Who said, I Love You, first?

I am curious with the other Arians here on DXP, who in your relationships said the L word first and how far into the relationship/dating was it when it happened?

The longest it ever took for the other person to say it to me was 6 months, over the phone, and I still told him to have a nice day! hahaha

Posted by Lady Aries

The longest it ever took for the other person to say it to me was 6 months, over the phone, and I still told him to have a nice day! hahaha

lol

I am usually the one that gets that ball rolling.

My last ex never said it until we broke up.

.....so about 7 months or so it took.

I've never been the first to tell a man that I love him. I went with an Aries for a few years and he said it first. I finally succumbed and said it back, but I'm not sure if I meant it. He just kept asking me if I loved him. Actually, I dated two aries men that asked me if I loved them. The first one, there wasn't any doubt in my mind that I said it back to him so that he would stop asking me. The second one, we were in a LTR so I said it for the hell of it.

I couldn't comfortably use the L word until years after my second child came a long. Before she could be able to speak whole phrases, she would stop me in the middle of anything, out of the blue will tell me she loves me with a drawn out "youuuuuuuu!"

I did! 🙂

I did first accidently it just slipped out its usually hard for me to, but now my virgo says it way more often then I do almost everyday, sometimes more then once in a day especially if i have a sarcastic remark like "if u say so"
I beleive once it's said it should be understood you dont need to say it a million times.
I guess he needs the re assurance/attention constantly! love him anyway lol

He said it first but it took awhile lol

she said it first

about 3 weeks ago wtf

she stil doesnt want to be with me.

Aries i hate you people grrrrrr wait till i get all my shit together i am taking no prisoner. fear gimini when he is got it all put together. lol

i am going to go out and find all the aires girls and make them grow up once since for all. lol jkjk

Posted by geminiinlove
she said it first

about 3 weeks ago wtf

she stil doesnt want to be with me.

Aries i hate you people grrrrrr wait till i get all my shit together i am taking no prisoner. fear gimini when he is got it all put together. lol

i am going to go out and find all the aires girls and make them grow up once since for all. lol jkjk

Lol! Good luck too you!...U'll def. need it!

Gemguy said it. The night we met.

true ReallyNiceAriesPerson

but we are not just happy people we are also complicated

btw where ever i go people laugh lol

its true unless im alone typing on some blog trying to get you aries out of my mind grrrr lol

I've never told a man I loved him.

But a Libra and a Leo have told me "first" I just didn't stick around long enough to return the favor...

Aries did mid fuck.

Posted by geminiinlove
she said it first

i am going to go out and find all the aires girls and make them grow up once since for all. lol jkjk

Once since for all? That is so funny.

Posted by geminiinlove
true ReallyNiceAriesPerson

but we are not just happy people we are also complicated

btw where ever i go people laugh lol

its true unless im alone typing on some blog trying to get you aries out of my mind grrrr lol

I hear you GemInLove

It's good to get your thread on and rant it all out on here!

Words don't matter .. anyone can say it .. watch, I'll show you.

I love you

^^^^ didn't mean shit = just words

there are tons of women who have come to dxp over the years to cry about their relatinoships that have gone wrong ... and probably half of them are where the man loved her, or so she thought, then once he got the kitty ... he left.

men aren't stupid, the know how to get the panties off .... saying I love you works every time.

Those words don't need to be said .... obviously they need to be heard, even if it's a lie

Posted by P-Angel
Words don't matter .. anyone can say it .. watch, I'll show you.

I love you

^^^^ didn't mean shit = just words

there are tons of women who have come to dxp over the years to cry about their relatinoships that have gone wrong ... and probably half of them are where the man loved her, or so she thought, then once he got the kitty ... he left.

men aren't stupid, the know how to get the panties off .... saying I love you works every time.

Those words don't need to be said .... obviously they need to be heard, even if it's a lie

Did you hear what Minaj said?

He ain't even gotta try to put the mac on
He just gotta give me that look, when he give me that look
Then the panties comin' off, OFF!!

Posted by Lady Aries

Did you hear what Minaj said?

He ain't even gotta try to put the mac on
He just gotta give me that look, when he give me that look
Then the panties comin' off, OFF!!

Right, some women don't need for a man to say that he loves her to get the panties off. Some women think that once they sleep with a man and "put it on him", he will fall in love with her.

Oooh and "the look"......(fans self).

My boyfriend is an Aries, and I don't think he will ever tell me he loves me although I can see he does love me through his actions, if I say it he says "no you don't". LOL, kills it when I say I love you before I put the phone down and he says "okay bye" haha.