. Well he lied. And I am done with him and everyone else at this school. I only need my few good friends and I can get through it. Part of me wishes they all knew the truth, but the majority of me just doesn't care at all anymore.
But you guys are right 🙂 just need to walk away now. I didn't think Aries could be such blatant liars. Everyone always told me they were honest, and I know I am. So it's a shock for sure.
Today I had class with him and I was sort of being cold and distant to everyone accept one close friend (my other close friend is out of town). I just got this book on Muslims and Islam and I have been reading it because it's really fascinating to me. Well the kids at this school take any opportunity they can to bully me and this was no exception. We had finished the lesson and had twenty minutes left before school got out, there were only like 10 kids in the class so it was a relaxed atmosphere. I had been quietly reading in the corner and had completely ignored him and all of the rest of the kids in class. I left to use the restroom. When I came back one of the kids said "pop" and all of the kids, except my one close friend, started laughing really hard. I knew it was probably a joke about me but i didn't say anything and went back to reading my book.
When class got out my friend told me the were really mean after I left. POP was a stupid acronym of sorts, saying I was a crazy extemist (now I'm a muslim to them I guess, you know, cuz I was reading a book on islam) and I was going to suicide bomb him for not going out with me (none of them knowing the full story). She told me he activiely took part in making the joke and took no attempt to defend me. When just a few weeks ago I asked him if I could trust him and if he would defend me when I wasn't there--and he promised me he would. Well he lied. And I am done with him and everyone else at this school. I only need my few good friends and I can get through it. Part of me wishes they all knew the truth, but the majority of me just doesn't care at all anymore.
But you guys are right 🙂 just need to walk away now. I didn't think Aries could be such blatant liars. Everyone always told me they were honest, and I know I am. So it's a shock for sure.
yes aries are competely honest
NAME : DESHON
BITHDAY: MARCH 24
SIGN : ARIES
BACKGROUN😱 yea i agree just walk away he's just being an ass hole aries r completly honest and loving kind ect.
but their r some aries that just dnt give a dam and they r just cold blooded
u have to learn to let go dnt worrie about him if he really wants u back then he will call u
but i suggest that u move on and dnt worie about him...as me as an aries male im competely honest loving and trustful and i expect the same out of my partner its simple like this u be mean and disrespectful to an aries
yea we will be hurt and be sensetive but we can also be cold as the north-pole
we love a challenge and we r full of engery so i hope if a female wants to date an aries uhhh....i suggest that u have alot of engery lol but other than that let him go 🙂
NAME : DESHON
BITHDAY: MARCH 24
SIGN : ARIES
BACKGROUN😱 yea i agree just walk away he's just being an ass hole aries r completly honest and loving kind ect.
but their r some aries that just dnt give a dam and they r just cold blooded
u have to learn to let go dnt worrie about him if he really wants u back then he will call u
but i suggest that u move on and dnt worie about him...as me as an aries male im competely honest loving and trustful and i expect the same out of my partner its simple like this u be mean and disrespectful to an aries
yea we will be hurt and be sensetive but we can also be cold as the north-pole
we love a challenge and we r full of engery so i hope if a female wants to date an aries uhhh....i suggest that u have alot of engery lol but other than that let him go 🙂
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I shall finish this in a post lol sorry this is such a lonnggg story...I don't think anyone will read it lol.