Scorpio Woman in love with Aries Male Please help

Where oh where do I began? I hurt my aries really bad. I said something that hurt his feelings and I feel awful about it.(I am a Scorpio by the way) He was so hurt he wanted to break up. He did everything but give me my key back to my place. We talked last nite and I thought we got somewhere. We made plans to spend the day together, but he is ignoring me again. He has not called and has not come by.

I feel like I am losing him. I love him so much. we are so compatible, but I am afraid that what I said to him may have been the end. He says he loves me, but I hurt his feelings. He is shutting me out and I cannot bare it.

Should I give up, or is there hope?

Any comments are welcome....

Thanks,

Entice

WOw! Well, I never got that feeling that he has not been genuine with me. We both suffer from depression and he said something to me that triggered something and I said something that hurt his feelings, and then I sent him a im saying maybe we need some space. I am just not sure what to do.

I think the best thing for me to do is to let him be. I cannot bare him ignoring me anymore.

Entice

Well, u have some good points. I know that he loves me and he knows that I love him. Loving eachother is certainly not the question. I thought our relationship was deeper than this, but I was the one who said we should have space. we both have our own issues and we have been there for eachother, but u are right. I want someone to be there for me even if I say something harsh.

I think I feel mostly bad because I hurt his feelings and I feel awful about it. I think that if he was really done he would have given me my key back.

I will just give him space. We should use this time to work on ourselves anyway.

Thanks for all your feedback, I appreciate it!

Enitce

Hey Entice,

I find Aries tend to get over things pretty quick.......And on the other hand it depends on what you said.

I just hope and pray that he is ok and can forgive me. I know that we both are going through the same thing and that is why I feel so bad becauase I know I hurt his feelings, but he also stated that he wanted to start putting his life back together. I think what bothers me the most is that he is ignoring me.

I care about him so much, but I have never dealt with a Aries before, but I fell in love and everyone knows once a Scorpio is in love (thats's it) I am going to fight for him as long as I can. I don't want him to push me out of his life. I thought we had something better than this.

I remember him keep telling me that he does not like drama and he does not like to argue. I personlly don't either, but if you piss me off you are going to hear about it and the is when my stinger comes out because I am either pissed or hurt.

I also realize that I can't keep beating myself up over this. I have apologized to him and expressed to him why and what, so I will lean back and just chill. If he needs space then I will provide that.

I just can't see how a person can tell u that they love u and becasue u say something in the heat of the moment u get so upset that u do not want to talk to me anymore. I feel like this is a pattern with him and he is doing everything to forget me. If anyone has been involved with a Scorpio knows. We are not easy to forget. He will be back!!!!

Entice

OK, HE IS BACK! I am thrilled! he called me yesterday around about 9, I went to my sister's house and we came back to my house to watch WWE. He called and said that he was trying to get me, but his phone was not working. I said that is fine. I advised him that my cat was missing and he said he would be right over. He was very concerned and sounded very caring on the phone.

When he got there he ranged my intercom, instead of using my key. He came in and was expecting a hug from me, but I leaned back. He was very concerned about my cat, we spent about an hour looking for my cat. He is gone! I can't believe it. Anyway, my sister went home and we spent the evening chatting and getting to know eachother and we both decided that we just cannot be without one another. He told me the reason he stayed away was because it was at my request. I needed to know what I was giving up. He also stated that he just had to lean back because he does not want to crowd me.

He says she loves me. He had an appt the next morning at 8. He went home about 3 in the morning, called me at 3:15 and said that he was coming back. He came back and we didn't get to sleep until 6 Am yeaaa baby!

We are going to take this time to build our relationship. We are getting to know eachother better and he said that is what a relationship is about. Yea u are gonna fight, but if u love the person u compromise. He also told me that I was built for him....Wow!

Anyway, I wanted to thank all the people who gave me advice. He did not stay mad long and he forgives me and he loves me. I guess almost everyone was right...

Smooches,

Entice

Yesssir

very sweet indeed! Scorpio and Aries! Two passionate signs...just be careful with your stinger! Aries are more sensitive than they look...