Ignoring Ex-Boyfriend ~ ARIES

My story is too long so I'll try to make it somewhat short 🙂

I am a Taurus Female my now ex is an Aries Male. We're both in our late 20's, we were together for 4 years and I had moved in his place and we lived together for 3 years. Well when we first started to date; get to know each other, I ended up catching him flirting with other girls online and with one of his customers. He lied, and lied until I presented the evidence. He begged me to give him a chance and promised to stop, he took all the action: changed his cell #, emails, stopped hanging out with certain friends, etc. Those were his ideas on how to fix it and keep me. Well he was the "perfect" boyfriend. We were too into each other "honeymoon" phase. I became a lil down once I left my job and he said he understood and supported me, but I guess he started to build resentment because I didn't listen to him about how to find a new job, yet he told me everything was okay. So he was lying about having my back and being there for the rough times....Then he dumped me said he needed "space and time" and wants to be single, told me to move out. He wants to have self-discovery and figure life out on his own now. I told him to give us a chance so we can learn to be independent as a couple and do activites wiithout each other but still be in a relationship, he said "No"...but a week later he asked me to come back and said okay, but turns out while he said he'll give us a fair chance at talking out our issues, behind my back he created a fake Facebook profile and once again started flirting with a new customer...a couple of months of emotional ups & downs I finally moved out for good.
Since the first day he dumped me has been contacting me everyday through social sites, "words with friends" etc. We have cats together living with him and at first he said I could visit anytime, now changed it saying I can only see them when he's home, he's not comfortable with me there without him...My last visit to the cats he was cold distant and yet he can only talk to me through the phone or online, but in person he's a selfish jerk.
...So now I have started to ignore him and go MIA on all social sites, he's been trying to get my attention. Right after I ignore him on Facebook he'll add "slutty" girls as friends and just added his ex-girlfriend he dated before me. Its been 5 days since he's heard from me...if he DUMPED ME why is trying to contact me— I no longer want him in my life!

@ everevolvingepithet- I'm not seeing it as "negative", I see it as his way to get a reaction out of me since I'm ignoring him. He wasn't adding those type of "friends" until I stopped giving him attention. My post was asking why is he trying to still contact me and stay in touch if he dumped me, and I said I don't want to be friends anymore? Not about he can't talk to anyone lol...

I was wondering if anyone else was dumped by an Aries and once you ignored them did they try to still keep in touch everyday? When I told my ex I want to move on and get over him he acted upset as if I am the one who broke this off...he still has pictures of us up in his house and told me he was upset that I ripped up all the love letters. Just seems like he wants control, and wants me to stay in love with him while he plays the single life. Have his cake & eat it too, thinking I'll wait for him after he's done fooling around.

I wanted to know what have other Aries men/women have done when been ignored by an ex, any personal stories. I know only my ex knows whats going on in his head, but its annoying that he wants to still have me attached while he obviously interested in talking to other women and living alone.