How much longer

How much longer is it going to take for my aries ex to stop contacting me?
He should be well aware that I'm not going to sleep with him any longer. I have made that very clear bc I don't entertain his thoughts or questions regarding that. I just stop texting.
The past few times he has texted he hasn't asked, finally!
I'm done. Almost two years of back and forth. One minute he loves me then good Ole sister comes around and he becomes mean and hateful, can't trust me, doesn't love me, says he only sticks around bc he loves my kids, blah, blah, blah...
I'm done with it..
I do love him but I'm not willing to go through this any longer.
I'm not hateful so I cannot be mean spirited. I will text as a general conversation, but not entertain anything regarding sex or relationship.
How much longer before he finally let's go?
I am the only person he has EVER had a relationship longer than a few weeks. We do; however, break up every 9 to 12 weeks. The difference with us vs his other FRIENDS is we somehow kept getting back together.
I wasn't willing to let us go that easy and kept running back. He always came back.
Now, I'm just over it. I don't want to live a life of watching him getting drunk every night, walk on egg shells around his sister bc according to her everyone is out to get her, etc....
HELP!
HOW MUCH LONGER? I thought that when aries were done that's it.....

You are texting back. Stop texting.

lol @ the whole "But i am only texting back as a general conversation, i stop texting back when it comes to me and him"

Stop texting again.

I haven't responded to anything today or yesterday. He is still texting. In fact a good night text about ten minutes ago.
If it weren't for the fact that I've had the same number almost ten years and it's the only one my grandparents know by heart I would definitely change it

Don't change it. Just have patience. He will stop at some point.

Stop being stupid and stringing him along, duh.

You're just as guilty as he is. Boo hoo. Grow a pair and be done with it.

Posted by feby
You two have children together?

No. He loves her kids.

I don't entertain us seeing each other. His texts end up with that question. I quit responding two days ago. He is still texting.

Yes, we had almost two years. Most of it was good until he decides otherwise. It was constant back and forth. When we were good we were great for weeks. Then suddenly he ignores me again. I'd try to find out why and he would tell me he didn't live me and just there bc of my kids.
I deserve better and so do my kids.
I don't want to go back again. I don't want to do it again. It's not going to be any different next time.
He still keeps texting me. Tonight I am having a get together for my son who will go to military combat training. He has been home 14 days now and all of the sudden he and his best friend want to come see him. My god, this man lives three houses down from us. My boy tried to go over there but no one answered.
I have been doing very good emotionally until now. With all of these texts and now wanting to come see my son I'm starting to slip.
I know exactly what I need to do and have been trying. Stopped responding to his texts. But I'm slipping.
This feeling is the reason I stayed single for 5 years before this man......

So stick to it and try not to be a doormat about it?

Slipping? Wtf for? In one sentence, you say you're tired of this and won't go back, but then the next, you proclaim that you're "slipping." WHY? What the hell is causing you to "slip" if the guy is creating this vicious cycle that you hate? What urge inside of you is causing you to want to "slip?"

Hey I understand what you are going through...I am Arien and she's a Cappy. We have not spoken for a year. We use to have a restart button (from me hating her and then loving her the next). Ariens get hard and then soft hearted. I am not trying to encourage you but it is good to NOT text at all if you decide that this guy is not for you and you want out of your life.

Aries men are CRAZY..period. There is an app for that...block his number and you won't see texts anymore. You will be fine...you got this.