VenusAquarius
VenusAquarius joined January 27, 2012Describing my eyes, "...see all the darkness behind the wall of indifference. "
Venus dominant Aries with Venus in the 1st house.
- People are sensitive as treetrunk.
Gah damn...
He thought meet up as friends. You surprise him with, I had a crush on you for years, you were drunk, and he said, Ugh, ill.
The end. - Adorbs. Sasha seems to fit her.
Posted by dilettante
just now she asked if i wanted her to run the load of laundry i accidentally left in the washer last night...
she’s a good person, just has some issues when she drinks 😢
Smh...
Why are you analyzing her?
It's not about being a bad person. Smh.
Get bussed in the eye next time then, LOL.Posted by Phantom_Dangus
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This sound like a community type, life style issue.
You let this get out of hand - boundaries.
i agree that i set the precedent.
it wasnt much of an issue before bc i dont live in the main house but, now i am worried.
i’ll just have to be really firm with her if/when it happens again.
No. It will not happen again.
You can't smoke wit us, period. Boundaries.
lol ya that’s what i meant about being firm. just not allow her in my space to drink.
I only get treetrunked up around family and friends.
We pride ourselves on being outrageous, fun, and classy... like running up in a hip-hop club and doing the waltz.
treetrunk low class unknowns... it's a clique thing. Have some exclusivity about you.
well that’s the thing, i typically am verrrry picky about who i spend my time with. i am almost always alone, in my own space, doing my own thing. i’ll have a beer or two, by myself bc i dont wanna be bothered.
it’s difficult with her bc i DO like her. we have a nice time together when she is sober. but she gets so buck wild when she is drunk. don’t get me wrong, i love turning up w/ friends but, not if they are gonna be mean & sloppy.
i try to give her the benefit of the doubt but clearly that’s not worked for me.
she gives me little sister vibes... like she needs to show off & assert her power bc my friends & i are older & more established.
it’s almost like she doesnt like people who dont get as messy or, aggressive as she does.
See...
She's either a friend or a roomate.
In girlfriend group, we handle each other's weaknesses cause - friend - which allows you be frank... protective, etc. cause - friends....
Friend or roommate - boundaries.
Don't mean nothing that you chill by yourself.
She's not in your circle.
Not necessarily. My two closest friends all the way through college were also my roommates. Same with my closest friend in grad school. I'm still friends with all of them.click to expand
That's very typical.Posted by dilettante
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Posted by VenusAquarius
This sound like a community type, life style issue.
You let this get out of hand - boundaries.
i agree that i set the precedent.
it wasnt much of an issue before bc i dont live in the main house but, now i am worried.
i’ll just have to be really firm with her if/when it happens again.
No. It will not happen again.
You can't smoke wit us, period. Boundaries.
lol ya that’s what i meant about being firm. just not allow her in my space to drink.
I only get treetrunked up around family and friends.
We pride ourselves on being outrageous, fun, and classy... like running up in a hip-hop club and doing the waltz.
treetrunk low class unknowns... it's a clique thing. Have some exclusivity about you.
well that’s the thing, i typically am verrrry picky about who i spend my time with. i am almost always alone, in my own space, doing my own thing. i’ll have a beer or two, by myself bc i dont wanna be bothered.
it’s difficult with her bc i DO like her. we have a nice time together when she is sober. but she gets so buck wild when she is drunk. don’t get me wrong, i love turning up w/ friends but, not if they are gonna be mean & sloppy.
i try to give her the benefit of the doubt but clearly that’s not worked for me.
she gives me little sister vibes... like she needs to show off & assert her power bc my friends & i are older & more established.
it’s almost like she doesnt like people who dont get as messy or, aggressive as she does.
See...
She's either a friend or a roomate.
In girlfriend group, we handle each other's weaknesses cause - friend - which allows you be frank... protective, etc. cause - friends....
Friend or roommate - boundaries.
Don't mean nothing that you chill by yourself.
