The Silent Aries ?

Hi all,
I need your insight, as this is the very first time I deal with an Aries man, and I'm kinda lost here.

I met this guy online last month (he's 33, Aries / Libra Moon /Virgo Rising/ Pisces Venus). He chased me - I admit I was a little scared at first -, but we had a great connection and we talked all the time for two weeks, about anything, and we have a lot in common. We love traveling, both very independant and passionate about our jobs.
Anyway, last convo we had, he suggested meeting (as we don't live in the same cities), asking me about my schedule and things. He seemed very into me. Then after this, nothing.
It's been 10 days - I am not the clingy type, but as I keep seeing him posting stuff on FB, I am wondering why he became so silent. In those 10 days I sent two friendly messages to check up on him, but he hasn't even read them.

Any insight ?
FYI I am Virgo(Libra Cusp)/ Aries Moon / Cancer rising / Leo Venus.

Thank you guys !

He met someone else in the same city? Just a thought....
Either way, it sounds like you've done your part. I'd leave the ball in his court from here.

OMG!!! He has MY CHART!!! LOL. Me Virgo rising/ Aries sun/ Libra moon/ Pisces Venus... haha weird O_o

Btw, your avi says you have a Pisces Moon not a Aries moon.

Anyway, maybe you had a great time but it doesn't mean he felt the same way. I know with that combo I can make people think that way because I don't want to hurt their feelings but I might have been bored out of my mind. Sometimes I meet great guys that we have a lot in common but if there isn't any chemistry then I don't have long term interests. Speaking as a female counterpart and one who knows a lot about fire sign mens... they come on strong usually, and if they don't they probably are not that into you

You can try to make excuses but all in all if a guy is really into you he would not just stop contact like that... especially with us Aries we are VERY impatient. Just beccareful if he comes back... I'd say I'm very calculated, and a man who ignores a woman for that long and then comes back after a hiatus is not going to be looking for anything serious (at least for Aries men). They are very direct in what they want and it doesn't seem like he wants you.

I say move on.

Don't hold your breath and approach with caution if he contacts you again.

Xtina, they never actually met. If they had and he would've backed away..yeah, give it up.

It's possible he might be busy at work and/or stilling thinking about meeting you and working out the logistics if the distance between you two is big.

But like I said, don't count on it.

Posted by Damnata

Xtina, they never actually met. If they had and he would've backed away..yeah, give it up.

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When and where did she say that?

Thanks for your replies !
No we haven't met yet. Last time we talked HE asked me about my schedule and suggested places to meet and making plans about what we could do and so on, so that's why I'm surprised that the next day he stopped talking to me.
Also, on the day that we had this last chat (he also kept telling me how much he loves everything I say, everything I am and blablabla), he deleted his profile on the dating website where we met.

Posted by feby16aqua
I would be glad to forget about him and the possible headache of getting involved with him lol. He was fishing and someone else bit his bait 😛

+100

Yup, thats what it sounds like to me.

I'd be careful on moving too fast on those sites... I've heard some guys say they just go on there tell the girl what they want to hear so they can get in their pants. Okay, I didn't hear I guy say it but I know an acquaintance who's s/o went on those sites saying that even though supposedly he was committed to her *rolls eyes*... just becareful girl. Men some men will say or do anything to get into your pants.

*sorry supposedly he was committed to her but he was going on those sites telling everyone he was single and looking for a committed relationship WTF??

OMG Aries with Gem Mars Not Fun! My mind goes everywhere LOL

xtina and her aries attention span 😛

Posted by Damnata
xtina and her aries attention span 😛

LOL, yes, yes it happens a lot unfortunately... my Cancer even said something about it the other day -_-


I'm like that dog in.... SQUIRREL!!

Posted by champranger

Posted by xtina

OMG Aries with Gem Mars Not Fun! My mind goes everywhere LOL

+1
*another Aries with Gem Mars raising her hands* 😢

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LOL, well at least you seem well put together from what I've read from your posts 🙂

OMG should be doing my lab report right now but I'm currently hiding in DXP... maybe if I wait long enough it will disappear T-T