scorpio girl with a aries man need advice!

ive been going out with aries guy for 4 months but we started off as friends,
anyway i would like some advice on whether this relationship is going to last..
by the way he came on really strong at the beginning telling me he loves me
and wants me to be his wife which i didnt totally believe as he is known to be a player,
but he admitted this and told me once he is in a relationship he is completly loyal...
but now things have slowed down and he isnt as emotionally expressive as before.
but he does still make an effort to call me before and after he finishes work,
and we see eachother when we can. he is perfect for me because we have such an honest relationship
and we tell eachother everything although i cant always say what i want to say
becuz i feel he is a lot more sensitive than me but i dont mind him saying whatever..im less easily offended.
but i feel he is very demanding of my attention sometimes and doesnt understand i have a life of my own lol
and like my own space form time to time.
which i have told him but he doesnt seem to listen and wen i have to go home because i have work the next day
he makes me feel guilty for leaving but if he does it..it doesnt matter, can you say double standards!!
he even asked me what i would choose my work or him he drives me mad sometimes but i still love him.

me - scorpio sun/taurus moon/sagittarius rising, venus in scorpio and gemini mars.

him - aries sun/libra moon, venus in pisces and mars in aquarius

Sounds like it's going great to me? When he stops demanding for your attention, that's when you should start to worry. Otherwise just put your foot down and be firm with him if it gets too much. He'll back off, but he'll be back for more, so just learn to embrace his need for attention 🙂

"and we tell eachother everything although i cant always say what i want to say
becuz i feel he is a lot more sensitive than me but i dont mind him saying whatever..im less easily offended.
but i feel he is very demanding of my attention sometimes and doesnt understand..."

You are still getting to know each other so live in the now & don't worry about 'happy ever after.' This isn't a fairytale, it's a relationship and you need to learn how to communicate with him. Don't suppress your needs. He can handle it. I guarantee if you were open with him he would feel more secure and let you have your space. Don't hide or act mysterious with an Aries. Be affectionate, loving & open while you tell him you need to go do this or that. He should understand.