Well now....

Ok. So, I posted asking about how much longer. Now, this weekend I decided to hang out with some friends at my house. Mixture of men and women. All having a good time, minding our own business. One of my neighbors comes down to join. He is my ex ' s roommate. He informs us that it pissed them off to hear us laughing and having a good time.
I just ignored it. I have lived in this neighborhood for 10 years. We have always had a great time over here. People always coming by. It's just a happy positive place over here.
That being said, I start getting these messages from both my ex and his miserable sister. I never responded to any. Mean nasty messages. Calling me names etc.
Next thing I know they are yelling things down the street.
I'm so tired of this.
He told me he didn't love me and was only with me bc he loves my kids. I'm tired of hearing it. While the drama of this weekend hurts me deeply, I do not understand why they won't leave me alone.
I also found out through the neighbor that my ex ' s sister and her bf broke up. No wonder. Misery loves company!
Please just leave me alone. Stay in your misery but leave me alone. I have now blocked both numbers.
My neighbor also informs us that he was asked by them where his "allegiance" stood. Really? Get over yourself! Just bc she has had problems with my other neighbor none of her friends or family are allowed to socialize.
Grow up, we aren't in middle school. This isn't a rivalry, it's only hers, we aren't at war. Get over it!

I'm doing what I can to cut it off. I stopped responding to his messages last week. No response at all to their messages this weekend.
They are beginning to make me really dislike him. I wish they would go on and move. Been hearing that one forever.
Their roommate told me that they had been drinking most of the day. The sister went to the store and bought liquor. My ex cannot do liquor. On top of the alcohol the roommate said that the sister kept telling my ex that I was seeing someone else bc she had seen me. He sees me home every nite. I mean he lives three doors down. She had been telling him that I'm no good for him and that I'll never make him happy. Telling him that I don't like her and how could he be with someone who doesn't like his own family. Just causing him to get more and more angry.
I don't hate her nor do I hate anyone. I choose NOT to be around her bc she makes the atmosphere a drain. There have been times that she has come down here and our happy atmosphere turns immediately sour. It's weird.
When she is with her bf and not staying at their house my ex and I are fine. Even when we were together we were fine. But if her and her bf are fighting (which they are now) and she comes home he becomes mean towards me.
I have finally accepted that he only loves my kids. I have accepted that he isn't going to control his sister so therefore I'm fighting a losing battle. I'm trying to move forward now. FINALLY! I almost fell back in, and then I remembered this kinda stuff.
I remember the day he told me he loved me, and I also remember all the times during our breakups that he told me he didn't.
This saddens me to think that things are ending so harshly and to feel that it's making me really dislike them.
I just want to move on peacefully.

Do you own your house? If not, I'd just move to a new neighborhood as soon as you could.

If so, I'd tell them to mind their own business because I own this piece of dirt and can do whatever I please.

As far as the other neighbor telling you all this stuff? I'd cut them off too. They're just keeping it stirred up.

By listening to the stories and caring about what they do/say, you're just feeding into the drama.