Naturally aggressive?

Hi All, just curious. Been wanting to ask this a long time.

My sister's "niece in law", has a fiance that is an Aries Male. They have been together for maybe 8-9 years. They only got engaged recently.

I am neutral to the both of them, but according to my sister who is close to both of them, I think for the first 6-7 years he acted like he didn't value her. Put his car and motorcycle desires ahead of her and their two kids. She was doing most of the child rearing. He was occassionally had an "a**hole" vibe about him. Would say things that were typically a d.ck comment to make...would often yell at her and be an ass to her in public. Etc. Wasn't ever physically abusive though.

Then I've had friends who also had Aries boyfriends and they all had the same tendencies. I'm don't think this is a common trait for ALL aries men but there must be soemthign within their chart.

Anyone have any wild guesses? Is it something abotu their venus, mars, mercury...etc. and what sign within those?

I know this is like super difficult to even fathom but those who are gifted in astrology or charts and things have any wild guesses?

mars aspects?

Aha. I figured as much.

Aggressive can be scary if used in the wrong outlet.

Sports maybe...

With people...not so good.

Aries men are aggressive. I dealt with it by being aggressive, also. Did he like it, no.. Lol

how would he react?

Hello @iammystified! (: I think aries only lash out when they feel unappreciated, unheard or backed into a corner! They are actually a really sensitive sign I think. I have several aries family members and if I actually try to listen to them instead of brushing off their strong personalities, I tend to earn their respect. It's like give them what they think they deserve and then they will bring the moon and stars to you.