She's not in your circle.
so you think i should just stick to housemate vibes & not try to be her friend?
i guess, that is a good suggestion. it makes sense to make the boundary.
but i do like her & i do consider her a friend. just none of my other friends are like this 😂click to expand
Nobody treetrunks with angry drunks and violent drunks. They don't get invited anywhere.
Nobody tolerates it unless they're in a gang.Posted by dilettante
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Posted by VenusAquarius
This sound like a community type, life style issue.
You let this get out of hand - boundaries.
i agree that i set the precedent.
it wasnt much of an issue before bc i dont live in the main house but, now i am worried.
i’ll just have to be really firm with her if/when it happens again.
No. It will not happen again.
You can't smoke wit us, period. Boundaries.
lol ya that’s what i meant about being firm. just not allow her in my space to drink.
I only get treetrunked up around family and friends.
We pride ourselves on being outrageous, fun, and classy... like running up in a hip-hop club and doing the waltz.
treetrunk low class unknowns... it's a clique thing. Have some exclusivity about you.
well that’s the thing, i typically am verrrry picky about who i spend my time with. i am almost always alone, in my own space, doing my own thing. i’ll have a beer or two, by myself bc i dont wanna be bothered.
it’s difficult with her bc i DO like her. we have a nice time together when she is sober. but she gets so buck wild when she is drunk. don’t get me wrong, i love turning up w/ friends but, not if they are gonna be mean & sloppy.
i try to give her the benefit of the doubt but clearly that’s not worked for me.
she gives me little sister vibes... like she needs to show off & assert her power bc my friends & i are older & more established.
it’s almost like she doesnt like people who dont get as messy or, aggressive as she does.click to expand
See...
She's either a friend or a roomate.
In girlfriend group, we handle each other's weaknesses cause - friend - which allows you be frank... protective, etc. cause - friends....
Friend or roommate - boundaries.
Don't mean nothing that you chill by yourself.
She's not in your circle.Posted by dilettante
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Posted by dilettante
Posted by VenusAquarius
This sound like a community type, life style issue.
You let this get out of hand - boundaries.
i agree that i set the precedent.
it wasnt much of an issue before bc i dont live in the main house but, now i am worried.
i’ll just have to be really firm with her if/when it happens again.
No. It will not happen again.
You can't smoke wit us, period. Boundaries.
lol ya that’s what i meant about being firm. just not allow her in my space to drink.click to expand
I only get treetrunked up around family and friends.
We pride ourselves on being outrageous, fun, and classy... like running up in a hip-hop club and doing the waltz.
treetrunk low class unknowns... it's a clique thing. Have some exclusivity about you.Posted by dilettante
Posted by VenusAquarius
This sound like a community type, life style issue.
You let this get out of hand - boundaries.
i agree that i set the precedent.
it wasnt much of an issue before bc i dont live in the main house but, now i am worried.
i’ll just have to be really firm with her if/when it happens again.click to expand
No. It will not happen again.
You can't smoke wit us, period. Boundaries.- This sound like a community type, life style issue.
You let this get out of hand - boundaries. - My will is so strong I feel like a witch.
- LOL
- I gotta ease out very slowly. Thought about it.... gotta ease put very carefully. Could get me for conflict of interest.
- There was the opposite as well. Thankless jobs like fighting for maternity leave for a female that felt slighted cause I broke down her illusions that bosses are dumb. And, was intimidated and defensive all the time.
- That's why I still treetrunk around on this site... helps me relax.... a bunch a treetrunkbutter to take my mind off real butter, LMAO.
- No pension
- Then, when I wrote him up, he was syruply obnoxiously respect. Punctuating all communication with "yes mam" and "mam."
Then, I had to fire a female for obstinate failure to take any instruction, and disrespctful to me and my supervisor like she was our Read more - LOL, thanks. Gonna need alot of deodorant next week. Got a headache already.
- You have to really fall on your own sword... and, it's like I have no choice.
One guy got in my face. He was 6'7. I can still see the izod label in my right eye, lol. Just cause I checked on status.
