Littlecutelibra
@Littlecutelibra
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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
He's not "weird". He's fucked up and abusive.
The fact that you even put up with such disrespect says a lot about you.
Please know your worth.
f or anything. We just meet, we hug or whatever. But its not a relationship.
Seriously i know my worth. But all man are either scared of me or boring or try to marry me. This is weirdly interesting to me. Yes i did this out of boredom. But now im afraid i might get involved. And i dont want that but at the same time, he is one of those rich kids with very intelectual family that just was too spoiled. He is a very handsome and smart man. When is sober.
Can i get better? Yes.
But i also helped two good friends of mine to get better. Both of them are quite succesful right now.
Should we all try to help others in their time if need or just throw them away? I act worst then him to other people when im not feeling ok. But maybe i just needed a fecking hug. Anyway.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXPosted by Littlecutelibra
Oh no i dont put up with his disrespect. I usually leave or insult back or giving him reasons why his mean words doesnt aplly to me. Trust me i hit harder. I dont really get touched by his words because me confidence is too high.Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
He's not "weird". He's fucked up and abusive.
The fact that you even put up with such disrespect says a lot about you.
Please know your worth.
No your confidence is not high and I will tell you why.
If you knew your own worth (knew you deserved better), you wouldn't keep coming back.
You think staying around and verbally sparring with him makes you strong? It doesn't. It makes you look just as bad as he does. It doesn't solve anything. This is not a healthy relationship.
Healthy relationships don't consist of two people jumping down each others throats and belittling each other constantly. You can't bring yourself to leave him alone because subconsciously you do not feel that you could do better or that you deserve better.
No one with high self esteem would ever stay with someone as troubled and abusive as he is.
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Posted by AriesLady8
Astrology is not the reason nor the answer for any of this. This has nothing to do with being an Aries. And boredom is not a good enough excuse. No one is that damn interesting to put up with abuse. I don't know who is worst him or you. I'm leaning towards you. He clearly has demons. What is your excuse?!
I think you need to start with asking yourself why you are drawn to this situation. Maybe there is something inside you that needs tending to.
This is not the man to get serious with. He's no good for anyone right now.
And if you want to talk astrology, Aries men don't act anywhere near close to this type of behavior when they care for or are even interested in someone.
Honestly, he's using you. He sounds lonely. He sounds like he needs a body around him for his own reasonings. Not wanting to be alone. He's possibly running from or avoiding something. Like he doesn't want to be left alone with his thoughts.
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But i meet recently a guy , he just broke up 3 month ago from his ex.
It was random, we talked one day 6 hours non stop. And i was impressed with the connection we had. Then he disapeared the next day and wrote me again after and ask to meet and see a movie at his house. So we connected and now almost everyday he calls to meet. And just stay there. He almost doesnt pay attention. Then he would put loud music or play guitar or sleep... no talking... avoiding talking. Everytime a cool song i know interesting information off comes along he says: just let me listen to the song i dont care about that info.
And weird he keeps saying dunno if a joke or not: *would you buy me this or that? Or would you lend me some money*.
I never give any ofc. So he learns not to ask.
He isnt working for the moment but he looks like he is from a wealthy family. He might have a alchohol problem. And he is very rude when drunk. And has said lots of bad things to me. But when sober i confronted him he said: he doesnt treat himself good why would he treat me better. Huh?
Always critisize me, is he trying to break my ego? Or its just the way aries are.
But he can be so good sometimes. I clearly understand i should stay away from all this. But smth makes me deal with it.
Once i was very upset he was showing me a name and it had the word *heart* on it. And i said: you have none. And i could see he got very upset by my words.
I alwats try to let him do the first aproach when it comes to texting or calling.
Always likes to hold me in his arms. Everything is do weird.
Why is this so weird...
Well one night he feel asleep and left his cellphone there i dont usually check on other privacy. But one friend of mine suggested that he might be a drug user so i wanted some evidence about it. And i saw he had friend requested my 8years relationship ex. And i found that every time i wouldnt come over he will write to other girls and ask them to come over. I felt horrible. I screamed at him but he was to drunk asleep. In the morning i was calmer and i asked him: how many girls you have sex with.
He said: none, not even you.
He knew that i saw his phone anyway.
I think im trying to understand the guy, giving him chances over and over. Open up and help him out. Trying to stay all day there to keep him sober then he says he will get cigarettes and dissapears 30min and back all drunk. Wtf. Its getting tiresome.
I dunno if i should still try to understand him or just be selfish and move before i hurt myself.
Im a libra btw. Ris leo