VenusAquarius

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This woman that runs in our social circle has had 2 men and on her 3rd atm in one year.

Nothing strange there... except she has them practically move in for a few months and play stepdaddy then discards them when she gets bored.

Must be weird af for her kids. "Oh, this is the guy mommy will be treetrunking for a few months".

She's a Pisces. 🙄

Yeah, that's treetrunked up. I'm not asking to move in lol just want to meet them.

Is this the guy you said you don’t trust and if so why would you want to meet his children?

I feel meeting his children would show me that he is sincere with his feelings towards me. That he really wants me in his life like he claims. That he is commited to me. He told me that other than his kids I am the only person he cares about. So I want him to prove that. Then all my trust issues with him will disappear.

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Shouldn't use his kids as a way to feel secure in the relationship.

That's exactly what I thought guys I dated were trying to do when they were wanting to meet my kids. The notion pissed me off. This post kinda confirms that my instincts were on point. Like who's so desperate to meet kids they don't know? (Also made me question possible pedo inclinations)

And, I hope his isn't showing you pictures of his kids to bait you along.

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For you single parents out there. What are your rules for introducing your kids to new boyfriend/girlfriend?

My rule was never unless marriage was in the picture.

However, my son objected as he was concerned for my safety. He asked to at least see the dude for a minute (let em in the house for a brief intro, LOL). And secondly, he wanted little bit of say or opinion on the guy. So, I laxed up...slowly.

Some guys were offended at my original firm stance. One guy discussed it for what felt like an hour. I tried hard not to be pissed off.

I'm a Cap Ascendant. I don't treetrunk around like that.

My cap bestie is super protective of her kid. I want to meet the Pisces kids but dobt know how to approach.

I don't think.you should. Just show enthusiasm and or pleasant curiosity whenever the kid(s) are mentioned. It's enough of a hint.

I do. I'm always asking about them. And comment on any pics he sends me of them. But not in a creepy perv way. Lol He knows I get along with my own nieces and nephews who are all around the same age as his boys. And he knows how protective I am of them.

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Meeting the kids is judgement time. It's the line in the sand that will make or break the relationship for my type of parent... No one should rush in to meet my kids for this reason. And, I tried to warn them..."hey, you don't want to do that just yet."

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For you single parents out there. What are your rules for introducing your kids to new boyfriend/girlfriend?

My rule was never unless marriage was in the picture.

However, my son objected as he was concerned for my safety. He asked to at least see the dude for a minute (let em in the house for a brief intro, LOL). And secondly, he wanted little bit of say or opinion on the guy. So, I laxed up...slowly.

Some guys were offended at my original firm stance. One guy discussed it for what felt like an hour. I tried hard not to be pissed off.

I'm a Cap Ascendant. I don't treetrunk around like that.

My cap bestie is super protective of her kid. I want to meet the Pisces kids but dobt know how to approach.

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I don't think.you should. Just show enthusiasm and or pleasant curiosity whenever the kid(s) are mentioned. It's enough of a hint.

Posted by SeaLion
For you single parents out there. What are your rules for introducing your kids to new boyfriend/girlfriend?

My rule was never unless marriage was in the picture.

However, my son objected as he was concerned for my safety. He asked to at least see the dude for a minute (let em in the house for a brief intro, LOL). And secondly, he wanted little bit of say or opinion on the guy. So, I laxed up...slowly.

Some guys were offended at my original firm stance. One guy discussed it for what felt like an hour. I tried hard not to be pissed off.

I'm a Cap Ascendant. I don't treetrunk around like that.

Military guys are often lonely and thus dedicated (or desparate). Would be difficult to put him off. You will most likely end things if anyone.

As an Aqua Venus female who has dated Leo Venuses... I know they mean it when they shower you with gifts (more gifts than the norm and various ranges of lil.gifts to big ones).

And, they like a partner they can show off or feel proud of. You will feel this. They act clearly delighted by your appearance... like thet want to take your hand and skip across towm together.

They are not long distance doers at all and are quite tactile. They are traditional romantics and will wait a respectable time.

So, if he goes straight for the kitty and doesn't actually take you on a thoughtful date, it may be a "hit it and quit it."

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Gemini moon can and always get this pus-


Anyway-
No seriously though, they give me the freedom I want. And honestly they give off the same crackhead energy I do when I need it most 🥺 I love them

Sag and Gemini Moons are sooooooo good together. Be laughing their asses off one minutes, then talking about some obscure philosophical outlook the next.

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My mom and my son are Sag Moons. My mom read for the bar, excellent legal mind, and did nothing professional with it. When I'm mad at her... on legal matters... I yell, "you jail house lawyer!" LOL. She uses her legal skills in a rinky dink town for community activism and service. She's a Libra - law - but with Sag Moon and Ascendant.

My son is similar but is a Taurus...

