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incandescentcancer,

You got me tempted to show you a picture. Where are you getting this information from 'cause I know two other signs much more likely to seek enhancement. Aries is more known for au naturale - sometimes too au naturale.

Personally, I don't wear a single bit of artificial anything. No: make-up, perm, eyelashes, weave... I always want to be READY. I also believe that it's better for attraction - love me for ME - unadulterated ME. And, I have been complimented by men for being without any "additives." I've even tried to do something a little different and was told by partners an emphatic - NOoooo!
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Posted by feb16aqua
I don't think superficial is the right way to put it. The arians I know are very visual, and very visually stimulated.



Yeah that means superficial.

My question was based on how the general description from an astro point of view is that Aries is the child of the Zodiac. the one who rose first from the primordial sludge. Secondly, aries whether on this forum or anywhere else seem to go straight for the looks and sex more than thoughts and intellect. But this observation is just based on comments made by members here and elsewhere.

So the question still remains how far does the arian need for "visual stimulation" go, if you are visually stimulated by others you expect the same of yourself which leads to the logical conclusions of getting work done.

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Posted by size zero superhero
yeah this accusation seems better suited toward leos.
i know a few IRL who've undergone MAJOR transformations by the knife. one leo girl i've known since high school went from an a-cup to a d when she turned 20. her parents are loaded, and i believe they sponsored said operation. another leo i know dropped 4 grand on laser hair removal, which isn't technically plastic surgery, but still considered a cosmetic procedure. and a former leo coworker of mine recently had her nose done.

jocelyn wildenstein AKA 'catwoman' the freakshow/socialite plastic surgery addict is a leo, halle berry's had some work done, i assume madonna has been surgically altered, etc etc. leos love a good surgeon!



This observation about leos rings true from my experience.
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Posted by VenusAquarius
incandescentcancer,

You got me tempted to show you a picture. Where are you getting this information from 'cause I know two other signs much more likely to seek enhancement. Aries is more known for au naturale - sometimes too au naturale.

Personally, I don't wear a single bit of artificial anything. No: make-up, perm, eyelashes, weave... I always want to be READY. I also believe that it's better for attraction - love me for ME - unadulterated ME. And, I have been complimented by men for being without any "additives." I've even tried to do something a little different and was told by partners an emphatic - NOoooo!



I am not making a personal judgement call. Just curious based on certain comments and observations. By the way do you think maybe it's just you? What is your observation of Aries in general?
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Posted by feb16aqua
Superficial and visually stimulated are the same thing? Then aren't we all superficial to some degree? Not to mention that superficial has a negative connotation when referring to someone. It's betrayed but not by definition.
I cannot speak for arians on their personal need for visual stimulation though because I am not an aries and I don't live inside of them.



If you're only visually stimulated then yes, you're superficial.
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Posted by sugaries
Simply...no.

I like sex a lot, yes...and I need to be physically attracted to my partner. That being said, I've found myself physically attracted to all shapes and sizes and colors etc. Funny that this was brought up because just this past weekend a guy told me that I date people beneath my league and that's not the first time I've heard that. If I have a type at all, it's the funny guy.

There are so many different types of relationship chemistry: sexual, emotional, intellectual, creative, spiritual...etc.

For me personally, only recently, I am more wrapped up in physical/sexual chemistry because it's been hard for me to find up until this point. It's rather easy for me to find someone with similar interests who I can laugh and joke and debate with but I always find that the sex is lacking...and I don't just mean I can't find a hot man with a 6pack. I mean, when it comes to physical intimacy, our style s are extremely different. Supposedly, it can be developed over time but that hasn't been the case for me.

Maybe this is a phase and I'll grow out of it and learn that emotional or intellectual love is more fulfilling in the long run OR better yet, I'll find a partner who ticks every box...until then, I'm mostly motivated by the physical.

Oh, I need to answer the question too. Obviously, as stated above...I'm not superficial. I am vain sometimes. I like to look at my face. Not even sure why, as I'm pretty average looking. I guess I just have a healthy self-esteem. I'm not against plastic surgery but I don't want the "enhanced" look. If I did get plastic surgery, I would want it to look as natural as possible. I wear minimal makeup on a daily basis and I blowdry my hair and rock natural waves. I don't want to look "done".





I understand what you're saying. Sexual habits are actually hard to change I know that from personal experience. I like a girl who is a bit rough and wants to have a bit of a go, it would be hard for me to do the "sweet love making to the sound of ocean waves girl". But at the same time I also look for an intellectually stimulating partner. I would certainly screw a dumb girl but I wouldn't want to have breakfast with her. So it's a tough balance to achieve, I get that.

But from a pure appearance perspective, i guess what you're saying is this is not the big thing for you. You're more concerned about the phys