Need advice about an aries man

to be really honest with you i dont really see this turning into anything productive. he's playing too much games. always best to stay away from dudes that dont make sense.

Well, I am an Aries lady, so I assume it would
be similar. When I was younger, I was a lot like
that. New and challenging things are exciting to
us and we can get bored easily. I dont think we
intentionally hurt people by doing this, but it
is definitely a trait we can have. He also sounds
immature and he may get better with age (as I did)
I would not wait around on him. If he thinks you
have moved on, he may try to come back.
I would make him work pretty hard before I
would give him another chance though

Posted by Gemini772
When we first met he instantly connected with me, and I really wasn't very into him, he called me every single day, asked me to be with him all the time and he actually asked me to be his gf 3 times and I said ''no'' and explained that this was my answer because I only knew him for about 2 weeks and that I think he is kind of a player =/ and that If we were going to be together I wanted to be sure about my feelings and his too. Well, time past by, and there were times that he just stop texting and calling me...He actually onde day told me that he was seeing his ex and one friend at the same time that he was seeing me 😢, I was so sad. He told me everything, he told me that he really like me and care about me, that i'm not like the others that he have been with but he wants to enjoy life and don't want to be serious with someone right now and also that he doesnt want to hurt me...it's really strange because he told me that he liked me and then told me that doesn't want me as gf...and when I say that it's best for us to step apart of one another he comes back again =/.

This is all game.

He likes you....You reject
You like him....he rejects.

Interesting.

So, either play the game or get off the field.

I'm sorry this has happened. I think it's time you move on and forget about him. If he calls, cool. If he doesn't then don't worry about him. He wasn't worth your time anyway. Stop playing games and move on. But if you really want closure swallow your pride and give him a call.

Do not feel stupid for trying to find some closure. He should feel stupid for not being able to stand up and be man enough to tell you what's going on. You tried and have nothing to be ashamed of.

This is what it's sounding like, but I could be wrong. He's not fully invested in liking you completely. He has other options and you're not enough (to him) to make him quit his ways. And honestly probably no girl is until he decides to grow up. If you're just wanting to have fun and be single play the games. They are fun and keep things entertaining. But if you're looking for something more I'd look elsewhere.

Posted by Gemini772
Thank you for your advice 🙂! I sent him a text message saying " i hope your ok..kiss" but he didnt reply yet and i honestly feel stupid for sending it because i dont think i should say anything..but it was hurting me...i think i'm going to move on...this is really sad and i really deserve better, i didnt do anything wrong...

Yes you do deserve better 🙂