How to make an Aries turn back? R Aries heartless?

Do you really expect to get an answer from an Aries forum that we are heartless? No, it's not a usual thing, not for any sign. My brother who is an Aries had Cancer. 4th stage, it was serious. He met a nice girl & got married when he got better.

If you have evidence and need to call the cops, do so. Just think about whether it's worth it to you. I won't defend an asshole, Aries or not. But if you're doing it to 'rub his nose in it', it's not worth your time. He'll just hate you for it and any guilt he may harbor for treating you like crap will be turned into justifiable actions on his part.

Posted by odboland
Hi. My ex is an Aries. I stood by him when he was undergoing treatment for cancer. However, he dumped me to flirt with others when he got better. I really still love him.

I like to ask for Aries opinions. My love for him has turned into hatred, so much I want to see him in jail. (He was nasty to me as well) I do have evidence of thefts he committed before he knew me and these can really get him in jail. I am on the verge of reporting him to the police. He is not responding to my mails now.

Do any one know how to make an Aries think about the past relationship in such extreme situations? Are Aries really totally heartless?

If you didn't know him, then you really have no evidence of him being a thief, or do you? What are you doing dating a clepto anyway if what you say about having theft evidence is true? What was your occupation before you met him anyway?

I personally don't know enough to make a judgment about either of you so I'll withhold for now.

why are you still so involved with this dude?

Surely you do realise that taking his matter to the police will land you in the court to testify and you are looking at a few more months, possibly years of exposure to this person you say you hate?
And you wonder why he keeps messing with you when you keep hanging around?

Seriously walk away... it's a good thing he's flirting with other girls, good riddance to him, don't you think?

If you have a record of the money he owes you, you could be chasing that with some debt collectors, maybe?

Try to detach from the asshole you just described and move on to better, please

I think instead of dating true "bad boys," you should just go with nice guys and piss them off every once in a while, ya know?

No offence but there seems to be a missing link in this story, Aries may flirt sometimes,but i have known them all to be pretty damn faithful. If you took care of him with love and kindness in his time of need, i see him treating you like a queen,not leaving you. You wanna start your question over?

Posted by odboland
wgamador, u said it so well.

THe fact is that I am torturing myself. i still love him despite this nasty person he has become and it is more disheartening to know how heartless an Aries can be when they stop loving

This has nothing to do with him being an Aries, this has more to do with him just choosing to treat you this way. You teach people how to treat you through your actions. If you didn't ask for this behavior then there is no point in dwelling on it.

Because you loved the idea of who he was you are staying miserable. He is not that man/person on any level. Love yourself enough to stop. That doesn't make healing instant or mean you won't feel grieved, but you deserve better and setting you mind to demand it will only help your journey. I hope that makes sense.