I can go deep with them mentally... esoteric... to the minutiae and they are right there with me in every nuance...

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Gemini moons are super attractive, but cold af, also untrustworthy backstabbers

Is there something specific you find attractive about them? Do you have the feeling a Gemini moon completes you?

Not that completes me, actually they are quite similar but colder

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We're so cold, people actually find it hot.

Good luck... the thought of it all seems exhausting.

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Oops, LEAST:

1. Overt Aries energy
2. Overt Aqua energy
3. Overt Capricorn energy

Sun sign doesn't matter if the above-listed energies are too much.

That's me. Yes, when I saw your photo, it scared me.

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Posted by AriesJo
Hey, yeah I’ve been dating other women. I like the idea of the hot body cafe lol

It’s weird though, I was at her place Monday, we did have sex but I couldn’t be bothered. And after that it was like I’m just not attracted to her anymore, and I’ve been wondering what I saw in her in the first place. Her bed just stank of cigarettes because she smokes a lot and I didn’t really want to stay there.
And I think it was reading these comments and something my friend at work said too, he said I could go out with a girl and buy her a bottle of champagne and she’d be really happy, but this coke head isn’t happy with anything other than coke, and she’s just ungrateful. And that’s how it feels.
I have tickets for the theatre next week (book of Mormon actually) she said she’d go with me, like she says she’ll go hiking or cinema, but she always bails out last minute, cos she’s on a come down. I think she just says she’ll do things so afterwards she can ask for money. Anyway, she won’t remember I bought tickets, so I don’t have to go with her.
She’s sending me photos now still but I’ve not been replying, I just don’t feel attraction to her now, even with the photos. And it feels different to before, where I tried to ignore her and she’d just send them. If she continues I’ll tell her to stop and then block her. I shouldn’t care if I block her, I owe her nothing.

I’m good friends with her friend, like we’ve been hanging out behind her back. She sent me a photo of my ex with a bag of weed, a bag of coke and a bottle of champagne, and she said “obviously you don’t get these photos? Lol” ... and I just think she’s a mess. And on Monday I noticed how big her beer belly is now and how her breath stinks of cigarettes, so I think I was blinded before, because I felt something before. But I probably started feeling things for the fake version of her, what I saw at the start, and i’ve been trying to make things work since. But I can’t think what right now, maybe the coke addiction got worse.
Anyway, going to ask the friend out to the theatre now. She’s just a friend and would never be anything more, but she’s good company. Maybe this is a bad idea, as I would like to forget everything, but I’ll tell her never to talk about my ex and hopefully it will be ok.

Thanks for all your comments. I feel like I’ve been stupid for too long now, and hearing these things helps.

@AriesJo, what the freak is her sign. Damn man. You owe this to us.

She's a Scorpio.

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Thank you

Posted by AriesJo
Hey, yeah I’ve been dating other women. I like the idea of the hot body cafe lol

It’s weird though, I was at her place Monday, we did have sex but I couldn’t be bothered. And after that it was like I’m just not attracted to her anymore, and I’ve been wondering what I saw in her in the first place. Her bed just stank of cigarettes because she smokes a lot and I didn’t really want to stay there.
And I think it was reading these comments and something my friend at work said too, he said I could go out with a girl and buy her a bottle of champagne and she’d be really happy, but this coke head isn’t happy with anything other than coke, and she’s just ungrateful. And that’s how it feels.
I have tickets for the theatre next week (book of Mormon actually) she said she’d go with me, like she says she’ll go hiking or cinema, but she always bails out last minute, cos she’s on a come down. I think she just says she’ll do things so afterwards she can ask for money. Anyway, she won’t remember I bought tickets, so I don’t have to go with her.
She’s sending me photos now still but I’ve not been replying, I just don’t feel attraction to her now, even with the photos. And it feels different to before, where I tried to ignore her and she’d just send them. If she continues I’ll tell her to stop and then block her. I shouldn’t care if I block her, I owe her nothing.

I’m good friends with her friend, like we’ve been hanging out behind her back. She sent me a photo of my ex with a bag of weed, a bag of coke and a bottle of champagne, and she said “obviously you don’t get these photos? Lol” ... and I just think she’s a mess. And on Monday I noticed how big her beer belly is now and how her breath stinks of cigarettes, so I think I was blinded before, because I felt something before. But I probably started feeling things for the fake version of her, what I saw at the start, and i’ve been trying to make things work since. But I can’t think what right now, maybe the coke addiction got worse.
Anyway, going to ask the friend out to the theatre now. She’s just a friend and would never be anything more, but she’s good company. Maybe this is a bad idea, as I would like to forget everything, but I’ll tell her never to talk about my ex and hopefully it will be ok.

Thanks for all your comments. I feel like I’ve been stupid for too long now, and hearing these things helps.

@AriesJo, what the freak is her sign. Damn man. You owe this to us.