Ranty rant thread

Fuck guys who get sand in their vaginas and act worse than women.

Fuck that these supposed friends are making me feel like crap by giving me the runaround on a very obvious party going on tonight. Being told that things are "up in the air," and telling me that you'll "let me know" when you know plans are solidified, only to ignore me when I ask what's up is total bullshit. ESPECIALLY when I see and hear all of our mutual friends talking about going to it.

The principle bothers me more than the party itself. I don't think I'd want to go now anyway, knowing I'm not wanted, apparently.

Fuck this entire group of "friends." I think my new years resolution is going to be writing them off. They fall more into the acquaintance category if anything. Most haven't really been there for me and when I invited them to my birthday parties and my grad party, none showed. "Too far." Oh, but hey, I can drive all the way out to see them ANY TIME!

Flaky assed people. Such a HUGE pet peeve of mine.

What's even more frustrating is that I was offered another option if this fell through AND THEY GOT CALLED INTO WORK. 😢

ALL THIS AFTER I PRACTICALLY BEGGED TO GET THE DAY OFF OF WORK TODAY. Ugh. fml.

PS- this is open to any other ranty rants

HUGE pet peeve of mine as well. Cut their toxic asses out of your life!
Good riddance.

Posted by TaureanGoddess
HUGE pet peeve of mine as well. Cut their toxic asses out of your life!
Good riddance.

Exactly. It's all been a one sided friendship. I do all the friend stuff, they do all the flaking stuff. I'm a convenience, not a friend.

Posted by sugaries
Feck the "friend" who called me every day when her bf left her. I consoled her every day. Now one week later she has a new bf...and no where to be found.

Funny how that works. I get kinda disgusted by people who disappear over the sake of a relationship. I get that they're in the new relationship and it's fun and exciting, but Jesus, don't disappear on friends (especially if they were around before the relationship). It makes you look like an asshole. I'm sorry, but you CAN juggle both and find SOME time for your friends. No dick is THAT good, sorry.

In your situation, it's even worse when they come to you for that shoulder to cry on, but when you need them as a shoulder, they can't be bothered. I hear about that one a lot.

Our society has gotten really immature and selfish...

Posted by DeeGee
I never went to parties, I would go out with maybe one friend and we'd just go to a club, mingle and the party would find us😉 Making Plans on New Years Eve, never works, to much expectations...never really measures up.

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This is something that they do every year. What gets me is that he lied to me about whether or not it was happening (which I immediately thought was weird because this is an annual thing), then says he'll get back to me about it. I sent him a text last night and later this morning, asking about what was going on. He's ignored me. Seeing him on FB (which he's only on via his phone) and all of our mutual friends talking about the party is total salt in the wound. I'm kinda pissed off at the cruelty of his actions.

"YEAH SURE, I'LL LET YOU KNOW!" *ignore*

Wtf did I do to you, asshole?

I'd be okay if the other plans hadn't fallen through as well. Blegh. 😢

I think I'm just gonna go sleep for now. People fucking depress me with their bullshit.

Posted by DeeGee
^^^I KNOW, NEW YEARS IS OVERRATED....NEXT YEAR MAKE UR OWN PLANS, FUCK DEPENDING ON PEOPLE....


SORRY HUN...YOUR COOL PEOPLE...

Yeah, I know. I was kinda looking forward to going just to get away for awhile. With all the extra bs hours at work because of the holidays, my car accident, and feeling like shit because of it, it's like WOO GTFO FOR AWHILE!!

Then this shit.

God dammit, I hate people. This ties back to that Aries loner thread. PEOPLE BE FUCKING CRAZY. It's no wonder we're fine on our own. We are a no bullshit sign!

Fuck that this thread is on the front page. Wtf

Branh has been resurrected.

vent away just simply because you can and it feels good 🙂
I had friends like that tooo many years ago I cut them all out of my life for good.. Sure things were slow socialy for a while but things got better and gone was that feeling of being used and abused.. I don't mind some casual friends but Now I,m very picky if they try to use me to much or lie to me out they go..

Posted by lblibra
vent away just simply because you can and it feels good 🙂
I had friends like that tooo many years ago I cut them all out of my life for good.. Sure things were slow socialy for a while but things got better and gone was that feeling of being used and abused.. I don't mind some casual friends but Now I,m very picky if they try to use me to much or lie to me out they go..

