I am really feeling the urge to say something to get it out of my system but I think he just won't care and go on with his life with his fiancee and kids. If I tell the fiancee then I think it might backfire and she'll side with him. I think my best bet is to just disappear and enjoy the fact that at any moment I have the power to destroy him :p
haha you guys are awesome. thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it. I'm not a revengeful person at all so I've been having a difficult time figuring this one out. And yes, love366, he lives with this woman. He slept with me two weeks before they had their second child. Biggest scum on this earth! Makes me sick to my stomach that people like him exist in this world.
I have been physically involved around with an aries man for the last 2.5 years. I recently found out he has been engaged for 2 years of that time and also has two kids with this woman. He isn't aware I know and I want to do or say something but not sure what the best way to approach the situation is. I don't want him to be manipulative and throw things back in my face and I don't want to be brushed aside because he doesn't care that I know about his lying and cheating ways. What is the best way to confront and/or get revenge on an aries man? I want to put this man in his place the best possible way I can.
thnx everyone! I'm just wondering b/c I assumed it's over after not hearing from him for so long after consistently hearing from him for 3 months. So that's why I was wondering what he possibly wants to talk about. If it's done then it's done, there's nothing to talk about, I get the hint. I just don't know what else he could possibly have to say after completely ignoring me for 2 weeks. His tone has been different too (in a bad way).. so that has played into my assumption.
so quick summary since I already posted about this. things were going really well with taurus guy, super interested in me. a little over 2 weeks ago while we were in the midst of hooking up I told him I wasn't ready to sleep with him. He seemed fine, stayed the night and fast forward to now I haven't seen him or really heard from him. He mentioned wanting to meet up to "talk" a couple times. Today he asked if we could meet to talk but I couldn't so he said ok let's try to meet up to talk next week. Whats going on? I figured it's over and from the sounds of it I'm pretty sure I'm right. What is there to talk about? He's already ignored me over 2 weeks... why not just drop it. I get the hint. Any Taurus insight would be fabulous so I can be well prepared for this .... thanks!
I texted him last night and asked him if he wanted to go dancing (which was our thing when we were seeing each other.) he said we should get coffee and talk a bit. I invited him over but he got caught up with work so I just said you let me know when you have time. Haven't heard from him yet... I like him and that is why I would rather wait to sleep with him. I want to build something more solid instead of letting it become something purely physical. So he should be flattered that I wasn't ready to sleep with him. In my book (I'm a saggie, obv) it's a good thing!
thank you everyone for the great and helpful responses! Our thing while we were dating was going dancing so I texted him this morning asking if he wanted to go dancing tonight. If he doesn't respond I'll take the hint and drop it but I thought I should give it a final try.
One more thing.. when he tried to have sex with me I told him I wasn't ready. I don't know if this influenced anything in any way but thought I'd share. it was after that night he stopped talking to me.
things were going really well with a Taurus man I was seeing. he was very interested in me.. took me out to nice dinners, dancing, drinks, etc. we had good chemistry and I figured we were on the same page. after a couple months of seeing each other he made it clear that he didn't want to be exclusive yet and wanted to just continue hanging out and getting to know each other. this was fine but we ended up hooking up and things haven't been the same since. he hasn't spoken to me in over a week. this post probably doesn't make much sense but thats really the gist of it. I'm very confused. are all Taurus men this flaky? what should my next move be or should I just completely through him to the curb? I really do not understand what happened.
i would give her some more time. i'm a sag with venus in cap and i think i would want you more if i thought i lost you. if she doesnt come around in another week or so i would contact her and just flat out ask her what the deal is and where she stands with you. sag's love upfront approaches. no bs. just get to the point of the matter.
Im so sorry to read that scorpdiva. Hope ur handling things ok. And be sure to reach out to your friend. It can make all the difference. Ive started talking to a therapist and im already feeling a little better.
do you saggies feel sad often? idk why but i'm always so quick to feel sad or depressed if things aren't going my way and then i bring everything else down with it. i just want to be happy but i'm so bad at faking my emotions and feelings. i'm too raw and honest for that.