aries guy and aries girl————?

I know right? i must be crazy!
but its happening right now!
but im not sure what this girl is after

she has broken up with a virgo guy 7 months ago but he has been coming back every once in a while promising her the moon and just use her for sex and split again, this has been happening on and off for last 7 months and she is really hurt by that but knows its over yet has hard time adjusting to it...i know how she feels

but we had a pretty good connection and i know what she needs because i need the same things and i know how to give it to her, we spend few evening together at my place and it was pretty awesome, we feel comfortable around eachother but i feel like she is testing me and pushes me to the edge like she wants to see how much will i take
for instance. i had a party at my place over the weekend and i invited her to hang with me and my bros to watch movies play xbox and stuff...she was more than happy to come over..she wanted to get drunk and she did...that doesnt bother me at all...
she went to sleep in my bad...and when i joined her later after we were done with our party we got pretty hot and heavy but no sex...
we did get familiar with eachoters bodies and had lots of good times. i wanted to have sex but at the same time i was thinking to my self its too soon and i dont want her to change her mind about me....but damn she was pushing me so bad, saying like arent you attracted to me? or if you want you can do it and relive your self...i was like well i want to but i can wait i dont want you to think thats all im after ...so we left it at that but damn i was so horny!
so i fell asleep for a while and than i woke up and she is still naked in my bed so it was on all over again..but this time i decided to go for it...and it was fine till i got her panties half way down her legs she flips out and almost yells out "what the hell you doing" and turns away and covers herself up with the bed sheets....i was like WHAT? is this a joke? simple NO would of been enough you didnt t have to flip out like that..why are you telling me its ok if you gonna do that?
so later that day after she left ( i was giving her the silent treatment) she tells me she was testing me and thinks she deserve it to be a little more romantic the first time with me and not when my friends are sleeping it off in the next room.
BUT why did she even start pushing me towards it in the first palace? i was perfectly fine just falling asleep next to her ..but you cant just tur

turn the man on and expect him to turn it off like that...geez...

day later she tells me that she does like me but not sure how and its hard to accept the fact that ther is someone willing to give her what she wants and and its hard for her to trust someone right now...
damn im so confused with her

should i proceed with her or does it sound like she has some bigger issues to work out whitout playing this stupid games?
are you areis girls ever confused how you like a guy? or only sway that when you want to be in total control of the situation and maybe want to play him?

i feel she has a low self esteem as she has a toung piercing and a tatto on her back ..which is fine with me ..its sexy but for an aries girl isnt that a huge low self esteem sign? its like hey look at me!

what you all think?

so what she has a tat, when does that stand for low self esteem!? well i guess it can for some people, but they'd be a serious idiot if they got it for that reason. i have a tat, i always wanted a water dragon (guardian so to speak). Granted getting one makes you curious about getting another, but i've wanted this one since i was young. So i dont regret it and i dont think it has anything to do with low self esteem.

Next yea shaka is most likely right, we prefer consistancy. You either want it or you dont, make up ur mind. my first sexual encounter with my ex aries was him attacking me. granted i liked him going for me, touching me and then dragging me and seducing me (hey its kinda hot), but doesnt mean i enjoyed it in the end. i actually hated him more for it, because i felt completely used and like even tho we were caught in the moment, u dont just do it for the fuck of it and TIMMING IS EVERYTHING!

So you're window was closed, u got confused she was weirded out cuz didnt u say u wanted to 'wait' and make it 'special'?

fss - yes the window never really closes... but it depends on how you open it up! ^_^ hope that helps!

o yea 4got advice, eh just keep talking to her and honestly romance her. She'll melt in ur arms and if shes an aries shes up for anything, even make ups for the past. enjoy! btw ORAL IS HUGE these days, DO NOT forget to do it! I hate guys who refuse to give oral, if ur not doing it whats the point in the entire ordeal? sex is about having fun and spicing up the world, dont be shy, but dont just attack. think b4 u do anything and make sure she feels it from her head to her toes and if shes a true aries... 69 will be a war zone, prepare to hold the bed post!

again enjoy! ^_^

"its like hey look at me!"

Bahahahahahahahahahahaha. Pardon me, I had to laugh at that. There's only one Aries female that I'm extremely tight with in my personal life. I seem to get along with most of the others that I meet, but there's just this one who I'm really tight with. Her birthday is April 1st, and the whole "hey look at me!" thing is 100% her nature 24/7. And from what I notice (not to generalize) but all Aries females are this way. They love attention (especially from the opposite sex) as much as they can get it and as often as they can get it. I notice that us males (in general) need a lot of attention as well. But, it's in a different way from the females since we can't just as well go around screaming for attention. Girls can get away with it, we just want it really bad also and find that attention through other means. You know, without being attention whores about it. Oh, and this Aries girl I'm talking about is a complete "attention whore." And she's not afraid to admit it neither. LOL, me and her had a conversation about that like the third day after I met her...real talk!

Anyways, back to your situation...I wouldn't give up on her yet. Her acting that way the other night was just another "attention" thing. You were giving her plenty of attention, and she was absolutely loving it. And go figure, she ended up being a complete and total fucking cocktease. Me and the Aries girl that I spoke of above have been put into situations like that a few times before. We've "experimented" like fucking crazy, we've just never got to actual sex, you know...penetration. LOL! But just about everything else, yeah we've messed around. But "cocktease" is yet another adjective to describe her. I act like I hate it, but I love it at the same time cause it just makes it even more of a challenge for me.

I'd give this girl that you're talking about a little bit more time though. Things will probably work out ok, just be patient with her (I know it's impossible to do...us Aries guys are among the most impatient motherfuckers walking this planet.) But I'd stick with it man. Me and this Aries girl have been so close to actually going steady for a while now. But there's certain things about her that make me think we'd be better off as friends. We're honestly so much alike to the point of where it scares me. I like some balance in a relationship, and I swear she is literally the same person as me, just a girl. LOL too m

"...or if you want you can do it and relive your self."

Relieve yourself?!! In her va-jay jay? A true class act. 😉

obviously the girl has major self confidence issues, i DID NOT took that offer, it didnt seem right besides we were little drunk....and she would not let me do it , she was just testing how far i was willing to take it,
yeah it was little extream and unorthodox but the more i get to know where i understand better....
she needs someone strong mentally in her life and i could just be the guy. She keeps saying how she always fucks shit up and is alone again, this does not scare me as i grew up with an aries sister and we had WW III at least once a week in the house, but deep inside i know she is a sweet loving girl and i know this aries girl is the same just needs a little boost in life right now, and i could be it
i have enough optimism in me for 3 people so maybe it will rub of on her and she wont be so feeling so sorry for her self....
but i think she puts this life suck show on in front of me cause she is afraid to open up,

so lets no jump to conclusion and judge the girl by one small incident, i want to give her little more credit than that
im not saying that she is perfect but neither am i :-)

LOL ^^^

hahaha ...you girls......all we need is a kiddie pool with oil and have as an old fashion cat fight lol
go!go!go!

c'mon you guys play nice...sheezzzzzz :-)