Confidently Insecure

Which sign would you say is the most insecure and confident at the same time? You know the ones that appear confident but we/they all know that they are truly insecure? Also, what about the ones that appear insecure/vicitimized? The ones that are really just looking for someone to tell them how wonderful they are because that is how they really feel about themselves? Which sign?

i would have to say aries. come on very strong, but have insecurity issues. tend to throw in the towel too early. on the outside they look like they have it together, but on the inside theyre going nuts.

same with scorpios. big and bag on the outside, fucking bunny rabbits on the inside.

Posted by ImpressMe
Sooo tell me about Sags..I think the only problem with Sag. is their freaking mouth.

yeah my mouth is loved and hated.

lmao...

We Aries participate in life and understand all too well the forces of the mainstream. Insecurity as discussed is an inherent fear of failure of some kind and often starts out as a voiced thought by someone else. Aries encourage others and often push through trying times not because we are perfect but because we have the vibe to get that push starting. Everyone has opinions about others and claiming someone is insecure or something isn't our thing, often we encourage others and ourselves to just try even if we are new at something or know we might slip up.

The way I relate to others gets messy because we operate on a different wavelength and certain talk from others just doesn't match up with our hope for things to work out by trying. Someone telling me over and over they can't stick with their math class too well or sort out their problem and I am brainstorming solutions for them and they don't want to consider any possibilities then I am in the position of being in the right place wrong time or something. Or out with friends and they can't decide where to hang out, when I suggest something, someone usually goes "oh look who is always first to open their mouth". So anything and everything can be overcriticized about us and we are left questioning the true nature of people we like ... So yeah how certain of others can we be if when we take a go and everyone takes out there scorecards, you think we are gonna be all secure with the situation with you?

It's the whole Aries warrior archetype thing. Warriors constantly face uncertainty, it's their nature. Wouldn't you be insecure if you don't really know what was going to happen next? Secure in war means not moving, which is NOT something you want to do.

I usually wary about trying not to piss others off by raising hand first or intterupting others or talking too forcefully so find among people I don't know too well or when I am in a relationship and truly trying to share their vibe I can be rather open about what is on my mind even if I know I am gonna push through the tough day anyway, so I can end up discussing how I feel making my intimidating presence seem less certain but I chalk it up to just being real and honest, even if with my word rambles can come off as shaky or something

Posted by ImpressMe
Sooo tell me about Sags..I think the only problem with Sag. is their freaking mouth.

They can't stop talking, oh my goodness! If you love to conversate then sags are your people!

Posted by tall dark and aries
It's the whole Aries warrior archetype thing. Warriors constantly face uncertainty, it's their nature. Wouldn't you be insecure if you don't really know what was going to happen next? Secure in war means not moving, which is NOT something you want to do.

Wonderful, wonderful point.

Posted by heroic_guy
I usually wary about trying not to piss others off by raising hand first or intterupting others or talking too forcefully so find among people I don't know too well or when I am in a relationship and truly trying to share their vibe I can be rather open about what is on my mind even if I know I am gonna push through the tough day anyway, so I can end up discussing how I feel making my intimidating presence seem less certain but I chalk it up to just being real and honest, even if with my word rambles can come off as shaky or something

Yea, why is that? Why does when an aries talks (and they could be making a good point) sometimes their voice trails off as if their aren't sure if what they are saying is right?

Posted by ImpressMe

Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl

Posted by ImpressMe
Sooo tell me about Sags..I think the only problem with Sag. is their freaking mouth.

They can't stop talking, oh my goodness! If you love to conversate then sags are your people!

Sags. talk but the Sags. I know only talk when necessary or they are out having a good time. It's not that they talk a lot??_it's the stuff that comes out of their mouth that leaves you in, OMG! mode.

I like Sags. You want to hear the truth with no sugar coating then ask a Sag. They are cool people.

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Yes they are very cool people. Like you said, if you want to get down to the nitty gritty, they will do that for you. The sags that I know will stand around until you choose to speak with them (it seems like out of respect)but once you approach them, whooooo.

to planetmercury

They can't stop talking, oh my goodness! If you love to conversate then sags are your people!

yea very true. i am saggie, my ex aries. we can chat long hrs !!!
the chemistry is definitely there !
he is witty. i like that. we can argue n argue..

I think is wrong to say "confidently-insecure". It's more like brave-insecure.
We are the babies of the zodiac. A baby won't be confident when he takes the first step, but after a while he would walk without thinking about it.
So we are insecure when we do new things or start a new relationship but it's not a confidence problem cuz despite that insecurity we do it bravely.

OviSpring is back..

Yes spica, just like in the movies.😉