Is it hard for you to express your....

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Firegurl
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I secretly wish I could be like other girls. But I was born this way and there's nothing I can do about it. I hate being misunderstood. And why do HUMANS need to hear that they are loved?? I say humans because I sometimes feel like a martian or something. I pray that one day I will find a man who says babe, I know u love me u don't even need to say it becuz I know?

Also do you guys show u love some1 by giving them mind blowing sex?? I think that's the only way I can express my feelings for my partner physically. I know that for some this is not not enough but, it is what it is for this Aries.
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heroic_guy
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Hot and fast, then low on steam for whatever reason, is a difficult life to maintain a relationship with someone. I for sure enjoy an engaging love relationship where it is more dynamic than saying I love you back and forth and go back to the couch.

Sex for sure is where we all shine at showing we care, I mean, mind-blowing sex is quite a gift of love hehe.

As far as saying the L word is difficult on account of how we size up the relationships in our life constantly. Or maybe that is just me.

I like how AA said that we might be better at showing it than saying it. And I guess when it comes to when we do say the L word we have come to a point from our romantic heart and the summation of what we have shared with that person to say it with meaning.

I have said it too fast before, and then when I did the quick rebound thing, I for sure felt like a classic Arian love-em-then-move-on-quickly kinda person (but I think that is cuz we can be uncomfortable out of love).

I wouldn't focus on anything we don't feel comfortable about ourselves, we for sure have to find solace in how we operate well in this world rather than get down on ourselves.

We definitely should be humble and know our faults but I hope you understand not being able to say the L word as quick as another person isn't a bad thing.