I dont understannnndddd!!

K i dont know if its just me - or just my aries. but are you guys usually good at communicating ur feelings and what you want??

ive known my aries for a few years. we've hung out a few times. watched movies, gone for drives etc. the way he was acting and the things he was saying made me think he wanted a no string attached kinda thing cuz he was the "im independant and need nobody" type. so im like alrite fine. didnt think more of it. his hints sound backwards. tells me he wants a girl he can show off and throws in "but not u" and i was like wow i wasnt even thinking me!
he commented on how he likes his woman to cook ... i aint his woman so i ignored the comment. but burned tons of times so unless im actually seeing the person im not doing anything unless we're really good friends. i dont mind doing things but not if its expected. he'll throw out random comments that dont make sense (attempt to make a one line joke??)

a few days ago he told me he was done being hopefull of somehting that would likely never happen. and i asked what he meant and he finally said he was hoping for a relationship with me. he had hinted things and told me it was obvious wat he wanted (to me it wasnt obvious but he always avoided telling me what it was he wanted.)

then i asked him to talk to me about it. he didnt want to. i ask him to go do stuff, a walk, he said he'd wait in the car but i could go. i said well lets go rock climbing. he didnt want to. lets go to the beach. he'd only go to the beach on his boat or when he's drinking. hiking he maybe'd. I thought aries were supposed to be athletic and full of energy?? (or maybe i just assumed cuz your the "jump right in go-getter" types) he seemed really frustrated, he said he wasnt mad just not pleased with how things were going. he did ask me if i was just looking for a no strings or an actual relationship. I didnt answer. as i really cou ldnt tell him at the time as ive been trying to get to know him but its hard to get him to talk to me.

Men and Women don't communicate in the same way so it would be good to drop the expectations as this will just keep you frustrated. You will never fully understand each other, even astrology doesn't make you understand cos a person is usually composed of a lot like sun, moon, mars, etc

On the case of this dude, he sounds like he has never had a proper relationship before and is living a lot in his head.
You gotta to stay consistent with your needs at all time when he asks you questions, let him work out his stuff by himself and come to you. Maybe a new territory for him, who knows, that's his problem to resolve. Just don't take him too seriously if his words are not matching his actions.

Expressing quick emotions like "I'm hungry", "wtf", "you stupid idiot!!", "I need sex", etc, is fairly easy for the Aries disposition but deep emotional romantic expressions, well, good luck with that 🙂 especially if it's an Aries that has not yet aligned their minds to the consequences of their words or actions.