Need big help from you guys!!!

So...long story short..
I am in love with an Aries guy but...this one is different and acts differently everytime i meet him. Sometimes he flirts with me and sometimes acts like i am even not in the room with him, totaly ignores me, like i am not even there, he doesn't care at all. He has:
Sun in Aries
Moon in Aries
Rising in Aries
Venus in Aries
,I mean cmooon!! how can this even be!?!?

Anyway, I have:
Sun in Saggies
Moon in Scorpio
Rising in Leo
Venus in Aries

I guess these are the most important.
My question is: What the hell is going on his mind—
I don't know how to react anymore, i am like standing there waiting for him to react ;d. Please tell me what does he want from me. I am up to anything as long as it evolves him

Sorry, I don't have an answer, but I'm having the same aries issues as you are so I'd love to see what everyone has to say. Mine goes from suggesting I move in with him to acting like I don't exist for days.. some days he can be attentive, other days we will be out with a group and he will act like he doesn't even know me and i'm not even in the same room.. Next day, acting like all is fine and like he didn't ignore me the previous day.I have known this guy all my life.. We had a relationship in our early 20's and went our separate ways and reunited a little over a year ago. I'm not into all the hot/cold/up/down/completely bipolar psycho behavior. I just want to know where it all stands one way or another.. Either you care or you don't.I sent him an email stating exactly that, which, I thought might piss him off and make him disappear for good.. No, called me right away.I ask if he received the email and he said yes and I said so what do you have to say about it and he said I haven't read all of it yet and he is yet to address anything I said. Pretty much ignored it like everything else. Now, I haven't spoken to him in a couple of weeks and I don't plan on contacting him.. I even tried to ask him to meet up and talk and he said yes and then didn't do it yet, he lets me still know he's around subtly on social media.Now, I can understand someone just not being interested or caring, what I can't understand is the mixed messages.. If you have no interest in someone, or are acting like you don't, why in the hell would you tell someone you want to marry them and move in with them?. It's a shame because I think alot of whatever is going on could be worked out if we talked about it but seems now he's trying to avoid that.. All I can tell you is that I've seen alot of people say the exact same things about aries that we are saying I just wish I understood it more or someone could tell me what to do with this situation to make it a good outcome because he's so unpredictable it doesn't seem you can deal with them the same way you would with most people..

I'm just going to assumed that he doesn't want to seem pressed. He's probably just trying to play it cool.

I don't think your Venus sign can't be in Aries if you're a Sagittarius. Are you sure you copied your chart correctly?