Same here. It's been a process for awhile, but this is yet another lot I gotta wash my hands of. It just gets old after awhile. People here seem to only be friends when you can do something for them/benefit them somehow.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by lblibra
vent away just simply because you can and it feels good 🙂
I had friends like that tooo many years ago I cut them all out of my life for good.. Sure things were slow socialy for a while but things got better and gone was that feeling of being used and abused.. I don't mind some casual friends but Now I,m very picky if they try to use me to much or lie to me out they go..

Same here. It's been a process for awhile, but this is yet another lot I gotta wash my hands of. It just gets old after awhile. People here seem to only be friends when you can do something for them/benefit them somehow.

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I'm right there with ya fellow fire sign. I had plenty of people like that and I also had to cut them out. I have very few real friends and I'm totally happy with that. Stay true to yourself and you'll soon be surrounded by the right people. Just sit back and let karma handle everything else. Smile my beautiful Ram!

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by lblibra
vent away just simply because you can and it feels good 🙂
I had friends like that tooo many years ago I cut them all out of my life for good.. Sure things were slow socialy for a while but things got better and gone was that feeling of being used and abused.. I don't mind some casual friends but Now I,m very picky if they try to use me to much or lie to me out they go..

Same here. It's been a process for awhile, but this is yet another lot I gotta wash my hands of. It just gets old after awhile. People here seem to only be friends when you can do something for them/benefit them somehow.

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I'm right there with ya fellow fire sign. I had plenty of people like that and I also had to cut them out. I have very few real friends and I'm totally happy with that. Stay true to yourself and you'll soon be surrounded by the right people. Just sit back and let karma handle everything else. Smile my beautiful Ram!

fucking excuse me for being sleepy beauty, didn't mean to get dressed up and go to bed afterwards,

*lights a cigar*

another new years.

Bad feelings, memories, and friends, can suck it.

*Throws away written papers and memory boxes overseas*

Rocky road, sorry you have to deal with such lamo's in your life. I hope you ended up going on your own mission and had a total blast, just to spite them. Screw them... You don't need them.
I think we like to see the good in people and believe their word is as good as our word, when really, there aren't many honorable people around at all these days. I agree with how this ties into the loner thread.... I'd also rather indulge on my own mission than spend time with less than mediocre human beings.
I'm with you on the ditching them part.
And set your own tradition for new years from now on. My tradition is to be in a new place every year for new years..... Be it by myself or a bunch of people I know. If others don't want to come, I still go.... I know there will be new people there and I will always be able to put my friendly 'strike up a convo with anyone' Aries trait wherever I am in the world!

I hate having to be dependent on other people for what I'm doing. Other people are not as reliable as I am. Take care of your own!

Ps: ur comment about guys who get sand I their vaginas and act like girls made me giggle..... I know so many guys like that! I have min patience with them. Fucking sack up!

Posted by lotuslily
Rocky road, sorry you have to deal with such lamo's in your life. I hope you ended up going on your own mission and had a total blast, just to spite them. Screw them... You don't need them.
I think we like to see the good in people and believe their word is as good as our word, when really, there aren't many honorable people around at all these days. I agree with how this ties into the loner thread.... I'd also rather indulge on my own mission than spend time with less than mediocre human beings.
I'm with you on the ditching them part.
And set your own tradition for new years from now on. My tradition is to be in a new place every year for new years..... Be it by myself or a bunch of people I know. If others don't want to come, I still go.... I know there will be new people there and I will always be able to put my friendly 'strike up a convo with anyone' Aries trait wherever I am in the world!

I hate having to be dependent on other people for what I'm doing. Other people are not as reliable as I am. Take care of your own!

Ps: ur comment about guys who get sand I their vaginas and act like girls made me giggle..... I know so many guys like that! I have min patience with them. Fucking sack up!

Haha, it's a term that was used in the training room when the guys wouldn't do their therapy. "GET THE SAND OUT OF YOUR VAGINA!"

Yeah, I ended up getting out last night and didn't get home til 530. Much fun was had. 🙂

The way im feeling right now is fuck friends. I still have some but for some reason I am considering cutting them all off. I mean I know why I want to do it, but I may be jumping the gun, hopefully distancing myself will be just as beneficial for me.

Instead of making "resolutions" try this it's what I am doing this year and it seems to work better.


Say "good riddance" instead, write it on a piece of paper and toss it away. Or keep it in your wallet..


They had big bins in Times Square for the very same thing in New York and they had mallets as well to pound what p*sses you off..GREAT IDEA!


Good riddance to....people that talk behind your back! they are not "genuine" Banish them from your life!


