Pisces Lady slept with Aries Guy too soon!!!

From what I've read, there's a fine line with Aries males as far as playing hard to get but letting him know you're interested as well. I've known this guy socially for the past few years- lots of mutual friends within the same circles. We had never really had any in depth conversations, just casual run-ins, until last weekend when we ran into each other at a party. From there it was on- we just clicked!!!! We hung out the entire night and I ended up going home with him. As you can imagine, I tried not to give into that Aries passion completely, but we ended up sleeping together (it was pretty phenomenol I might add). The next night as well......3 times.

Don't get me wrong, we had lots of fun and went out and danced and talked a lot- we did more than just have sex. But, I haven't heard from him since (it's been 4 days). I know he went out of town on business this week and he'll be gone this weekend as well to visit his dad for Father's Day. But I'm wondering if I'll hear from him again or if he's not interested now that he "conquered me". Do I leave it up to him to make contact and just play it cool? Do I send him a casual text this weekend to say hello or is that showing too much interest for an Aries? We're both mature, consenting adults and if he just wanted to get some, that's fine, it was definitely worth it. But I thought there may have something a little more between us, and the possibility for an actual relationship at some point in the future maybe. I just want to play my cards right if there is a chance! He's definitely a cutie with a great personality, quite the catch!

I'm 33, well educated/ intelligent, pretty outgoing, come from a great family, have a career, own my own home, lots of fun to be around, attractive- everyone tells me I'm a catch, although I wouldn't say I'm overly confident. Obviously, I'm a Pisces, so I can be pretty emotional, and I feel very deeply. I'm a good listener, a loyal friend. I'm a good mix between a tomboy & a lady. I love to dress up & put on makeup, but I also like to play sports, workout, don't mind getting dirty from housework or camping out or whatever! I have a lot to offer- but I feel like he may overlook that and not give me a chance b/c I gave into him too soon. What u think??

Relax, once a man gets the "GOAL" of getting sex he's significantly distancing himself and your left wanting more relationship courtship stuff and b/c that not the agenda for most men they disappear for awhile, it's how you deal with these moments that make or break a situation with a man. He will be back around but remember just b/c you had sex with him once doesn't mean he gets to have that with you all the time...You set the pace of how much of yourself you are willing to give away, I would suggest holding off on sex again until he's shown a higher level of interest and given more of the things you want to experience with a man/him. For now business as usual, go about your day with not much thought about his behavior, the less you think about this issue the less stress and worry and anxiety and you can begin fresh again once he shows up. He'll be back....

Thanks ladies! I will definitely set some boundaries if and when he comes back. He would be an idiot not to in my opinion but that's beside the point. But I have a feeling he will eventually....they always do :-) Gotta leave him wanting more, make him work for it this time, I hear ya!

haha- Invigorate, no I wasn't thinking about the Scorpio at that moment in time. I was way to schmammered and having too much fun. But I most definitely thought about him the next day. I'll be honest, I'm a mess right now and thought treetrunking the Aries would make me feel better...thinking I should stay away from that for a bit though and focus on bettering myself instead :-) But you know the old saying....sometimes you gotta get under someone to get over another.

schmammered

LOL...i love it

lol... I think she was joking about the saying... let a girl have some fun, think she has her head screwed on ok anywhos thinking I should stay away from that for a bit though and focus on bettering myself instead :-)

Good idea 😉

Nothing like a good 'schmammer'-ing to have some wake up call... really love that word...

schmammer=ism!

Judge much, Invigorate? Maybe you should go get schmammered yourself, may loosen you up a bit. People deal with pain and anger in different ways. I'm not saying what I did was healthy or productive, but I did it in an attempt to numb the pain that I'm feeling. Doesn't make me nasty.