Scorpio Woman in love with Aries Male Please help!

Where oh where do I began? I hurt my aries really bad. I said something that hurt his feelings and I feel awful about it.(I am a Scorpio by the way) He was so hurt he wanted to break up. He did everything but give me my key back to my place. We talked last nite and I thought we got somewhere. We made plans to spend the day together, but he is ignoring me again. He has not called and has not come by.

I feel like I am losing him. I love him so much. we are so compatible, but I am afraid that what I said to him may have been the end. He says he loves me, but I hurt his feelings. He is shutting me out and I cannot bare it.

Should I give up, or is there hope?

Any comments are welcome....

Thanks,

Entice

Wow! u are a God sent! U have touched on so many points, and I have been thinking about them as well. I really agree with what u said about him wanting me to hurt as much as he is. I really considered that, and guess what? I am probably hurting more. I do think that he thinks I am a little flirt. I am, but I love him and have and will continue to be faithful to him. I know he told me that I need to be a good girl because he knows how I am . I told him we are both very sexual, but I would never cheat on him. I do not get down like that. That means I do not value our relationship or anything we have shared.

I agree that I should give him space. I feel that I was the one who messed up, so let him deal with what he needs to deal with. I do not want him to feel that I have given up on him either. I know that I should not go after him. That is how I got him in the 1st place. I did not chase him. I let him chase me. The thing is that I do not know what he is thinking and that suks!

The last time we talked he told me that we were good and that we need to put this on the backburner and move on and build. I agreed and then he is ignoring me again and this was just Saturday, we were suppose to spend yesterday together and he was a no-show..no-call type brotha...One thing I hate is a coward..I really do..can't stand it.

I can honestly say this.I have never felt love like I have felt from him. He is everythig that I want and it hurts. If we are meant to be then I must let him go, if he comes back then I know he is mine. I know we have been through this before, but not to this level. I am so happy that u can relate. What gives me a little hope is that he has not given me my key back. I figured if it were over he would have done that....what do u think?

I cannot begin to sit here and tell you how special my sweety is. U are dealing with a Aries, so I am sure u can relate. He is just wonderful and I would not trade him in for anything, and I do not want to lose that. To be honest I do not think he can throw away what he has in me. I have totally accepted him and he tells me that he has never experienced that before. We have shared so much and I just can't imagine anyone throwing that away.

Thanks for letting me vent. I really appreciate it!

Entice

Entice

As you can see I am Scorpio also 11/9

You have read about my Aries friend, that I have known for about 3-4 years and we finaly got together, because of him, well I have made him made nurmours times, especially involving money as a friend and a lover know. And the last time he got mad at me he told me that he could not sleep because of a comment I made about me paying him back money I borrow but once I slept with him I dissed the money I owe and told him well he got made and I did not know he was mad for a bout 2 days. Then I called and he told me and we talked about it and I told him that it was as much as his fault as mines. I know I assummed but, he told me I should and discussed it with him first, well he said that he was going to get me back, and I said well I won't come and see you anymore about a day later I went to his house and called him in the room and was hugging him,and kissing him and asking him to forgive me and he forgave me, (that was easy) but I know now not to do that anymore

He has helped me a lot financially as friends and I took it upon myself to change the routine because I slept with him. But we are back on track.

All I can do is be myself, because I see that he likes me like I am.

Hey Entice ....Dont give him space and dont leave him alone for a long time !
Just give him a reassuring look of affection and he would be taken in by those hypnotic eyes. Aft thingz cool down, go quiet for some time as if U r contemplating sth so that his ego is not overly inflated 😉

Remember, If u leave him alone for long, he may take it as a snub !
Make use of gestures only. Too much of cajoling can arouse a monster child in him 🙂

Aries will always remain wary of enigmatic scorpion musings 😛

Hi

An Aries who is ignoring you, can have three ways. it's a dangerous Aries mood.
as you allready wrote;
1: he wants to let you feel how much he's hurt.
2: he wants to sort everything out before contacting you

But i got a 3rd one:
3: I know from myself that if i ignore someone by not calling, i want the other to
contact me !

Good Luck

boyfromutrecht ( Aries)

I know it's weird....

OK, HE IS BACK! I am thrilled! he called me yesterday around about 9, I went to my sister's house and we came back to my house to watch WWE. He called and said that he was trying to get me, but his phone was not working. I said that is fine. I advised him that my cat was missing and he said he would be right over. He was very concerned and sounded very caring on the phone.

When he got there he ranged my intercom, instead of using my key. He came in and was expecting a hug from me, but I leaned back. He was very concerned about my cat, we spent about an hour looking for my cat. He is gone! I can't believe it. Anyway, my sister went home and we spent the evening chatting and getting to know eachother and we both decided that we just cannot be without one another. He told me the reason he stayed away was because it was at my request. I needed to know what I was giving up. He also stated that he just had to lean back because he does not want to crowd me.

He says she loves me. He had an appt the next morning at 8. He went home about 3 in the morning, called me at 3:15 and said that he was coming back. He came back and we didn't get to sleep until 6 Am yeaaa baby!

We are going to take this time to build our relationship. We are getting to know eachother better and he said that is what a relationship is about. Yea u are gonna fight, but if u love the person u compromise. He also told me that I was built for him....Wow!

Anyway, I wanted to thank all the people who gave me advice. He did not stay mad long and he forgives me and he loves me. I guess almost everyone was right...

Smooches,

Entice