So confused by this Aries man!!!

I am a Virgo, Aries moon, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in capricorn. He is an Aries, virgo moon, Venus in Taurus, Mars in capricorn.

I've been dating this guy for 3 months and I want to start off by stating that I feel such a special connection with him.

We met at a club but he lives in another about 10 hrs away 😢 we partied together that one night (nothin happened, not even a kiss) and kept in touch via phone, skype, email only to both discover (or at least me) that we were literally the same person. I don't know how this happened but we built such a strong connection. Finished each other's sentences, laughed like crazy, flirted, phone sex, everything. He tried coming to see me one wknd but my mom had surgery and I told him it wasn't a good time. The next plan was for me to fly out and see him in 2 weeks. I haven't bought my ticket yet, and this is why:

He started talking to me about marriage. He said he has never met a woman like me and he knows he never will so he will do anything to make this happen because he's the type to stay single until he meets the one. Funny enough so am I. He texted me every morning and we would talk all night after work. The talks we had were epic. I'm telling you it's like he's my soulmate. Just a week and a half ago he said I was his soulmate and I told him he's mine. So we start following each other on social networking sites.. And it all went downhill from there. First, I saw a girl post something on one of his pics so I went on her profile only to see that he commented on one of her pics "my future wife" --.-- ummm.. Huge fight happened. (That's something he said to me and I never expected he would say it to someone else) this was a few weeks ago. He said he was sorry when I tried to end things and that he didn't mean to talk to her that way but he was "scared to get too attached to me" until I followed through with my promise to move down there. Ok so let me get this straight.. You're making plans for the future with me and we are seriosuly talking about me relocating to be with you but yet you don't want to get too attached?? I cussed him out pretty bad (my Aries moon makes me crazy) and all it did was make him like me even more. This guy loves when I tell him off and loves my "crazy side". He said that he thinks he loves me and he loves how strong I am and that he can't be wth a weak girl he needs a woman like me in his life to keep him in his place.. Ok. So we made up and imagine how disappointed I was when I saw

imagine how disappointed I was when I saw more stuff online.. This time the comments weren't as bad but still very inappropriate. I've been holding it in since last week because I just felt that I didn't have enough to cause a huge fight and I wanted to wait to see if I see more. Also, it was his bday this wknd and I didn't want to ruin it. Unfortunately, I'm not very good at bottling stuff in so it obviously surfaced in my behaviour. First, I pulled back a little and stopped texting as much. That really set him off. He didn't hear from me in a day and the next day he sent me all these angry messages and all I kept thinking in my head was "well why are you still flirting with other women and telling me you're scared to get attached". I didn't say anything and just apologized for not texting. Then friday night comes around. Friday we talked in the morning and on our lunch. After work I come home and I go online and I see him making plans with another girl to "go to the beach together" even though they had just met online in the same convo. I was in a bad mood so I decided to hit the salsa club (we're both spanish btw). So I message him to let him know I'm going out dancing and we got in a huge fight. First he got mad that I was "dancing with guys" (little does he know I knew he made plans with that girl) then he also gets mad that "he hasn't heard from me all day" even though it had literally been 6 hrs since we last talked. It was taking all my power to hold back knowing it was his bday that wknd. I cussed him out and told him I wasn't going dancing anymore. He ignored my last few messages and I had to be the one to message him on Saturday after no response since Friday night! I'm saying this because it's weird he alsways used to respond to me. Then Saturday I tried to smooth thigs over which was hard on my ego but I did it anyways and I was very nice and sweet to him. We last texted around 2. 11pm comes around and I haven't heard from him (funny how he gets mad at me for not texting enough) so I texted him saying like "you must be out good night" but nicer. And he replied that he was dealing with some things and sorry mi amor etc etc I was kind of dry with him and he hot upset and again he ignored my messages. Sunday, the day before his bday, I wake up still no response so I just messaged him that I hope he has a nice bday and I won't bother him. He got mad and wrote me this paragraph about how I was accusing him of things that didn't happen and he didn't

..how I was accusing him of things that didn't happen and he didn't check his phone etc etc "bye". I left it alone and decided in my head tht I would just wish him a happy bday at midnight and let it go. However, I also made plans to go out beause at this point i was feeling so down. I'm out with my fiends and at 12:01 I wish him happy bday. He responds a half hr later saying thank you baby good night if ur already in bed. I told him I was out good night and his response was "whatever have fun"... Turns out he didn't party for his bday he only did the family thing.. Unless he didn't post the "after party pics" online I don't know for sure because WE HAVENT TALKED SINCE. I actually responses to his whatever comment saying I don't understand why he needs to be rude and he never responded!! I left him alone the day of his bday to avoid a fight but haven't heard from him since and it's been 4 days! Today I texted him a sad face and he never responded since the morning. I sent him one more text this evening saying ok I tried guess u want to be left alone and nothing no response.

And now this huge wave of crappy feelings just hit me and I actually cried which takes a lot for me.

I feel like we might be over and I don't even know what to think about this guy! I thought Aries are supposed to be honest! I'm dead honest it's so hard for me to lie (must be the virgo Aries combo I dunno) so I don't get this guy! He makes plans with women calls them "future wife and hot and beautiful" thinking I won't go to their profiles and see but yet snaps if I want to go out snaps if I don't message him and tells me I'm his vida (his life) his everything the woman of his dreams the perfect girl etc makes future plans with me, wants me to move down, calls me his soulmate but then says he's scared to get attached but doesn't want me to get 'detached' at the same time judging by his behaviour every time I try... He says he loves a strong crazy woman and he gets turned on when we argue yet he disappears at the sight of ongoing drama... And now he's completely ignoring me since Sunday night.

Someone please help me shed some light on all this. Do I just move on at this point? With no closure? Do I wait? I don't want to wait if there's no chance I hate false hope and I have zero patience (something we both have in common which tells me he must really not care right now)

Im sad because this was such a strong connection and I'm worried I won't find this again...

All advice

All advice appreciated. Sorry this was so long but it's my first time venting it out! Thanks!

Ok, so I am a Virgo with an Aries Moon and a Water Venus..and love Aries Men.

The connection you felt made you delusional in assuming he was a soulmate.

Cut your losses now. This dude isn't worth it. Yes, move on and don't wait. If you can run, do that.

The more you stay the more your water venus will cling to any faint glimmer of hope. Choose your sanity over this delusion.

I stopped at "we met at a club."

You should have known then that this would have been doomed, sorry.