Loving an Aries Man When your a Scorpio ( advice)

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deekscorp
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13 Years

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I met this Aries guy 4 yrs ago (9th grade), at first he wasn't into me but we became friends. We talked a lot and took the step into a relationship. I was his first love and he was my first love. Me being a shy scorpio he brought the sexual side out of me and I loved being able to share that with him only. We were together for 7 months and broke up mostly because it was a long distance relationship and we were young and my parents did not like him. We became friends and he moved on and I moved on. We checked up on each other from time to time. And when I got in a relationship with a libra man which eneded horribly he was there to talk to me and show me that he cared. We started talking again and started to get serious, since i have known him for 4 years i thought he would want to be in a relationship with me. When I asked him what he considers me he did not want to answer it instead he ignored it. I felt hurt because I always gave him all of my love even after he hurt me many times. I went off on him and he apologized which I knew was not sincere. He told me he just wants to be single but is talking to a girl which pissed me off. I promised myself that i will never marry him or be in a relationship with him again.

Reccently like this week we were talkin and we made a bet that if we end up together ill give him $ 200 and ive we dont end up together he will give me $ 200. I went on a date with a guy and it didnt feel right because of course im still in love with aries. I called areis and told him i loved him still and then we had phone sex. I want to be with him but its like he wants me but then doesnt want me.I got upset with him and told him how he doesnt want me and how im just the side line hoe to him he got pissed and was saying he does love me and for me to be patient. I want advice from aries guys? Do you think that he really loves me and wants to be with me? Should I just leave him alone?
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AriesIntrovert16
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13 Years1,000+ Posts

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Who makes bets about their relationships? If I were him id go out with you just for the $ 200 and then break up with you. (well I wouldn't but that sounds like a dumb thing to say on your part). come on girl smarten up, if he doesn't want to be with you then move on. as bad as it sounds you are a side line hoe, drop this punk and find someone who wont play you like he is.
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bkbella86
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14 Years5,000+ PostsAries

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Make him chase you!!!! DO NOT every mention dating him again, to him at least. I know it maybe be hard to do because you would like to know where you you stand with him, but, you MUST. You can't ask a man where you stand, IMO. When a man Is ready to commit, he will. It doesn't matter how long you have known him or how much of your love you gave him, he will do as he pleases. You should do the same.
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bkbella86
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14 Years5,000+ PostsAries

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Every man I dated made it clear what they wanted from me, if only I was paying attention. There were some who wanted to be serious and they made it very clear and I had ALOT who didn't want it to be serious and they made it equally clear. A man will show you. If he is being hesitant take it for that, he isn't sure he wants to commit. Nothing personal! Keep yourself busy and not with him.
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Flavia
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Posted by bkbella86
Every man I dated made it clear what they wanted from me, if only I was paying attention. There were some who wanted to be serious and they made it very clear and I had ALOT who didn't want it to be serious and they made it equally clear. A man will show you. If he is being hesitant take it for that, he isn't sure he wants to commit. Nothing personal! Keep yourself busy and not with him.



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