What makes Aries women understand that the man is

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haffo, what do you mean with interested? like, in what way? i can certainly smell some, well, physical interest from a few miles. but i have to say i have a real problem when it comes to realizing someone's interest in me beyond that. even if it is clear to everybody else that someone's in love with me, i'm the last one to realize it. i always think it's a friendship or passionate thing, and even if a hundred ppl tell me, one guy's in love with me, i still don't get it.
but i'm a stupid aries, if it doesn't jump up and down yelling in front of me, threatening to bonk something at my head, i don't see it 😉
so how do you make me understand you're interested? say it :-)
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Tupeline

If I'm interested in someone it's very easy to understand, because I say it. For example as I said this to shene: "You can check me out whenever you want". Or maybe something like that "Hey you are a hot girl. I'm interested". As you see, it's quite simple. I don't play can and mouse games trying to hide something, I rather say it right into the face. If I'm accepted then I'm, if not then not. But I say it.
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Arianlatay

It's kind of mutual agreement. I throw my invitation and except the answer. If the answer is positive then the rest comes, but if no, then I feel no need to bother with it further and invest my time and feelings. The reason for why I act like that is that I think it's wrong to feel something toward a person except attraction before the ground you are going to walk on it is prepeared. I find it difficult to become emotionally detached once I invested some. And foolish too.
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Arianlatay, I so agree with you...I am always "playing" around or as some say, flirting. So when a guy plays back with me I think he is just playing and I do not take him seriously - I truly do believe that it is our natural child like wonder that is what others see and why we act the way we do...life just interests us - ALL facets of it. We are the playful creatures of the zodiac - play is our middle name!

Haffo, so you "THINK it's wrong to FEEL something toward a person except attraction before the ground you are going to walk on it is prepared." thinking with the head and not letting the heart do it's work. Sometimes life just does not work that way my friend...open up and let the universe bring to you what it needs to without judgement...you'd be surprise as to what you will experience with this attitude 😉

"thoughts are things....think GOOD ones 🙂"

Just my little diddy for the day.....
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Freebird

My dear. I know that what you are trying to do is to give me advise that will be best for me. I thank you for that. But unfortunately we are not living in the world where "feelings" has weight. We simply cannot trust people in that, and I see alot of people who got hurt for being so open. They really paid big price for it. I do understand that you want best for me, but belive me that what I do is really the best one.
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Yes...you must do what is best for you - I am not disagreeing with you on that at all. For it is you who must have peace within and that comes with following your heart and trusting yourself.

What my "thought" is...if we as people THINK that we are not living in a world where "feelings" has weight then that is true. What we THINK is what we get. I really do not feel that there is a problem with being open and yes, we all get hurt at one time or another, that is what comes with being a human and discovering ourselves. Again, it is our "thought" on what is hurtful and what is an opportunity.

The Power of Intention....have an intention and see it happen. If you believe that you live in a world where people trust their feelings then you will attract that to you. See? But, again my friend - you are the one to create your life by your thoughts...I was just sharing my thoughts, not attempting to change you or your mind - just sharing. 🙂

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"Yes...you must do what is best for you - I am not disagreeing with you on that at all. For it is you who must have peace within and that comes with following your heart and trusting yourself."

"What we THINK is what we get. I really do not feel that there is a problem with being open and yes, we all get hurt at one time or another, that is what comes with being a human and discovering ourselves."

I wish it would be THAT easy. Unfortunately it is not. Especially if you don't know what you want will bring to you. As you might have understood so far, we are living in the world where there no things like right or wrong. It's all about actions and conesequences. If we are not going to weight about our consequences then we perfectly act tactless, because emotional development of entire human race is too insecure for such behaviours to be accepted. Therefore, we have to think about consequences of our actions before we act on them. I agree with this statement:

"Yes...you must do what is best for you - I am not disagreeing with you on that at all. For it is you who must have peace within and that comes with following your heart and trusting yourself."

But then it has no different meaning from what I have said. If we did pave our way and know where we go, then we are in peace with ourselves, then we know where we step and obviously we know our consequences. But still, even thought we are in peace with ourselves, we still have no freedoom for feelings, because there is no system where we are % 100 know everything.
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"What we THINK is what we get."

Exactly. And most of the time we don't know exact consequences of what we want. Take an example of a person who experiences great anger. Maybe the best relief for this man is to kill the source of this anger (aka a person) which is very acceptible from side of feelings. But in reality killing someone might bring you a new experience where you would probably feel sorry for what you have did. You might sit in a jail for 25 years and say to yourself "I wish I would be dead when I killed him rahter than what I did. It's far more worse what I got now. It would be much better if I just forget about what happened and moved on." See? Realistically it's not an acceptible way of thinking.
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I always enjoy a listening to a convo between an Aquarious and Pisces, u mofos are naturally wise! but going back to the Aries woman, Aries is pretty much the most extroverted of all the signs, she'll tell you exactly what's on her mind. BUT, its like any other girl, they'll treat you depending on how u make them feel. Don't put tooo much thought into it, just do what comes natural and have confidence.