Good riddance to....employers that don't listen to what their employees are trying to say...we matter people..we do the work!!

Bump.

These gawd damn forums are boring as hell lately. Wtf yo.

And eff back injuries. This is my third one and it has not been cooperating in the last week. NO FREAKING BUENO. 😢

I loff them

Hehe Helga.

Man, I'm bummed. Actually got out of work early, but still a tad to late to make it to intended plans.

I hit up the Libra instead. That guy is too hesitant/indecisive/shy, haha. I finally had to outright asked him if he wanted to hang out. But he couldn't though. Boo.

Now I'm just blah and cranky.

Fuck ppl who you make arrangements with who tell you something is all right and then get a case of amnesia and asshatted-ness when the situation arises. You as an oxygen thief can run on a set of train tracks right before the train runs. 🙂

As this is the "Ranty Rant" thread, I think I will throw this in here.....

I have been noticing how much we Rams really do share in common. Unfortunately, not all of it is positive. I am referring to such things as people who obviously have a party plan, but don't seem to want to include us in those plans. Several comments in this thread are of this nature.

Also, for the longest time I thought I was pretty much the only social misfit of my particular nature. In many ways, I was, and still am. On the other hand, I am finding it curious, and perhaps a bit saddening, to learn that there are actually quite a number of us out there.

That brings me to a second observation, that of being alone. In my opinion this is both a blessing, and a curse. It is a blessing in that as we tend to be left alone by lots and lots of people, and we are OK with that. I personally have occasional issues with that, as I actually get lonely at times. Those of you with more close family than I may not experience this issue. I envy you a bit.

On the whole though, it is our fierce independence that makes who we are, and what we are. I will not follow the dictates of others simply by a "because I say so!" from them. I may be the proverbial square peg, but I am truly grateful that even if you do pound on me, I a still going to be what I choose to be! And there it is again, the other side of the story. People turn to me when they need help, when they need a friend, when they need someone to talk to, when they need someone to defend them. When the chips are down, "Get Me DOFACC!" gets said a lot.

Posted by dofacc

Also, for the longest time I thought I was pretty much the only social misfit of my particular nature. In many ways, I was, and still am. On the other hand, I am finding it curious, and perhaps a bit saddening, to learn that there are actually quite a number of us out there.

That brings me to a second observation, that of being alone. In my opinion this is both a blessing, and a curse. It is a blessing in that as we tend to be left alone by lots and lots of people, and we are OK with that. I personally have occasional issues with that, as I actually get lonely at times. Those of you with more close family than I may not experience this issue. I envy you a bit.

On the whole though, it is our fierce independence that makes who we are, and what we are. I will not follow the dictates of others simply by a "because I say so!" from them. I may be the proverbial square peg, but I am truly grateful that even if you do pound on me, I a still going to be what I choose to be! And there it is again, the other side of the story. People turn to me when they need help, when they need a friend, when they need someone to talk to, when they need someone to defend them. When the chips are down, "Get Me DOFACC!" gets said a lot.

Alas, I could bore you with my personal diatribes on the matter, but in short, I cannot do anything but support this notion and state that I, too, fall into this category. I understand the loneliness as well, including the separation from family. At the very least, I am given the time I need to deliberate and pursue my objectives.

I have also been disillusioned in regards to relying on my friends. Called upon often in the past, I was there with Aries speed and ardentry. And when I needed their support the most, I was met with whispers behind turned backs and cold stares of misunderstanding and bewilderment. Now they have the audacity to assume that I've abandoned them, to which I say "you've all abandoned me." One I am and one I shall be. I move now into 2013 with few regrets and no remorse. Saturn in Libra taught me a harsh, but well-learned lesson.

Posted by limited

I have also been disillusioned in regards to relying on my friends. Called upon often in the past, I was there with Aries speed and ardentry. And when I needed their support the most, I was met with whispers behind turned backs and cold stares of misunderstanding and bewilderment. Now they have the audacity to assume that I've abandoned them, to which I say "you've all abandoned me." One I am and one I shall be. I move now into 2013 with few regrets and no remorse. Saturn in Libra taught me a harsh, but well-learned lesson.

On the flip side, the friends who have still supported me are held deeply within me and they retain my relentless support and endearment. I've noticed my lasting friendships have been Cancers, Scorpios, and in-part Leos. I've gotten on well with Libras, Caps, Sags, Pisces, and certain Leos for years, and yet somehow we ended up burning bridges. I hardly know any Taurus, Gemini, or Virgos.