Intimidation and Charisma

I have been told quite often that I have a certain "Charisma" that follows me and that I can be "intimidating." I usually find this amusing because I don't feel I do anything to create this sort of aura. I personally believe it's just the confidence that I carry. Does anyone else get those types of comments? If so why do you think that is?

Shhhh, don't say that to loud lol

Posted by CreativityMe
I have been told quite often that I have a certain "Charisma" that follows me and that I can be "intimidating." I usually find this amusing because I don't feel I do anything to create this sort of aura. I personally believe it's just the confidence that I carry. Does anyone else get those types of comments? If so why do you think that is?

Story of our lives.

I can pick up new friends or slip into social situations just fine, and I assume EVERYONE in this world could too, but apparently you have to be willing, like us Aries, to have fun with others.

Intimidated: by just me, how I carry myself, the way I stand, the way I look ready to get started, meanwhile the fools who always say that about me, don't know that I have the same bad rush to work, the same nervous/awkward feel about normal things that bother us all, or they don't know how sentimental or mushy I can be. I guess because we decide to stand tall even though things suck at the moment, we seem intimidating? Or because we don't stand all slouched and nervous-looking? Seems like even when I am clammy-hand and scared to step on anybody's toes, people are still acting all intimidated by me, then later they feel the need to keep me separated from everyone else.

It is an interesting thing about us to say the least.

Aries women should do just as fine as anyone else, I believe strongly that confident women such as yourselves have secret admirers and people just drooling to one day be next to them, and guys are necessarily wary of strong women, they just know they better bring their best to the table so they can make a great impression. Don't slight yourselves, you are truly adored in this world, just most of the people we tend to run into these past few years have been dumpy and depressing is all ; )

I don't expect that "charismatic" is something you will hear people who know me say about me. On the other hand, "intimidating" is something even people I know well will say about me. I think quick, I move quick, I move with purpose and strength. If you get in the way you get run over. "Sorry about that, now stay the hell out of the way!" is a way of life for some of us.

It is this quickness, focus, and determination that people find so intimidating. Apparently, the intensity is quite impressive. Couldn't tell ya', I am just being me.

Posted by ImpressMe

Posted by CreativityMe
Does anyone else get those types of comments? If so why do you think that is?

I don't get those comments, but people usually stare at me. Most of the time I don't notice but if I am around my friends, family, etc??_They will comment he/she is staring at you. I am so focused in the moment that I really don't notice.

Now, when a person does have the confidence to talk to me; I will smile and it's a wrap. They are hooked, LMAO!!! j/k.

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When I get focused as you describe, unless you have something useful to say, kindly keep it to yourself.
This sort of thing seems to put people out a bit to....