I'm a Pisces girl crushing on an Aries boy.

We've been talking for a little over a month now, nothing official.
But I've noticed its so hard to communicate with him! He doesn't see things the way I do, & I certainly dont see things the way he does =/ It sucks because I really like him, & I'm willing to adapt my ways for him, but he isn't willing to do the same for me.

Another thing that bugs me about him is he's ALWAYS with a girl. Even if they're JUST FRIENDS, it makes me uncomfortable. I can't say anything about it because he's NOT my boyfriend so I don't want to come off as jealous of even clingy. =/

I've read many times, Aries/Pisces relationships are hard. But damn, our PHYSICAL CHEMISTRY IS THERE! It's just the mental chemistry we lack.. 😢

Should I just let him go?

aries are extremely difficult to communicate with! i can say this from experience. everything has to be under their terms. they'll communicate when they feel like it and they will just not answer questions if they don't feel like it. it's very aggravating!! they are also very headstrong so they will not change for anyone. i feel like you can't expect much from them unless they really love you. i personally don't think its worth changing who you are to appease him because he most likely won't do the same for you. i'd say just play it cool and act uninterested. (i know playing games sucks!!) but it'll probably reel him back in. good luck!

none of these things you dislike about him are going to change after he becomes your "boyfriend." if the girls that he's friends with bother you now, it's going to drive you insane if you guys are actually a couple. having jealousy before a relationship has left the ground does not sound like a very solid foundation

Yeah, I'm a F-ing Leo, and STILL have trouble communicating with Aries sometimes. That's the vastly overlooked flaw about Aries and I feel it deserves more attention. Yes they can be very self-absorbed, boastful, overbearing, but so can Leo. My biggest problem is that they ABSOLUTELY SUCK at communication.

....at least VERBAL communication. You see, Aries aren't heavy thinkers (I'm not saying they are unintelligent, they just don't think things through as long as other signs). ARIES COMMUNICATE WITH THEIR ACTIONS - If you don't get this, you are doomed. They are extremely, proactive people. Yes, they get shit done, but they shoot themselves in the foot a lot and only realize it AFTER the fact.

Cancer and other water signs REFLECT/ANALYZE > TAKES ACTION > REFLECT/ANALYZE

Aries TAKES ACTION > REFLECTS (maybe) > TAKES ACTION to put it in super simple terms.

Also, a huge thing about Aries is they need a CHALLENGE. They absolutely love sports, debates, games. You challenge them and you will keep them interested. Don't be so easy to catch. Let them chase you while keeping their interest up. Don't let them just roll over you - they will respect you more.

Aries also tend to go after the Flavor of the Weak and this is where we differ a little bit. Leo can be a player, but once we find someone we are into, we are very attracted to them and become fixated. Aries, in my opinion is always trying to out-do the last girlfriend, never seeming satisfied. That is not to say they do not make awesome mates and lovers. You may have to try to catch one later in life which is more grown up and wants to settle down.

Lastly, Aries need their freedom and need to be with someone that respects that and will not try to restrict them. At the end of the day, if it's a solid relationship, they will always come home to you and know that the hot fling will never beat the sure thing ~_^

Dear Pisces, do not change yourself just to keep someone. You may have them, but you will not be happen, because you will never be able to be yourself. Now if it's minor things like correcting bad habits, sure. But never settle or change your personality just to keep someone!!

**I meant to say be "happy" - not "happen" stupid keyboard!

"PHYSICAL CHEMISTRY IS THERE! "

Yeah we call that lust. I wouldn't recommend basing a relationship on that.

I'm in the exact same situation except I'm the Pisces and She is the Aries. I love em hot and spicy! 🙂