chelsivette
@chelsivette
12 Years
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Posted by sugaries
He doesn't seem to be very interested. Did you ask him if he was single? I wouldn't initiate contact again. I don't usually follow gender rules/roles but you're doing all the work for him. Let him do something.
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So i'll give the whole damn story.
I was on the subway a week ago and I saw a young man come on the train [we are 18 & 19, i feel details matter]
. Instantly, i was attracted but i was tired so I wrote a note explaining my interest to get to know him, my name, and a 'please excuse my tired appearance' & my number. i said not one word and merely smiled at him and walked away .
the next day he texts me , and tells me he liked the note, it was grammatically correct , and such and such . and he instantly says : we've got a long conversation ahead of us . hope your ready to text your life away .so we text, ask questions, he tells me he likes how strong of an individual i seem to be and then i mention i've forgotten his face . he suggests i send a picture , and i say the same , but i go first . so i send my face [beautiful picture but not the girliest i realized in hindsight, as i was in a hat and scarf] and he doesnt respond for 40 minutes, although he had a few late responses [i write in a journal so i'm analytical, and i guess it comes with being a stressed female] as did i and then he sends me his face, smiling . and we talk but hes stopped asking questions , and im the only one asking questions , but he still sends me long responses . and so i give up and say a short response with nothing to reply to , yet he replies with a long response once again .. and the conversation ended abruptly after we ran out of questions, him answering last.
So my brother tells me , if he doesnt text me the next day then he isnt interested . He didn't text me the next day, and then the next [christmas] i decided to just text him, so i say merry christmas and he says it back and asks what im doing that day. we talk for a few hours but its back to no questions, the questions literally stopped after the picture, but he still gives me long responses . only when i mentioned i was watching a pre-game commentary did he question, "who, the knicks ?"
so we talk about the knicks a little , and then its back to nothing to say . and that was 2 days ago , and we havent spoken since .
I know i'm stressing this, i dont understand aries men so id love any and every advice, from anyone and certainly an aries man .
Would he send a picture if he isnt interested at all? Do i seem to have ruined it ? Should i be patient ? Should i ask him out first ? anything helps .
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